posted Sun, 03/22/2026 - 19:45
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Hey everybody, curious if anyone else has been in a relationship where the partner taunts you just to piss you off? I’ve been with this girl for a couple yrs now. Last 6 months she’s been a complete bitch. The past few days have been worse unfortunately. Today after hrs of her taunting me, then finally hitting me, I lost it for a minute. Before I knew it I had her by the throat. Not hard but that’s not me. I have never put my hands on a lady. She tries and accomplishes making me lose it so I have to get away before I need an attorney. Anyone else deal wit crazy bitches?
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Peace comes first. There is better out there. Forget her and leave it in the past. It will only cause your life pain
Leave that shit or you might be sharing a shower with me. Wished I could go back 18 months and make that call correctly But here we are.
Damn man you locked up right now?
Here’s what you do, walk calmly outside to the garage. Pick out whatever vehicle you own with the fastest engine. Get inside and put the accelerator to the floor GTFO of there!! Don’t look back just leave your clothes shoes fuck it all! Seriously dude, leave NOW. Some women LOVE that shit, and you found one.
She’s doing this because it gets her horny bro. Just grab her and start fucking her
Dude I’m begging you to take the advice that I wish I had taken a long time ago and domestic violence charges later and I never even hit her. Our relationship started out with her acting a lot like the girl you described. She would scream stop hitting me in the middle of the living room drunk hoping the neighbors would here and call the police. The police would come she would make herself cry point to a bruise sometimes the police would believe her and arrest me. She would sober up come bail me out and then apologize and say she didn’t know why she did that. It was scary when she would bail me out sometimes bc the judge literally had just told me that bc there is pending charge I am to have absolutely no contact with her. But in my mind I didn’t a choice After 4 years of hell and thousands in lawyers fees I finally listened to what everyone had been telling me all along and I moved out and changed my number.
This is what good pussy sounds like
lol why is it always the crazy ones lol
Time to walk bro. It's getting physical and there is something in her brain telling her your the enemy. That won't change overnight and I'm fairly certain you can't fix this one. Sucks being on the market these days but beats catching charges: (domestics)If he did it once he will do it again kinda vibe and that doesn't go away.
KingOfTheParrotsjust create distance, dont see her for a week and let it cool off
Ive had my ex wife gets me locked up multiple times and put orders of protections on me for calling her stupid over the phone. Once I showed up to give my son some candy and snacks well she started yelling at me for showing up unannounced so her mother comes outside walking up on me fast I stuck my hand out to keep her at arms length away from me she told the cops I touched her shoulder and that was enough for them to take me to jail for the night! WOMAN CAN BE SO EVIL --
This kind of situation is why I won’t go back. A scorned woman is evil for sure. I refuse to be a part of the in and out of jail cycle over a damn women. Pussy is a dime a dozen. I think she forgot it lol
Shit makes me sick just opened a letter saying child support from that bitch tried to intercept my state taxes but HAHAHA im a twisted fuck and made sure id have to pay back !! Man guys i hate that whore that I once loved its crazy how the tables turn
The line between love and hate is so thin
Extremely True - It's because to truly hate a woman you have to of loved them first. The women you have met in life who you never had any feelings for you never end up hating, even if they have done some vile shit towards you.
Yeah, bro, boundaries have been crossed that can't be un crossed, i've had a crazy one like that before, But it's time to end the relationship if it's progressed to that point. It's hard when it happens, but you're going to be way happier Once it's done.
When I was in the army, my wife took off and was living with some other dude in the barracks. When she returned after a week, I checked her purse when she went to the shower and I found the base pass for the guy she was staying with. Told her I was going to report him to my commander for adultery, she flipped out, attacked me with a steel chair and cracked one of my ribs. Then try to jump out the fourth story window because she loved him. I grabbed her and pulled her back in, she started telling me about how he felt inside of her, and I snapped and slapped her. I'm incredibly lucky that my command protected me,
My God mate - What a Bitch!!! Fuckin nuts some of them, as well as Heartless cunts. I've always said it - women are way worse for cheating on their partners than men are, its just they tend to be more cunning and devious in the way they go about doing it so get caught less. The men they are sleeping with are also less likely to open their mouths about it too as women are good at manipulating them.
