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+ 3 Let's Talk about Girlfriends/Wives and Gear Usage

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I know this has been discussed, I know that some of you are open with your spouses/significant others.

But I'd really like to hear personal experiences of revealing it to your girl.

Was she suspecting it, was she surprised, did she dump you? etc

I am now going on 5 months with my new girl, and a part of me wants to tell her...I love her and want to be open & 100% honest, but a part of me is a little scared she won't see it. But I also wonder if it really matters. (just keep it to myself, in the long run I will probably have to tell her) I know the media paints a bad picture, so I'd have to break through some of the brain washing.

Would really like to hear what you guys have to say and I bet there will be a broad spectrum of responses.

Pale's picture

Nothing wrong with trying to live clean but at the same time bro you are 25, maybe you can bend just a little and take a girl out on occasion. Just because you go out does not mean you have to drink or eat terrible. But my friend, life is short and time fly's..

irongame427's picture

Definitely man, I will gladly eat some delicious fatty food I love it. I just don't like going out to parties and packed clubs and bars. It's just not my think anymore. I will gladly take a girl out to dinner and that kinda shit. I just don't wanna go to a bar where in crammed in with 200 othe people drinking shitty beer. Bjt that's the problem. That's what people my age love to do.

VIKING EVOLUTION's picture

i second that bro Smile

irongame427's picture

Lol, I'm gonna have to start a month late due to that whole taking appropriate time off and being responsible but 8 weeks is still enouh for me to take home the W.

VIKING EVOLUTION's picture

Honesty = the key to a happy life.

Bill6191's picture

Happy wife, happy life

irongame427's picture

I don't get it, all you fucks are married. Please fill me in on the secret and what I'm missing out on?

Jc74s's picture

There is no secret man you have find a down as girl first my wife holds me down deal with my bs . It hard to explain my wife been there with me during a bid in the past even helped me when I got out to get on my feet she there in the end she put in work with me . Everytime I get a pack she says I need to stop but at the same time she likes when people Makes comments it's hard to find a good women that hold you Down go to war with you against the world but when you do you better keep her real talk

irongame427's picture

Word. I had a down ass girl for from 19-22 and she really changed me. Id probably be dead or caught a bunch of charges if it wasn't for that girl. But also if we didkt split id still be an unmotivated druggie waste of life. So it's good we got to together and also key tha we split. But I hate that someone else has the power to ruin my day. A girlfriends one thing but a true wifey if you guys fight your just miserable and I hate that. I hate that someone has that kinda power over me. I know what you mean tho about someone that will always hold you down no matter what. But it's hard to find a girl who's cool, hot and most important loyal. Took me 19 uears to find one and I can't say I been looking but every girl I fuck I analyze and see if there's potential and there never is. Always missing either the loyalty or the personality. Plenty of hot ones out there but that combination is hard to find.

Bill6191's picture

Dude, I honestly don't know... I always said I'll never get married, then boom I'm fucking married. I think it was the military that made me end up married. It's pretty cool tho, my wife trains with me, so it all works out

VIKING EVOLUTION's picture

We know it dont we bro...... damn true.

Bill6191's picture

I told my wife straight up that I was going to start, all she wanted to know was risks and benefits. She's on board because I was straight with her, and I'm willing to bet it would have been a shit storm if I would have kept it from her.... I think that applies to life in most circumstances, the more straight you are with people, the better off you will be

The Problem's picture

Hey man if she ask you about gear then be honest with her. If she doesn't ask, just go a long with it.