posted Fri, 05/31/2013 - 06:02
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oh yea this was that friend sucide post... its been taking care of.. just want everyone to forget there problems and hit the gym and spend time with there friends . live love laugh my eroids brothers. thats all
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XV what you did today took compassion, guys and a little brute force. But you truly commited a selfless act by helping someone in need. Most of the time people are so caught up in their own lives that they don't notice or the have the mind set of "I don't wanna get involved," Sadly we don't know that our choice in that split second could be the difference in life or death. This post today served as a reminder that I do not know what others have going on in their life, and sometimes it's important to remember that somewhere someone's fighting battles you've never even considered. Live like you will die tomorrow. Love like you've never know hurt, heartache or pain and laugh like you are a child again.
AnonI hope he gets the help he needs. Unfortunately my little brothers best friend didn't make it this morning.
PLEASE EVERYONE help those who are crying out for help!!
XV I hope your friend gets well.
So very sorry to hear about your lose. I know this subject hits home for you in many ways. You are a strong woman and you and your family will over come this. My heart goes out to you, your bother and his friends family.
tread-mSo sorry N. Life is simply not fair sometimes, heart goes out to little bro and to his friends family, some tough days ahead. : (
BigBmajIf I had known a cop would get hit in the process I would have told you to call that second. Good job bro!
If you care about this guy, find his fucking stash, and pitch that shit. Honestly, I have had to deal with a suicidal lover and clearing the medicine cabinet is always strongly suggested. Man, honestly, if I where in such a deep depression that I was willing to take my life, I'd probably take some shrooms or dmt. Those are the most powerful, long lasting anti-depression remedies none to man. Stop him man, I have heard my own mother just act as if suicide is a casual act. That shit is fucked up, save your friend man.
Or you could do that.......vvvvv
Update** I went to his apartment and the first thing I did was grab his humolog slin and he caught me trying to steal it.. He got pissed and tried to get physical , so I punched him in the face and grabbed his broken hand and kicked him off his feet onto the ground . Where I grabbed a near by shirt and got on top of his back quickly and tied his hands behind his back with the shirt. I also took off my belt and tied his legs . Then I called the cops. Thirty mins later three cops show. They picked him up and he some how hit one of them with his shoulders , the cop got lodged 6 feet and onto his ass. Then he head butted the second cop. The struggle went on for 30 seconds and they finally tazzed his ass. The one of the cop sarcastically say "thank for helping" because I was just watching the whole thing. Mother fucker what u want me to do ... That's 260 lbs gorrilla on steroids , u should be happy I tied his ass for u .. I'm not gunna go near him , that was some scary shit
Good to know man.
Lmao! I would say I am sorry for laughing but it would be insincere plus I do love violence. You should have check those knots apparently they didn't hold
U should of seen the cop that got fell on his ass, he was so frustrated , his face made my day, I know he is signing up for the gym after he gets off
Lmao!
BigBmajI have a friend like that, who often threatens suicide. As a matter of fact I was a person like that at one point in my life.
The turning point for me was this - I told a woman I was with that I wanted to commit suicide and her response surprised me. She said "I think you should, with the amount of suffering you seem to be going through I think that option makes sense".
Now I know what people will say when they read this. But it was a major turning point in my life because I realized that I didn't want to die. I wanted to talk about dying and tell everyone how miserable I was. It hadn't really dawned on me until that moment. If I really wanted to commit suicide the last thing I would do is tell someone and have them potentially intervene. Most of the people I know who actually killed themselves never mentioned their plans to anyone.
I had spent countless days in therapy and in psychiatric hospitals with little to no success. The turning moment was when I realized I needed to stop talking about being miserable and doing something to change it.
My advice is not to tell him to do it. Obviously that's a pretty shitty thing to tell someone. Its that he doesn't want to die, he wants attention, and he feels like there is no way out. Help him think of possible solutions. I have gone from living in the mission one day to having a job, a car, and a place to live within weeks.