Most of us have dealt with atleast one crazy girl. They’re only for having fun, not for relationships. This is why you don’t tell your girl you run gear. That bitch will be down at the police station with all your shit before you know it and you’ll be in handcuffs. We’re all on doctor prescribed TRT and nothing else (so there’s an excuse for why there’s needles and stuff like that in the house).
Thankfully my wife has been supportive of that. Even when she first moved in and I told her about it but thats because I fully trust her. It got to the point I would give her a list of exactly what I was using so if something happens to me for some reason shed be able to give that info to the doctors.
When I was your age and a big younger my wife knew. It was hard to deny it at the time. And she was cool with it. Being honest seemed like a good idea back then And There hasn’t been any negative consequences of her knowing this, but in hindsight I would have limited what I told her. you don’t know what will happen down the road. If you have kids or are planning on it you could be completely fucked if your marriage falls apart. She’ll have years of evidence of your illegal drug use, bullshit stories of your roid rage and that’s a golden ticket to sole custody of the kids. You may get supervised visits after you go to rehab. If shes really a conniving bitch which so many are in divorce she’ll send th evidence to your work and you’ll get fired. I know what you’re thinking, your wife isn’t like that and would never do that. But I’ve seen women completely change in ways you wouldn’t fucking believe. It happens after 30. A wise thing I once heard that’s so true. Women marry men thinking they can change us but we really don’t change. Men marry a woman thinking she’s never going to change, but they always do. It’s rarely for the better. It’s most profound after kids.
So if you’re going to tell them about this stuff make it really clear you have a legal prescription of test for TRT, and make sure to actually get one. You can them too do dabble with more but Lock up you other stuff so they can never get pictures of it and never talk about it other than verbally so there’s nothing that can be saved for later. That way if you’re ever called out for it you can say you’re simply on TRT and she can’t prove otherwise.
Jrihard89That’s why you have her send the crypto… LOL kidding. Get her in trouble too.
Well technically she's in possession of it so....
Have we delt with Crazy!!! Hide ur stash, they will be ratting u out!
Bro, nothing is more valuable than your peace of mind. Once that’s gone, everything else starts to fall apart.
If someone keeps pushing you to the point where you’re not acting like yourself anymore, that’s your signal. Not to fight harder … but to step away.
Leave it behind, don’t look back. You’ll thank yourself later.
Same sort of situation before, stayed due to joint mortgage, kids, etc they where the excuses I used to talk to myself, reasons to stay..
Actually came down to my self worth, accepting the shit. Best thing I done, moved on, have my kids full time now. She gets 2 hours a week..
Slow process and fearful. Take the leap and exit the relationship.. Wish you the best and courage to face it head on..
I really appreciate everyone responding. I’m already in the process of moving out. I see a lot of people thinking I’d hang around still… that was never an option. I’m too old for bs. I don’t let anyone put unwanted hands on me or the people I love. I see slot of similar experiences though and that sucks. As a man if we say something society usually cast judgement without knowing what’s actually going on.
Cut and run, whatever you lose along the way is fair price for your freedom and sanity
Toxic, Toxic, Toxic. Isnt worth you being in jail and she out there banging everyone anyways. Plus you being in jail takes you away from your kids (if you have any) and your family and she still wins. You deserve to be happy and love doesnt supposed to hurt. You will miss the 24hr companionship but yuu will get better because thats all you will miss. Once you are gone you will start realizing all you could have done all this time but was held down. You will heal but leave.
I agree with Aggieguy.... you definitely need to take a 72 hour break (maybe even a week or two) and reassess. The real problem is if you two are financially entangled, meaning you share a house, bank account, resources etc. That makes the whole thing harder, if not.. then it can be an easy break, besides the emotional side. You can always bounce back from emotional depression, financial depression is a lot harder and has a lot more consequences. Plus, you don't want to find yourself in jail for something that could have been completely avoidable.
