Don't tell her shit and hide your stash well. First cycle you will blow up and sex drive will be through the roof and I'm sure she won't mind at that point. So if you are "honest" guy tell her after the sex drive comes in. But I'm not honest, especially where something can come back up in the future! I won't say a word

Tough call. I have taken both paths over the course of my life. I would recommend considering whether you see her or AAS in your future longer. I can promise that after you run that first cycle it will be hard not to go back to the proverbial well. However, if things continue to progress, and let's say that you two are living together by cycle number two or three it will get harder and harder to do it behind her back (been there, done that).

A good way to dip your toe in the water would be to mention that you are considering a run. If she freaks and starts laying down ultimatums then you probably need to decide if you want to pursue a relationship with her or with AAS. However, if she doesn't shut it down completely and responds with something like "Why?", "What will it do to you?" "Is it safe?" etc you will have the opportunity to build a case and get her on board with the idea.

Then of course there is always option number three which is to tell her, she freaks and gives you an ultimatum between her or gear and you say you won't do but lie and do it anyway.

I have done all three. Option three is the worst. It's easier to do something behind someone's back if they aren't suspicious lol.

I like your chances. Since it is still early on there is a legitimate chance that since you have never ran gear she assumes that you look down on AAS use like so many others and is just saying the things that she thinks will impress you or align best with your views.

Don't tell her. It will only come back to bite you.

Unless she is exercise motivated or has some knowledge of aas usage don't even bother telling her,with all the negative feedback from clueless idiots in this world she will hassle you forever about it you don't need the headache good luck bro.

Tough call honestly. I think confiding in your partner in any area about your true self is up to the individual and how close the relationship is. Personally, if I’m not living with the person I really don’t think what I do is there business....

I’ve only used AAS in two relationships and I made sure to ease the second girl into it and explain how hormones works and how they lower in men at a certain age. Wanted to educate her about it in a conversation prior to explaining my plains.

Fist girl was much easier because she was a stripper and surrounded by drugs all the time. Told her I was going to run a cycle and she said “what will happen to you?”
Me “I’ll get bigger and need more sex”
Her “perfect, I’ll pay for them... how much money do you want?”

True story

A really sweet woman who says exceedingly negative and extremely derogatory things about matters she has no experience or personal knowledge of - sounds like a catch to me. Women can turn real nasty real quick. If you tell her then break up in a few weeks/months - as sure as shit and a cat everyone will know. So take the advice of most of the guys here - just hold off for a while.

It is well known fact a woman can hide her crazy side 6 months in from moving in with her. You're not living with her, no matter what you tell yourself you don't know this woman, what she is like, how vengeful she may be, what she is capable of.

The other member on here have got your back, tell that woman nothing till you've moved in for the very least 6 months.

Unless you live in the UK where steroids are legal and pretty open then show that shit off like it's going out of fashion! Pin your chest in front of her while drinking 100 grams of whey protein and ego curling a 30kg dumbbell.

My wife knew six weeks in on my first cycle. I wouldn't tell her but if she asks I wouldn't lie. Just saying.

None of her business really. Unless you move in together there is no need to tell her about it at all. Don't lie if she asks but don't volunteer the info. I lived with a girl and didn't tell her anything really I just didn't hide it. There was no one day I sat her down and gave her a speech. I just pulled out my hcg one day while we were watching tv and pinned. She asked what it was and I told her (she was familiar with hcg because it's a diet fad with women). I never mentioned steroids but I didn't hide my stash it was in plain view in a drawer. She never asked me about it it was just understood. I'm quite positive she looked through my stash to see what the different bottles were at some point. Women where I live are typically more traditional though and kind of let men have space and be men. As long as I was at home and not in the streets she didn't really give a damn what I did lol

So you are yet to even do a cycle or know how it feels to be on, you've only just started dating this woman so barely know her and you feel you should maybe tell her you are going to be running gear? I've seen people get absolutely flamed for asking way more sensible things than this....

Fuck that shit if you tell that bitch what's up and you two break up then everyone will know your business and everything will always revert back to you taking steroids. Blah blah blah blah. Most things are good to be honest about but I would wait until you honestly think she's marriage material and the both of you are Heading down the road to tie the knot. I dated my now wife 4 years before I told her what was up.. just to protect myself in case shit hit the fan. Fuq I know guys who have cheated who have come home to 40 smashed bottles on their front door step along with a call to the local PD. Be smart don't be stupid bro.

Never refer to AAS as steroids.
Big pharma has taken some of the stigma out of Testosterone use.

you've never run a cycle so you're kinda getting ahead of yourself.

Keep it to yourself -let her get to know you first.
In time if she's "the one" or if it looks like you'll be moving in together then revisit this question.

Unless you plan on marrying her, I’d keep shut. You never know when she may pull that card out and be a vengeful bitch.

We have a saying here in Ireland from back in the days of The Troubles...

Whatever you say, say nothing

Once you put a ring on her finger then you can tell her. Otherwise when things go south she will be screaming to the whole world about how you use steroids which can bite you in the ass hard.

Yes...wait till she is bent over and drop it in her ass by accident and yell...i take test...as fast as you can...goodluck sir...see where it goes from there.

Wait until your pounding her so hard she doesnt know what happened. Perfect time to explain yourself. If it were me, I wouldnt tell her anything. My wife knows I use AAS but I dont tell her when I am cruising or blasting. Her job is making me lunches and taking care of the kids.

My advice to you
She is never going to understand until she see you are using it and you are safe
Other than that you’re going to get headaches from her
When I start I made it a secret my EXGF she was a nurse
When she saw my 2nd vial and she start seeing I’m safe and happy with it she just accepted and started injection me hahaha
Like cummin apart said do you home work thoroughly before jumping into anything

You don’t, you’re just dating. A wife would be a different story

Well it’s better to be honest, I kept it a secret for a while but that gets real old real quick!
Just explain to her the benefits of it if used responsibly, most of the bad rap and horror stories come from people that don’t know what they are doing. With that being said make sure to do your homework thoroughly before jumping into anything, good luck bro