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My 3 year old son was diagnosed with autism. We have him in the best programs now. But I would like advise if anybody here has a child with autism. Anything helps. Maybe we can all help eachother and share knowledge
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Look up Centers for advanced medicine and Chelation therapy. The younger you start them the better. Don't give him any more vaccines.
My son is a high functioning autistic teenager.. People don’t even know until I tell them… He’s very smart and very good in sports… If you teach him something the correct way it doesn’t take him long to master whatever it is he’s doing.
I have a cousin who is autistic. The spectrum is so big that each are unique is some ways and similar in others. I know the one thing was the drugs being prescribed through years that cause weigh gain, very bad acne and behavior issues. He speaks and font shut up lol but he will ask me the same questions every time he sees me. Questions from years back. You can speak with him but he always reverts back to the same questions. Believe it or not he’s. Doing the best he ever has now at 22 and taking Narcan. It’s stop him from spacing out momentarily and from getting to excited with little or no side effects.
Autism spectrum disorder is very broad and has many degrees of dependency.
I, like many of us, am just beginning the journey, and have not gone beyond omega 3 so far (and it works quite well, I was pleasantly surprised).
If I need to raise any point about her treatment and medication in the future, I will bring it up and explain how my daughter is doing.
At the moment we do (mental health / psychomotricity / speech therapy / omega 3 supplement)
thanks for sharing.
Good luck buddy it’s difficult but we’ll worth your efforts.
Nonviolent Thinking by Marshall Rosenberg. It changed my take on everything and how you relate to things. Even autism.
Book or movie?
My wife was in tears for all the advise down you guys. She says thank you. You guys are great parents the world needs more living parents like us.
We are united by common questions, these are not problems, these are just questions. And tell your wife that we are with you. Together, people always support each other and as a result it is easier to go through life.
Warrior mom is what it is
The other great pillar of our lives
She is doing very well
DonJon7You are doing amazing man!
DonJon7Let me just say this. At the moment I’m training a guy I met on instagram that lives in my town . I started training him, he did tell me he has autism before we even met. I felt even better about training him when I heard that. I was nervous at first but when I started training him we connected and he goes harder than most roid heads I know. He is a very smart and talented dude . He is only 21 , I train him because he plays football in the club team at his college and he wants to be better even tho he is a beast already. Anyway yeah he has so much interesting things to say and all this concepts that blow my mind. He is also caring and motivational and always even tells me to keep my head up which almost makes me cry like a baby lol. I learn from him every day . Now he is one of my good and loyal friends because I don’t have many and I thank GOD for bringing him in my life . Thanks for reading guys!
I hate the way some people feel they need to explain themselves or the way they are at first, if they are a good person then that's all that matters - doesn't matter if they have something different about them. Nice story too
DonJon7Agreed. I kept telling him he didn’t have to but I just let him because he really wanted to so if that’s what made him more comfortable to open up and stuff that’s ok with me. And yeah I feel the same if you’re a good person that’s all that matters you don’t have to explain anything to me, be proud of who you are because each of us were put here with a purpose.
Well said friend
My biggest fear as a parent has always been that my daughter will be rejected.
It is true that I have found bad apples in life.
Playing in a park and giving candy to all the children except my daughter or inviting them to birthday parties except her...
As a parent, those things hurt a lot.
But most people are not like that, they interact with her and with us and you see that your daughter improves day by day and they help you a lot.
(and it's not because I weigh 100 kg I train MMA / BJJ and live in a town lol)
But because good people prevail over everything else.
As a father you improve a lot, you have to change things for her and when you find the point, I always say the same phrase of seeing the world like them, there is the solution
At least in our case.
Thanks.
Amazing history
thanks for sharing.
we always learn and keep adding.
DonJon7Yes 100%. I’m always open to learning something new.
First of all, such special children, flowers of life. They are usually very talented, the main thing is to find where he really likes and is interested and develop. They are very tactile and attached to their parents. You must become for him the eyes and ears of this world. And treat him like a best friend. My brother's son is also diagnosed with autism.
He knows mathematics and physics better than anyone at school. He is a real god in programming.
my daughter was also diagnosed at 3 years old (she is 6 now).
They began to notice it at school with the first symptoms of hand flapping, and it was difficult for her to interact with other children unless you helped her take the first step.
At the intelligence level, he is very good because the tests show him to be above average for his age and he is incredibly intelligent.
I am taking her to psychomotricity and speech therapy classes, they are called here (even the state is helping me with a small grant) apart from psychological appointments to see if they improve or if she does not walk as she should.
The normal thing is that with the passage of time it becomes accentuated, but with help and that parents see the world a little in the way of our children,
everything will go very well.
Mine is beginning to develop hyperactivity (something very normal in these cases) but an omega 3 children's complex helps a lot in this case.
you'll see that everything will be fine friend.
Greetings
You are excellent parents, and your child will be happy in life. He grows very smart and quick-witted. God help you, he is with you and will help you and your child.
I really appreciate your words and your advice friend.
you will be a great support for your brother and nephew.
I wish you both all the best
Thanks for the kind words. Yes, it all brought us closer, and I have a feeling that he and my son too. We even decided to buy a common house, and now my family and his live under the same roof.
I am sure that everything will be fine with you and your child is the best and most talented. A great future awaits him.
A great future awaits everyone
they will eat the world and be immensely happy
thanks for sharing.
I sincerely believe in it, the best is yet to come.
Wow thank you. Yes my son claps a lot. He doesn’t talk yet but I can tell that he’s going to talk soon. Very smart but with too much stimulation he panicked. Did this part get better for your child?
His teachers see how me and him play rough. They say that’s a good thing because he lives to rough house with daddy. They told me it will help him with his panicking with overstimulation. Thanks for responding. This os scary to me.
I'm sure you can do it, you are a team. You are a family and happiness awaits you in every day you live.
the process of speaking is different and each person needs their time, but I am glad to know that it will start soon.
I have another 2 year old who doesn't say a word (we are monitoring him) because there is a good chance he will develop it too (same patterns) but the positive thing is that he involves you in all his games and is very participatory, which is a very good point in favor
I understand you about the overstimulation part, in my case it has improved but working on it a lot, sometimes it also gets worse (1 step back / 2 steps forward)
in my case I give you examples
if she does not look you in the eye (get on your knees or at her level and look at her and explain) it is very important to work on it
If she doesn't listen to you due to overstimulation (trying to give her peace and explain things one by one) if we saturate her with information, she doesn't flow.
If she is playing with children making a circle and one child gets out (she does not allow the game to continue) then she has to work on it, everyone plays, everyone wins, she cannot always win.
when she lost her first tooth, she suffered a seizure (because she didn't understand losing a tooth)
the jokes (typical of touching the nose) "attack" because she doesn't understand it like we do.
She has to work on it and the improvement is very noticeable because you see that she begins to understand joking / seriousness / anger.
I'm talking to you on a personal level, because each child develops it in a different way, but those tips helped us incredibly a lot (and it's nothing out of the ordinary) if you look at it carefully.
That he plays rough with you is very good, you create a very strong bond with him and it will help him a lot with his panic.
Anything you need to ask me without obligation friend.
I am also very afraid but they grow up happy and with a full life, also with a mega-father like you everything is going to be great.
Thank you. I appreciate all the info and help. Hopefully I can help others through my experience. You guys are great. I try to show him love and teach him the best I can. He’s the sweetest boy.