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+ 5 Break-ups and motivation

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Hey fellow eroiders,
I hope everyone is doing good! This post isn’t related to gear, but is something I’m sure plenty of us have experienced and learned from.

Going through a rough breakup of 7 years. Luckily we have no little ones yet, and we’re not legally bound so there’s not too much of a mess left behind. The only pain so far is mental. Guessing where I went wrong. Getting cheated on and harnessing that insecurity is what caused me to initially take the steps of getting in badass shape years ago. Now that the woman I put everything into is leaving and did the same- I’m taking it to the next level. Mark my words y’all. If anyone else is going through this- leave her in the dust, harness the insecurity/anger/sadness, and use it to better yourself. We only got ourselves at the end of the day.

simonmagus84's picture

Don’t depend on women for happiness, find a way to be content within yourself. Society in general has become too superficial, uncommitted searching for the next best thing like compulsive hedonists and absent of integrity. Men also need to acquire these feminist ideals being conscious and hypersensitive. I’m married but I had a reflection stating if somehow this doesn’t work out, there’s no sense of me ever pursuing a relationship. I just don’t think it’s natural unless you want to start a family. Companionship is something different, you can genuinely have good times with people without the extra pressure of a relationship. We’re naturally meant to be nomadic and social engineering has demanded that we deviate from what men actually are, simple creatures.

Side note**** don’t marry a woman from this country. Women with Cultural backgrounds still uphold conservative traditional values. Sorry to cast judgement, I’ve just given up hope on our society.

smurfdude1234567's picture

No judgement here brother. She a first true love and we were planning a family. I am content, and am progressing surprisingly okay through this. I agree to a T. I may pursue it again if the PERFECT female falls in my lap, but for now I’m wreaking havoc on my local bars haha. Social media in America has ruined tons of women-especially girls in their 20’s. Can’t imagine what the kiddos in high school are doing these days.

simonmagus84's picture

Hopefully society rectifies itself as it always seems to do through the course of history. I used to hate f**k or attempt to slay the semen demons who I’ve identified them as the offspring of lust from Eve and also Lucifer. This was all due to a broken heart then that shit got old real quick and started to seek genuine quality people who were good at heart not for physical desire but for my own sanity because I really lost all hope. They’re out there, just be patient and be true to yourself my brother.

smurfdude1234567's picture

I’m lucky to have a great family, friend, co-worker, and brotherhood atmosphere. They all keep me sane and healthy even when they don’t realize it. Eroids has helped a ton during it too. I’be been going on here anytime I need advice, a laugh, or just want to research. The buddies I’ve made here are quickly becoming close too! Life isn’t all about women. It’s about making change for the better and lovin’ yourself.

eighty7's picture

Hopefully the new guy makes her a single mother

smurfdude1234567's picture

Hahaha prolly will. Blondes dude… blondes. I respect srcs that actually humanize themselves, and have had my eye on ya for a while. Next order will be no excuses!!

DeeMan's picture

Yessir no excuses not to order. +1
I surely didn't have any.

eighty7's picture

Goodluck with everything man

Itspossum's picture

Sorry to hear it bud. Going through a divorce after 8 years myself. It's been better motivation than anything else.

smurfdude1234567's picture

Agreed. It hurts, but was a huge kick in the ass. Have been perfect in my routine since they day it happened. Started some tren A too haha

Itspossum's picture

Hell yeah bud. Time to become a beast.

DeeMan's picture

Time for the both of you guys to become a beast. Welcome the the mysterious land of Beastville!

Itspossum's picture

I'm about two weeks deep in 300mg test E, and just popped my first ever anavar. Gym bags packed, pre-workout is shaken and I'm out the door. I'm gonna go get some gains. Pick yall up anything while I'm there?

DeeMan's picture

Yea pick us up some women and muscles lol! Now make those weights MOVE!

smurfdude1234567's picture

x2! D-man I’m gonna sneak in one night and pin ya with some of unc’s stank TNE just so ya see how it is… lol had the craziest workout yesterday!!!

DeeMan's picture

I'm sure tne could be made without
that "stank". @UncleYoked make this happen please for "stank" avoiders like me. You mentioned this before.

UncleYoked's picture

It's possible, can drop it to 50mg or make it at 100 with pg/ps80, won't be taking it in a slin though

DeeMan's picture

Pg/ps80 would be great for guys like me that stay away from the "stank" lol.
I remember the ole school dbol inject was made with propylene glycol. Also making it 50mg without guicol would be great. Don't need 100mg preworkout. Seriously think about it. Alot of folks like me out there.

smurfdude1234567's picture

PG is actually way worse inflammatory wise for me than guaiacol even.. considering the toxicity. I’d try another 50mg/ml blend.