I hate to say it but she might be cheating and she wants to leave but she would feel guilty for being both the cheater and the one who breaks it off so she’s pissing you off with the hopes that you break up with her.
Sounds weird but I’ve seen this situation play out like that many times and it’s even happened to me.
Its easy, walk away and never go back. SHes probably a good lay, but pussy is pussy at the end of the day. Youre 53, find yourself a good woman. Keep her happy and she'll fuck you just like that crazy bitch
Leave. Being unhappy in a relationship is unhealthy. Especially now that it’s becoming physical. No matter who’s at fault just get out.
So if your stats are correct mate then that means you are 53? For me these kinds of abusive and turbulent relationships are something you learn more about the longer you are are on this earth - meaning as soon as you realise you are with to put it mildly 'a horrible aggressive woman' you get away from her. Sure the erratic and nutty ones are often good in bed - But once those 5 minutes are over you then have to live and put up with the cunt 24 hours per day which is pure Hell in itself. They are often depressive cunts too that revel in making you feel as low and shitty as they do, if you are on a natural high from the gym or whatever else in life they will soon pull you down a peg within 5 minutes. The Best relationships and the one you want is where the woman is stable, happy and acts like your best friend - if you were a young kid I'd say you are still living and learning but if you are 53 you more than know better not to be anywhere near this kind of person in general unless you too like Drama and uncertainty.
Ultimately we can all sit here and preach to you about getting away from her, you probably won't and will try to stick through it like most do but in the end the decision is yours on when you decide to do what's right for yourself.
Brotha I left immediately and I’m not looking back
In fact I have a good pal on here who was with a woman like this, he knew this scenario was likely to happen the longer he stayed with her and ended up doing time because of her - he will give you the best advice @NWApatches
He even has a Huge Watch too and even that wasn't enough for her.
https://www.eroids.com/pics/how-many-of-yall-are-big-watch-guys-like-myself
Facts @press1 keep it pushing over there, brother!
I just clicked the link because I wear a Garmin Tactical and that thing’s so big it steals some of my wrist mobility and his is about the same size as mine.
He very likely suffers from partial wrist mobility as well. It’s the price we pay for big watches.
LMFAO!!! I'm sat trying to decide whether you got the joke or not there pal
Or was the joke indeed on me??!
I mean with a watch that size I’m sure even his girl has wrist mobility issues haha
It’s the forearm extensors that are mostly hindered with watches that size. Possibly even her jaw. From dropping to the floor when she sees that shiny watch.
Leave now. Rip the band aid off. When you said she taunts you tha tells me
She dates men then when she wants out of the relationship and won’t tell you instead she starts having you and taints you. Seen it a million times. Now that she’s hitting you tells me that she wants out but doesn’t want you to be with other women. Her Ego can’t stand that she’s the shitty one. Every kid is telling you the same thing.
This is gonna end up with one of you getting a tro and/or going to jail. Hopefully it doesn’t come to that, but imo, this relationship is probably over. You guys need to part ways before it escalates any more
iCONicLeave. Now. You already lost it and went too far. The next time you will go even further. Leave, now, if yiu want to stay out of jail
Leave her now
I have learned that when a woman shows you she is in fact a crazy bitch you leave the second you figure it out. That is what you should have done 6 months ago. There is good news though like investing the best time to do it was then but the right time is now. It took me a long time to learn to walk away from crazy a soon as you see it especially with crazy being good in bed usually and good pussy causes feelings the worst of all stds. The forever relationship is a hope and dream the healthy plan is to look for non-toxic 1-5 year commitments that end without destroying either of your lives.
Sobriety stopped domestics in this household, and yes, I have been there. Best advice in here is get out… you will ultimately lose your freedom. Good luck.
If it is at this point man, it's time to separate at least temporarily and think things over and see if it needs to be permanent.
I agree on this solution....
Move on bro. This wont end well. My life was almost ruined years ago with an unstable woman. Run, dont walk away from this relatioship.
Get away from that, trust me. I got out of an abusive relationship.. Get out before you end up in jail... Women like that will push you until you snap then play the victim. I would just get out bro.. That's not love.. You can get better and you WILL find better I promise you.