I really dislike those ones who try to put their burden on other women calling it support. My wife had a friend named Kim who was the same way. Her marriage was going down faster than Mario Andretti on the freeway yet she was always nagging and bringing my wife down looking for pity support while trying her best to get my wife into that same negative point of view. The sad part was it was it working as soon enough my wife wasnt happy anymore for a bit of time and even contemplated leaving me. I would say what do you see in this girl as I could see right throuh her that Kim wasnt happy at all despite having the house and kids but she was spending more time burying my wife in her pain. That was a tough time period for me as my wife and I had always struggled and we didnt have the house, I was bouncing from job to job trying to find my niche while Kim and her husband were liuving the good life on paper but they didnt have what we had which was LOVE FOR EACH OTHER. So my wife became very frustrated with our financial situation as she was being inspired by the Jones's sorta of speak but I fought for her with all my heart but still to this day I think back to when she wanted to leave me due to such a negative force pulling her away from what we had. Now to this day my wife cant stand that chick and neither can I. Something aint right when a lady is married and never athome she eventually got divorced and now her kids are a mess, that lady has horrible parenting skills and now her kids have that same negative attitude. Misery truly does love company

Fellas I don't know if your referring to me but I don't even know this cat. This is the only name I've ever had and I've never got in trouble for "karma whoring". I didn't realize that commenting on a old thread is suspicious. Some people just miss the topic all together. You guys ever think of that???

Your a lot nicer than I. My wife had her friend from New York in town for 10 days and in the 9th day I just had enough. Her childs' behavior was starting to affect my 3 daughters behavior. She and her son wrecked my house daily and wouldn't pick up after themselves. I told that bitch to get the fuck out. Of course she started crying like she was going into hyperventilation mode so I had to suck it up and say sorry so she wouldn't start driving to New York a 7 at night but I made sure she knew that she had to go back home the next day. I believe that if you can't respect my house and my rules them you just better kick rocks...

Deleted!!!! Good catch BigBmaj

I agree with Badger on this one. Girls love to talk about their problems and gossip with each other. But if it is a constant thing speak up. Tell her hey we are sorry your life is not perfect right now but we are not relationship counselors and I want to spend time with my chic since we are in a good relationship! Say look here Debbie Downer here is a tub of Ben & Jerry's and a ticket to the Dr.Phil show...Now get to steppin!!!

Maybe your wife is enjoying the company and attention. Try making plans with her to go do something when u get off work..it will be a win win kinda. Start making plans more n maybe the other chic will start backing off.

Install one of those little stealth teddibear homecams and see what they do before you get home.

vacum when they are talking while wearing your transformer whitey

i bet if you walk around with sum nut huggers on your girl will definitely send her home done it twice to my chick had the same problem friend always over the crib when i come home jut want to chill get some head theres that biach cock blocking all freaking night.....anyway make it short do that thank me later.....

Make plans for just the two of u...A LOTTT!! And make them for when you get home just have her be ready to go get dinner or shopping or starbucks or something...but get her occupied with you so her friend doesnt have a chance to always be there. Then say..something while u are out like...isnt this nice just spending "us" time? And kinda start hinting how you like the us time...just a round about thought.

Orrr be blunt and dont sugar coat it and say...hey woman...i aint diggin ur debbie downer friend crashin my hiz-ouse all the time. It would be nice to come home and be naked without her glarin at me all cross eyed!! Dat bitchh needs a nutha hobby!!

But I dont think i would advise the latter. Just sayin. But if you chose to...please fill us in how THAT one pans out!

Sounds like you are stuck between a wife and an ugly chick! Just sayin:)

Do what you normally do when she's not there.If you watch tv naked,then have at.It sounds to me like she has become a part of your family and there is no need for you to live your life different.

Put a pool table in the garage!

You need to find a time that you are alone with this visitor. Take her aside, grab her by the throat and tell her in the most serious voice possible that one short visit per month is enough. Let her know that if she tells your woman or anyone else about about the confrontation that she will end up 6 feet underground.
Put your foot down brother. Life is hard enough dealing with one woman in your life.
Good luck!
All my love, no homo
Ed

thats why you don't live with them. come on man, im ten years younger than you and i already figured that out. even if i ever do cave and get married, i wont move in with em. not fucking worth it.

Deal with it brother ! It will only make both of you stronger ! It is what it is ! It will soon be over!