posted Tue, 09/03/2013 - 14:46
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So I finally told the misses that iv been doing AAS. Guess what happend :)....... she freaked out and left me. I mean wtf man. She looked at me like i was some kind of heroine addict. sigh. yea thats all.
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She's probably worried you're going to get deca dick just be sure to prove her wrong. Or if you DO have deca dick well then....
That's sucks bro, I was honest with my wife the whole time since we met about it. I educated her on the subject and made sure she understood. She even considered taking some anavar and winny herself which she did eventually. Educating her about it is the best advice. People stigmatized steroids like they are hard drugs. We need to look at them as they are. Performance enhancement, meaning they make you better. Improvement,
lol this is 11 yes old so I wonder what happened?? But you’re 100% right that it’s stigma and if they are educated they’ll respond much differently. Like my mother thinks I’ll murder my kids if I take steroids, so if she finds out I’ve been in them I can say “well I haven’t killed the kids yet right?” And if they haven’t noticed any change in you, then how bad is it really?
Also I think you need to be able to read the room. I learned that as a drug addict, you can’t be honest with everyone
I didn't even realize, it was on the main Page under hit topic, at least others can get a tip about it l. I wonder too, hopefully he didn't blow his brain out
Right? It would nice to get an update. Btw How do these old one pop up? I know if people comment on it, then it will, but sometimes I’ll see them on the front page with no new comments?
I don't know how I guess someone commented on it
We bro if she left you after 5 years it might lot be meant to be honestly. 5 years down the drain for gear. You know what you do homie, lay low for a bit and hit some weights hard and start gaining size and see if her prospective changes. When all else fails, invite her over for some hard core test sex. If its good enough and different than what she has been getting in 5 years. Tell her thats how you perform on gear, that might change her mind. Theres an underlying condition here, the juice is an excuse, just my opinion.
Best of luck to you.
The concern for your health is probable, I like to think that is it. Keeping secrets like you mentioned is a big deal but sometimes it shows as projection of her own issues.
One thing I didn't see mentioned is some women want babies and worries about it being your fault she is not squeezing them out when she has been secretly flushing birth controls down the toilet. Just trying to make a funny cause it's good to laugh sometimes.
If you do have to quit, fuck it would suck to be taking clomid and fighting with SO. I would be crying and feeling extra shitty.
Well she likes your strong, hard, vascular muscles doesn't she? Why's she being a hypocrite.
If you've been acting in fits of rage since you started and have been beating her or whatever, then yeah she's gonna blame the juice. But if you've been the same ole' calm, collected, and cool dude she's always been with she shouldn't judge too hard. Maybe she's just worried for your health.
Ah I feel alot better reading your replys. Thank you for the support. Its always good to know there are people on here that can give advice on these issues. Thanks. this is so true>>'This sounds like another case of a gf who's heard only about roid rage and people slaughtering their families because steroids made them do it." this is exactly what she was thinking. damn.
Sorry to hear that bro. Let her calm down then talk to her. Explain that you know what your doing, and have a support group that will help with the things you don't know. Or you could just stop juicing and see if she will take ya back. I was very upfront with my use to my wife. She actually attempted to do my first pin for me. It will be ok bro just try and talk to her and assure her you know what you are doing. Hope things work out bud
It always helps to TELL them to CALM down or R E L A X and then slowly mansplain.
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DAMN BRO', But seriously, this was just the "icing on the cake" for her! Something has broken along the way in the last 5yrs. She feels betrayed too. She thinks that as you have hidden your AAS from her, then she hasn't really know you all along. Never underestimate the power or full disclosure!! Perhaps she'll settle down, speak to her, reassure her that you never tried to "hide" anything from her, just that you were not comfortable letting her know about the AAS, as YOU know yourself, it has bad press. If you want this girl back, you need to speak to her and FORGET ultimatums, as they are never a good way to kick-start a relationship over, just speak to her, and find out IS THIS what the problem is? If it is, then she needs a lesson in what AAS is firstly, then a lesson to grow the fuck up, simply. Best of luck bro'. We're all here for you. :-)
Real bummer. This story may or may not apply to your situation.
