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-1 How to explain night sweats to your girlfriend.

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Alright I posting this here because off topic was a little too off for me.

I took my girlfriend out to dinner yesterday and she asked me why I'm always so hot. The previous night we switched sides in the bed and she complained that the pillow was wet and the bed sheets on my side were soaked.

Ok. So how to explain this. Basically I had no idea. I just told her I thought I might have a thyroid problem but I can't get it checked out because I don't have insurance.

I'd like to tell her the truth eventually but at this point in our relationship it could only hurt things so any advice saying "dude just tell her. If she can't accept you for blah blah." I will. Just not now.
In the meantime does anyone have any advice or suggestions as to how to deal with this or explain these symptoms without telling her it's steroid related. Thanks brothers and sister for any advice.

manbearpig's picture

just say you are "hot for her". lol

thekaz's picture

My big problem is i get bacne from all this tren sweat while sleeping. Any suggestions?

j223's picture

my girl drove me to the post office to pick up my hgh lol. I tell her straight up that i inject steroids. What the fuck is she gonna do? I know more about her than her own damn family. I told her if steroids is the worst thing I do then I'm not that bad =)

if your girl really cares about you then she will support you no matter what. I was really surprised. When I told her I had a confession she didn't even get mad. She says as long as you are safe and don't hurt yourself then it's okay with me.

GRIMEY's picture

Exactly, OP when you go into PCT and you're not quite puttin it down on her like you were while on cycle, explain it to her then, she will be counting down the days until your next cycle;)

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Charliefly1's picture

Hmm apparently someone didn't like this post.

Darktide's picture

This post should not have been negged. Could have been an accident.

Charliefly1's picture

oh well. probably

Darktide's picture

I gave you two points to make up for it.

Charliefly1's picture

wow just noticed that, thanks.

thepullmanator's picture

To me it sounds like this girl is TOO paranoid, always trying to convince her your NOT doing something, seems to me that this isn't an honest and trustful relationship....

Time to man up and say look this is the way it is, I will NOT be questioned at every turn and if your not down with that then PEACE!
Life's too short to be questioned by your sig other all they time

I mean really convincing her your not on steroids when your taking vitamins and whey!?!?!?!? That's just ridiculous she is insecure about something and taking it out on you in am I trustful manner,

AINT NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT!

Charliefly1's picture

I agree that she's paranoid. And the mistaking supps for steroids is just being uninformed. Idk I'm seeing her again tonight and I just sent her a novel of an email this morning. We'll see how it goes.

porky's picture

Just tell her it's the tren and she will understand .

Charliefly1's picture

I wish.

Darktide's picture

You could try "hey honey I take anabolic steroids." Smile

Charliefly1's picture

It took me a year to convince her I wasn't smoking weed when I was working full time, going to school full time, and sleeping over at her place with my contacts in because my eyes were always bloodshot. I really need to inform her about steroids first though.

Darktide's picture

Here is my .02. If you are looking for something long term with her whatever you do now is going to set the foundation. This is not going to be the last thing you are afraid to tall her if you stay together but I promise you in the end all she is going to remember is how long you kept things from her, and what else you maybe keeping from her. All under the excuse of "i have to prepare her."

I have been married for 24 years, believe me every decision builds or destroys trust. Your fear is catching shit from her because of her ignorance but that will not compare to her always walking around thinking "he keeps stuff from me!" Good luck brother.

Charliefly1's picture

thanks man

NoPain's picture

Bottom line is if she means anything to you and you want a life together you need to tell her. Life based on lies isn't a good one. She will question everything you from that point forward and anything you have done in the past.

Ever hear the phrase "fix it right the first time". Well, going back to fix a mistake is much harder than making it right the first time. I speak from experience with this one.

Charliefly1's picture

I've noticed that with her. We actually got back together recently. We both made some mistakes in the past and it's much harder to try to fix those problems now than it would have been to do it right the first time. Your advice is right on spot.

