posted Tue, 02/19/2013 - 20:53
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Criticized for being in shape??
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I don't know about u guys but i get this A LOT...especially when the weather starts to get nice and i'm ON, when going out to public places, or using public transportation ( train, bus) people often stare to the point where it gets uncomfortable, sometimes make comments to each other, sometimes laugh and giggle..i'm wondering why? I'm in way better shape than you, i should be the one laughing. Point is most of the attention i get is negative, i'm wondering how bros here deal with it and contain themselves from bashing someone's head in cause it gets that serious sometimes
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Because people laugh and stare if you are different. If they are staring at you and all that other stuff, that obviously means you are not like every other human. I would be very proud of that, and would take that as a positive thing even if its negative attention. Be happy you aren't the same like everyone else.
those are just idiots really looking for attention and odds are they are jealous
definitely bro i know it's jealousy, just trying to figure out if it's something else besides that. Like if i tell my girl '"look at this m'fer staring, he's jealous" she'll sometimes respond by saying ''u need to stop being so conceited" WTF?
My dad always say..."Hey round is a shape"
AquaManThey blame you for not being like them, you make them feel insecure
CleyonI just fuck their girlfriends... Just kidding, but yeah I get what you mean. When I have people being rude like that I start a conversation with them, and try to defuse the situation. I'm really good at that.
when people are jel this happens lol am by no meens massive but in shape and look realy cut people allways have something shit to say about people that look better than them.its just life people said i was to cut and needed to put more bulk on... when your looking at a guy whos smashed dbols for 2 month and eat like shit with so much water on him and he looks like michelin man that pisses me off.everyone has there perfect body but to some thats there nightmare its just personal preference i think and learning to have a hard skin which seems to fail me everytime lol.next time someones being shit just knock out a double bicep to them and smile lol or even better just look them in the face...cold glare for 5 seconds....then say:YOUR UNDER WEIGHT EAT MORE !!! or if its a fatty say:YOUR OVER WEIGHT EAT LESS !!! then finish with a smile
Bro I get it a lot from my family (not my wife), they all tell me im going to die sooner, and that I need to enjoy life and eat like crap, I get pissed off! How could you tell me I'll die sooner when I eat healthy, train regularly and they eat like shit and their workouts consist of laying down on the couch. I tell them that I do enjoy my life, I tell them that this lifestyle is a passion and I enjoy every second of it. They always say "when you stop working out when your older you'll get fat" and I come back with "well even if that does happen at least it will be when im old not young and fat like you" lol
i feel ya right there man! i get the same crap from my family and friends!
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I am pretty sure every one of us hopes to be noticed for our bodies. If we know we are in shape compared to most that don't train as hard, then I would say that any attention means we look different from the norm. So its all good. Take it all as a compliment. But also make sure you don't down on anyone no matter what they look like otherwise you would be the hypocrite.
RJ your not on tren are you? Haha I become semi schizophrenic on that shit! I know how you feel. I notice it at the gym more then anywhere. It does get annoying after a while.
Especially when the gay ones at the gym start following u around
AnonDefine good shape ? This goes back to that argument another former member made about wanting it to be obvious he was juicing. Do you look like a pro wrestler ? Or do you look like a triathelete ? Both are in some kind of shape but very different from each other .
More like pro wrestler without the height, im only 6ft..those guys are 6'3" and above
Anonyeah those guys are freaking giants . But anyway, you see your "shape" doesnt fit in to societies norms. I dont think you should be worried, its your choice your body. But it is impolite on their parts, would they do that to a fat guy, or a guy with one arm ? Wrong is wrong, dont let your self get worked up by someone like that.
Who knows though, maybe they are staring in admiration, and are just nervously laughing.
Probably intimidated Just stay humble, say hi!
The only reason why this would happen is because the guys want to be you and the woman want to be you.
Now those people express this feeling differently, guys who are too lazy and shy from ambition would be like "man he looks ridiculous" which is absolute bullshit, its like saying "steven hawking is too smart" its were they want to be in your position but they are losers so they'll never achieve it, so instead they criticise you for it.
Its the most pathetic and small minded approach to life, yet we have so many of these people among us.
breakingfaceAwesome. Well put. Im using your stephen hawking line.
Those are the same 150lb ass clown types that say things like "i don't weight train because i don't want to get all big and bulky" like that shit happens overnight by accident
breakingfaceA guy at my gym said that to me once. I laughed and said " dont worry you're not going to have the problem".... It's just a way for guys to set ultra low expectations so they are content with no progress. Imagine telling a potential employer that you dont want to work too hard and get all successful.
Lmao! I know right?!
I always laugh to myself later on when a guy gives me the up and down. The up and down from a girl is expected from time to time but when you get it from a guy, either he's queer or maybe he was thinking about fucking with you and then realized it probably wouldn't be such a good idea. The second one is the one that makes me laugh.
breakingfaceYou're a walking reminder of fat people's insecurities. I don't care what anyone says, fat people are not happy people. A lot of times they hide behind humor.
Pretty sad when people are threatened by inspiration.
One thing Ive learned in recent years is that no one puts you in a bad mood. You decide to be in a bad mood. You're responsible for your own emotions. So when you come across negativity you have the options to borrow some or let it stay right with the person that has it.
weird thing is it's mostly the skinny ones that give me shit, fat people usually try to get my advice
breakingfaceSame rule applies. Ill expand on my thought by adding people who are generally unhappy with themselves.
AnonIts because the men want to BE you... and the women want to BE WITH you.
Just smile. The lazy bastards cant do anything to help themselves, so they try to blow out another's light, so theirs will shine. Blow that pencil neck a kiss or eye fuck him (screw face)
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Man! Let me tell u, same here there's people that has tell me crazy cause I work out, but that's 1 thing that drives me even more, cause I know what am doing and I know where am going and I have a goal in mind, and not every body like to be at the gym all the time Thats what makes us different from the pack!
Often people criticize those who actually look better, Is just a way for the lazy and out of shape fella to say: "i wish i look like him/her but i'm not willing to go thru all the work, diet and training"
Ignore the fuckers and smile back at them, even wink an eye ;)
well a guy walkin with his lady may laugh as they walk by and say to his girl "haha what a freak" but you know all the girl is thinking is "damn i need to leave this loser and get a man with a body like that"
AnonI've been soaking up some gear and looking pretty good. I had a woman commenting me, on my body last night you talk about making a guys head swell. I cant think of anyone that doesn't like compliments.
moments like that that makes it all worth it. it's not like you just pin a few cc's a week and eat hamburger helper. takes much more work then that so the looks and compliments are always nice
you said it already...you're in better shape, so laugh it up
Lol