Well hellllllll I have to do everything around here! Lol.... Its not entirely uncommon and particularly as you reach above 30 and are more prone to the problem I'm about to address with testosterone.

I won't go deep and confuse the whole issue or make it more complicated than it has to be so let me simply say there is the conversion process and while estro was mentioned below DHT not touched on and the end result can cause temporary and sometimes permanent prostate swelling or hyper plasia.

Almost always we are having a swelling impact on the prostate when using high doses of test. The swelling can be very minimal and go without notice at all if very young. However, as we get older with each passing year and swelling is more and more common without test use in high dose, it becomes quite common with test use in high dose. Now I said if young enough you may not notice a little swelling. However, throw a couple more circumstances in with a mild swell and at some point critical mass occured. In your case maybe you had a small swell that would have gone without notice but then we had some alcohol which can add to it (whiskey dick) then as was also mentioned a little performance anxiety. So any one of those may not have stopped you at all but 2 or more cause the perfect storm.
Have to keep in mind we are all different genetically so there is no one rule. Such as some have huge impact from DHT at the hair follicle and others same circumstances do not. Prostate is the same although we all take a risk of hyper plasia without proper protection. I am no exception and I have had enough yrs to know when I have slacked on my prostate care and have had swells much worse than others and have to got to work. You take the regular supps, super beta prostate , saw pallmetto etc and if not enough and swelling occurs still, we look to finisterad and others to prevent the swell by protecting from the culprit and while DHT the origin is TESTOSTERONE.

NOT ONLY CAN TESTOSTERONE CAUSE THE ISSUE, IT WILL IN TIME. BTW, all men will have swelling in time and alomost all men will have hyper plasia if you live long enough and all men would likely have prostate cancer in the long haul if living long enough. Many men die with old age and had prostate cancer and never knew it because some are extremely slow growing and may not even be discovered for a decade. Much of which could be prevented at least until later than naturally with some protection.

It is one of the most serious issues there is with gear use and even if we fall off the proper care at times we need the supps to help protect and prolong health.

One way to know btw is if you notice urine flow pressure seems less than normal and one sign of a little more swelling can be more frequent urination with less total urine per trip than what would be your norm. This sign will not always be present if there is a swell but can be.

I tend to think once no big other than get on the supps but time will also tell if it begins to happen more even if not everytime.

Not to worry you just wanted to answer the question for you but do take the topic serious on or off gear. Take your supps and if they don't work and you are prone and over time get more and more swells you may be a candidate for something stronger like finisterad on cycle in addition to your reg supps.

if she was that hot it might have just been your nerves betraying you when it matters most =/

i've heard of that happening before

no idea about the test in regards to this though, thought i'd chime in anyway ;P

You can have a whole bunch of testosterone in your blood but, if your binding mechanism is blocked, you still have a lower sexual function....definitely alcohol could be ur culprit even in such a small quantity....in reality there are a number of things....like stated below....def check ur blood pressure....drop the alcohol on cycle and to full proof ur night keep a blue diamond Viagra....good luck on the next go around