IronMind's picture

Say you have PTSD....

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thekaz's picture

glad im not the only one who has this problem lmao

Charliefly1's picture

Sweating or needed to apologize for soaking your girls bed in a non sexual way? I was fine on tren and caber but then I switched to prami because I was starting to get some negative sides and it's cheaper to run at higher doses. Right now I switched back to caber at 2mg split through the week but I still have some minor symptoms. Prami killed that shit but gave me horrible sweating problems. Idk. Leaky nips/depression or soaking the bed? I'm going to start dosing both at lower doses at the same time to see if I can curb the leaky nips and not have night sweats.

thekaz's picture

Ive only used prami w tren. It works for me only downfall is the fuckin sweat. Its like thay tropical amazon humidity under my sheets

Charliefly1's picture

It was definitely the prami. I switched back to caber at 2 mg a week and 3.75mg letro. That's a pretty high dose but it worked.

Charliefly1's picture

Lol. I can't talk about wringers or sex. She thinks I'm a sex addict because I always have a boner.

Charliefly1's picture

You truly are a guru in every aspect of life.

Chidoman's picture

Love It!!...Brought Tears to my eyes!!....

vhman's picture

Truely wise and touching.

Charliefly1's picture

She will definitely know before I marry her. As for now I don't see any reason to tell her the truth. Her whole family will know an hour later.

Charliefly1's picture

I told her "I feel like I couldn't tell you a truly personal secret about me without your whole family knowing. I feel like all of our conversations are pretty much recorded and broadcast to your friends and family" and I also told her some things just need to be between us. If we work out and we move in together I think it'll be easier to tell her. Then maybe I can have her pin me! Thanks for the reply.

Roid Noid's picture

Get yourself some ephedrine pills and tell her when you take them it makes you sweat like that for several days but it keeps your bodyfat low so you dont want to stop. you can act like you just figured it out with a google search.

Charliefly1's picture

Already have those but am currently not on them. She thought my fish oil, zma, milk thistle and protein powder basically meant I was on steroids. "Well you're on steroids" me-"no" her-"well your a health freak and take all those supplements. It's the same things." Me-"ughhhhh"

Gymjunkie01's picture

Easy tell her you have wild and sexually dreams about her that makes you so turned on ... Lol worked for me

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EmPee's picture

How blond is your girl

Charliefly1's picture

Dirty. Dammit. Walked into that one.

alayna's picture

Hey im blonde!

Charliefly1's picture

Empee just has an obsession with blondes. He didn't even read the original post. Just kidding bud.

EmPee's picture

runs away with maximum speed -.-'

Hey not everyone fits a sterotype right =)

GRIMEY's picture

^this, also I noticed you are 23, how young is this girl?

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Charliefly1's picture
  1. If I was 30 and she was 29 I think she would be a lot more reasonable but at this point no. I told my brother and all he asked was if I knew what I was doing and if I knew the risks and negative sides. I told him everything and he was ok with it. Her....not exactly reasonable.
EmPee's picture

Tell her you do HIIT in the gym (use fancy words, easier to persuade that way) and that keeps your heart rate high for a long time, and manifests in sweating when you're sleeping because you're not moving.

Excuse works better if you workout in the PM.

I have no idea what I just said, but it works if someone has no idea about gym LOL

Charliefly1's picture

She already get mad at me because I use "big words" haha. I'm starting to think my girl is totally different from everyone else's here.

thepullmanator's picture

thermogenics, OTC thermogenics......Hydroxy cut and whats the other one Zenadryn or someshit

Charliefly1's picture

That's for all the advice. I think I'll just educate her about supplements and then steroids and then tell her I'm on them. As for now I'll tell her it's anxiety and nightmares which she actually knows the be the truth.

wheels's picture

If you don't want to tell her now the thyroid thing is as good a lie as any. If my thyroid medication is too high I do sweat a lot on or off cycle.