If I broke my arm right now I would fall into a terrible depression. I know I would, I still have to be very careful with my mood. The the difference is that now I would acknowledge my problem, and start doing lots of cardio and leg training. I would make the best damn set of wheels I could. I would take it as a chance to bring up those lagging calves I've had for 30 some years. And if it got bad I would go to my doctor and discuss antidepressants again.
I think a good friend calls his buddy and says lets go train legs and lets get the most awesome post workout meal we can find, my treat. Then gauge the situation and see what solution the two of you can come up with. Maybe you will need to call someone.
Good luck with everything.
Do whatever needs to be done to help your friend even if it ruins your relationship with him. I had a friend threaten to kill himself and was holding a gun to his head. I called the cops and they came and probably saved his life. He stopped speaking to me since then but the bottom line is that he is happy and healthy with his family by his side. Knowing that was all the thanks I needed. We may be done with eachother but his two little girls still have their daddy...enough said. Good luck brother.
AnonCALL THE CRISIS CENTER! NOW! Do your friend the favor and get him some help. Good luck it is a tough situation to be in.
There is a lot of good advice on here. I agree with Nitti on the matter. I would like to add one thing and that is more of a question; is he on a cycle or was recently on a cycle? You said he was just like us. If so the doctors need to be made aware of the situation so they can start treating him appropriately. Hormone inbalance is a big deal in and of itself without adding more hormones to the mix. Food for thought
thoughts and prayers to you and your friend!! the advice is here for you.. make the call...
Take Nitti's advise get him some help and now! As everyone else stated when you are watching the casket lowered into the ground it's to late. Don't live your life wishing you had done something. He will thank you I promise, he needs help that you can't give him. I wish you the best of luck, you are in a crappy situation. :-(
Even if he doesn't thank you or remain your friend! If he goes on to manage his life and is happy again. Will be thanks enough....
That's right NC... it's thanks enough that he lives. I've stood next to my best friend laying her husband to rest from taking his life.. it's worse than you imagine.
Keep us posted bro, good thoughts for you and your friend! The best advice has already been given here.
AnonYou cant take threats like that lightly, you'll never forive your self if you do. It doesnt matter what he thinks at the moment, you need to get him to agree to see someone, or get someone to go pick him up.
You need to call the local mental health facility or social services, he will blame you for being a 'narc; or whatever but when gets better he will be glad you did it. If he goes through with it and you dont do anything, you will feel guilty for the rest of your life and have one less friend....
I worked with a guy for 17 years. He was like this. His constant complaining and threats of suicide were old and tiresome. He had a better friend that worked there that claimed to have saved him from himself on more than 1 occasion. He was the shop joke because it carried on for so long. Well he showed us! They found him 1 morning with a hose off his exhaust ran up to his window, car running and he had taken a bunch of sleeping pills. DEAD It didn't seem so funny anymore. People that go through this on a daily basis have a serious mental problem or chemical imbalance of some sort. If he doesn't seek out professional help I'm afraid your friend will do the same. I don't know if you have the power to make him do this or not but he needs to find help fast. Good luck to you and your friend bro. Ill keep him in my thoughts for I know how volatile these people can be! Much love and good looking out but if he succeeds remember its in no way your fault!
Follow Nitti's advice and then go stay with him until he gets in somewhere to get help. I was in a situation similar to you years ago with one of my junior Marines. This was before it was acceptable to get help. I stayed with the guy all day and went home that night because I thought he was ok. I didn't seek out professional help like I should have. He chugged some whiskey and shot himself hours after I left. It haunts me everyday. Don't make the same mistake I do.
I'm sharing this because I want to spare you what I've gone through. If anyone wants to jump my ass over this, you can go ahead and fuck off. I've beat myself up for years over this.
this aint the place bro get him real help ASAP
Get him 302'd ASAP! He needs to be in a crisis center with ppl to talk to him and evaluate him. They won't let him leave until they feel he is ok and won't harm himself. Call a local crisis center like NOW!
^^what he said.. Your friend will thank you for it
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