DeeMan's picture

Really? Dang. It's toxic but not like guaicol. But I understand. Remember he could do 50mg/ml without guaiacol. That's probably the best route. 50mg preworkout should be enough @UncleYoked

smurfdude1234567's picture

Yeah standard recipe without eo or guaiacol can suspend 50 from what I understand. That’d be perfect. I dunno why man. Injecting anything with PG gives me a killer headache. maybe it’s an allergy. Weird becuase as an ex-smoker I suck this vape with vg/pg/nicotine mix 24/7 just fine. Methods of ingestion clearly have something big to do with it.

DeeMan's picture

Yeah that's strange. Well hopefully unc can make it all happen. I'd stock up

smurfdude1234567's picture

I’m sure it’s the dosing. I’ve had some at 50mg/ml that didn’t have any, but I’ll take the less volume and a lil toxicity for that kick every once in a while.

DeeMan's picture

That dude they call smurf! My man what's good? It's funny that you said that cause I was thinking about pinning some of that " stank" for todays workout. Lol I think I'll live. Just hope I'm not allergic to guicol.

smurfdude1234567's picture

Slin pin 25-35mg to stay safe, but be sure you’ll notice it man. Tri/bi/delt- I’d go delt since you’re pip sensitive. I’m not allergic thankfully. It’s such a small amount it’s unnoticeable to me and definitely won’t use everyday maybe 1-3x a week. Little lump left today but zero pain throughout it surprisingly.

DeeMan's picture

Now I can dig that. Lol that at least makes it sound tolerable. Honestly I didn't wanna waste it. I want that preworkout test kick that y'all been talking about

smurfdude1234567's picture

Let me know if ya try it! Imma dose 50 again tmrw for leg day

DeeMan's picture

Will do

Bill1976's picture

Yup and get revenge by getting jacked and fucking all her friends. Trust me give it 8 months and some of her friends will fuck you. Been there done that

JakeKO's picture

My exwife’s best friend was fucking me within three weeks after our breakup. Some women are just devious. I hate fucked her for about eight months. No joke

DeeMan's picture

Lol

Bill1976's picture

Wish I could thumbs up this twice. Believe me when I say any woman you date wants to know what’s it’s like with their friends man. Something I have learned

JakeKO's picture

Been there, done that. Shit ain’t easy because I carried that bullshit into my current marriage, and every now and then when running Tren, my damaged mind gets the best of me, and I start thinking she’s fuckin around. Good luck, Bro! Sometimes I think my ex-witch fucked me up for life. Very hard to trust anyone, and that was fifteen years ago.

wanted's picture

X2

UncleYoked's picture

Sounds like someone is about to get huge. Sorry you been there but it's a hard lesson to learn. You'll be better for it.

smurfdude1234567's picture

Let’s just say you’re coming back at the perfect time Unc

Pumped_'s picture

My Grandfather told me never trust anything that can bleed for 7 days and still live!

press1's picture

HAHAHAHAHAAA!!!!!

If it Bleeds - We can kill it ....

BlakeYoppa's picture

Run a tren cycle bro I recommend smashing everything in sight lol -- good luck been there it sucks brother like bro said take it out in the gym, don't forget your caber with the tren lol

Legion of Doom's picture

Are best friend is the weights and gym they will never cheat or hurt us like some women can but once u find the right one it’s amazing good luck brother and stay positive.

Diesel22's picture

Been there with my ex-wife brother. Hang in there buddy!

Brozowski265's picture

Time for you bro.

press1's picture

Been there and got the T-shirt bud! Early 20's and met this little sexy bird who had got my number off someone I knew. I knew she was the wrong kind and had cheated on her last BF but she was very good at portraying an innocent sweet girl to me who was just taking revenge for what he had done to her, thought I was different LMAO So I get with her and everything is great but at 6 months guess what? She cheats on me and fucks off. 6 weeks later she's bored and gets back in contact with me as he 'just wasn't the same' as me Lol Being mug I take her back. Guess what does the same a year later and tries to convince me it was all my fault and I made her do it!! Never EVER take these kind of women back as cheating is all they know, they have no of empathy for others and are basically sociopaths with tits!!! Lessons learned eh Bro ROFL

Bill1976's picture

It’s like they have a playbook on what to say after they get caught.

Brozowski265's picture

How you know my baby momma bro. Smile

Giddy89's picture

From the sound of it, seems to me we were all passing around the same thotty. Or maybe they are just all cunts but I’ll tell ya this, if my ex had as many sticking out of her as she’s had stuck in her, she’d look like a gd porcupine.

smurfdude1234567's picture

This is why I love this community… great advice and life lesson all while putting a smile on my face even on a day of pain. Y’all rock!

Rustyhooker's picture

Been there bro....time to really focus on you and what makes YOU HAPPY. Good luck...rise above...

Brozowski265's picture

Release the kraken

Rustyhooker's picture

Right?! Swole season is upon us