posted Tue, 06/18/2013 - 02:45
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+ 2 Closet AAS user. Do I tell my wife?
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I'm about half way through my first cycle and I have gained about 15lbs (165 to 180) and have been eating everything I can get my hands on. My wife and daughter keep asking "What's wrong with you?" Neither of them know I'm running a cycle and at some point I think my wife will find out. Do I take the proactive approach and tell her before she finds out on her own or do I just not worry about it? She's pretty conservative and I'm not sure how she will react.
What's been your experiences in telling your other half or them finding out?
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Good comment Makwa...I would def use the word "testosterone" which thanks to the pharmaceutical companies has been mainstreamed (ie. "You may have low T.") Rather than using the word "steroid" which in the general population has a much more negative connotation.
Good luck.
Let us know how it goes bro. I do have to ask, What IF she tells you she doesn't like the idea and wants you to stop cycling? Do you disrespect her by not stopping or just do it all in concealment and risk the fact that you NOW are lying to her by keeping it secret when you said you would stop. I know I'm just one voice here but there aren't too many women (there are exceptions) that would be ok with you injecting a chemical into your body ESPECIALLY after all the negative things that are said about our sport as early as elementary school.
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I'll go the other way. My wife would be super pissed though she does see me looking at gear pics and has a general idea since I'm bigger and more hornier. I figure why say anything. I'm hurting no one and haven't been asked directly. Its my body and her body is her body. She's a big girl, I'm a big boy. I'm not doing crack or coke so figure this is just my "supplements" so why raz me or rock the boat. And I won't stop doing it if asked and I won't tell her "take it or leave it" so why even go through the drama. Again, this is my wife and know how she thinks, your mileage may vary though with your wife.
Obviously tell her. She may even be a bigger supporter of your endeavor than you realize. Keeping up with diet changes and help with injections. The only question she may ask is why did you make such a big decision without discussing it with her first. This is your marriage being honest about it isn't really up for debate.
Tell her!!! For all the reasons everyone mentioned before because sooner or later she will find out. How you ask. Oh let me count the ways:
Once she finds out the truth (& she will), your trust is shot not just on this matter but everything else.
ALL RIGHT A WOMANS PROSPECTIVE! If she finds it and you've been lying to her.. it will open a whole world of "You've been lying about that, what else have you been lying about??" You need to tell her, but you need to tell her in away that she will understand. If you come out and say.. Hey Baby, I'm hittin the juice.. and leave it at that.. she's not going to be supportive... and more than likely pissed. If you sit her down and explain the compounds that you are running, the natural production and the difference it will help her understand. You need to approach it like a sales pitch. You need to be able to answer every question she will throw at you. Her number one concern is your safety and you will need to convince her that you are being safe. Lastly you need to give her a moment.. and the chance to research.. either open her an account here or do like Abaddon did, he allowed me to use his until I was ready to open my own account. I would spend hours each night reading.... never posting. Just trying to understand more about what AAS was. Trust me, once she has time to process it and sees that you are being smart she will come around.
boom EXACTLY what i did! sell the lifestyle! She will come around and defend you to her friends when they start asking questions. Mine did
Tell her! Oh amd nice name. Lmao
I would have went with Whoflungdung.
tell her man. I told my other half, explained to her the pros and cons, went through all the science and everything, and explained why the general public is so afraid of steroids. As long as you believe your doing something the right way, and you have your research to back you, there is very little for her to doubt / misunderstand. I wouldnt tell your daughter though, kids blab.
I'm with Nitti. If you really do love and respect her. You will tell her. Think about how you would feel if she was keeping secrets from you. That's not what relationships are about. You might find that she is very open to it. She may even run a var cycle or 2. I know that I've been in the open with Andromeda since the beginning and its one of the best things I've done. It's also allowed me and us to be open about everything else. If she loves you, she'll support you.
If you love and respect her, tell her. Just make sure you explain that it isn't dangerous when done correctly and invite her to come here and learn about it.
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Tell her, one less thing to stress about for you and hiding things from your other half is not healthy, relationships are built on trust bro.
It will be MUCH worse if she finds out on her own accord.
Tell your wife. If she finds out, then not only do you have to deal with it under less than ideal circumstances, but she is also left with that nagging feeling that there may be more that she doesn't know and it erodes trust. Your daughter, on the other hand, doesn't have a need to know.
Are you acting different or are you just eating a ton?
Behavior is about normal, very laid back. Increase in libido and food is about all.
It your wife, you married her, you aren't just dating...imo you should tell her what's up
Depends on the girl.if its your wife u should have a pretty good idea on how she will react.she prob will find out sooner or later and I usually like telling the truth over lies and manipulation.I told my girl when we first got together and its 2 yrs later and she's alright with it.I never hear anything about it.