I know a guy who was a cop, did LOTS of juice. Wife wanted a divorce. She turned in his stash to his supervisor, claimed he terrified her in a 'roid rage, and got him charged with Domestic Violence.
Lost his job, lost all custody rights to his kid and has a criminal record. Pays mega child support and alimony.
Best advice I ever heard regarding relationships is to first learn how she hates. Don't worry about how she loves until after you know how she hates.
Did she F--- over her ex? Does she talk constant shit about him? Is she getting revenge on him by breaking his shit or messing up custody? If so, RUN!
In your case, what's the worst thing she is likely to do with this information? If she isn't likely to ever use it against you then maybe you can work through it.
Heres an update:
Well she pissed coz i kept it from her for a while now. We have been together five years. Shes given the ultimatum sigh frustrating to be honest. hmmm not sure what to do now. I could be a ninja and carry on with AAS or end it. buh faahhk man.
JuiceFreakJust get a doctor to say you need it and bammo problem solved
If you agree to this ultimatum, what will the next one be? She will remember it worked this time and likely use another ultimatum down the road.
IMO this ultimatum is like her saying "what I think is right, if you don't agree with me, its over" .... Does it sound immature and narrow minded when put like that?
Imo.. You agree on the condition you guys talk about this (She'll love that) Make this out to be a new chapter in your relationship and how wrong you were.. If you try to argue about it right now she won't listen.. you're in the dog house for now.. when things calm down start educating her on steroids slowly and she should become okay with it in time.. 5 years tells me she must love you so she has to listen eventually.. This sounds like another case of a gf who's heard only about roid rage and people slaughtering their families because steroids made them do it.
Exactly bro what Om said.
Keep your head and chin up. Keep doing what you love. And find another girl that lifts. And, when the old girlfriend calls back, don't answer, don't text, don't drive by her house, or go around her. Time for you to move on. Look at it this way, if you were being honest with someone you loved and they loved you back they way you loved them, then it should be for better, or for worse....it will work that way with right girl, bro. Don't give this chick, that left you, any room to screw with your mind or emotions. And, definitely don't give her a second chance to rat you out about what you like to do. If she is going to go off half cocked and blow up then use it to your advantage and make her look like the liar, especially if she starts throwing you under the bus and putting your business out there...got me? Chill for now, and keep coming back to eroids....I gotcha and a thousand other bros do to. Peace out!!
this is why i never tell anyone :(
Yeah. Also because mere mortals would think much less of my achievements. That it takes a great deal of hard work and dedication and passion, despite use of performance enhancers.
AnonYou are the first one I have ever heard say that and I agree with you wholeheartedly. I don't feel like I'm hiding anything from anyone because i don't feel that I need anyone's approval or disapproval.
wow that sux, people don't tolerate juice due to the media lies and people misconceptions about its side effects. stay strong bro.. you will find another women who accepts you for who you are. i left my ex she didn't let me juice at all. now my new girl ,who's way prettier than my ex, lets me juice as long as I'm healthy.
elecshortsWell that sucks. I have been upfront with my misses. I am starting slow and so far we are good.
How long have you two been hitched? Maybe she'll reconsider?
My misses just wants my johnson on duty and why would I have a problem with that?
Damn bro I'm sorry to hear that. Keep your head up and keep killing the gym. The gym is perfect for this type of situation. It has helped me through some tough times bro. This is a sad song an I'm sure you've heard it. It gets better all the time by Brooks n Dunn. This song helped me through a devastating break up I had in my early twenties.
Wow!!! thats seriously unbelievable!! does she think they get you stoned or high or that yr gonna turn into the hulk (although we know you seceretly want to)....
is it because you kept it from her? as a woman i couldnt see leaving a man for using steroids unless i was lookin for a reason to leave him...hmmmm
AnonThats what I was thinking. Sounds like she was looking for a reason.
Yr the second guy who said that
BigBmajThose were my thoughts. If she bounced that quickly something was seriously wrong before that
Sorry you are going this shit brother.
sorry to hear that, if this is someone you were with for a any length of time, and she literally just freaked out and left without any discussion it does not sound like a very rational person, although hiding these things from a serious partner is never a good idea. If this was a short term GF, on to the next one.