Another, GF doesnt like juice story
So I have a girlfriend I am really serious with and told her, back when her and I first started dating, that I was juicing. She didn't like it at first and I didn't care, I usually just found a different girlfriend lol. But then she changed her mind and was alright with it. Specially with the libido and awesome results. Now after some months she is back to not liking it and doesn't want me to take them. I'm on my off cycle right now and already looking forward to the next. It's in the mail and everything but I don't want to hide it or lie about it. However that seems to be my only option at this point. I know I'll end up losing weight eventually not taking them.
I'm basically just looking for suggestions or advice from other similar situations. I've already told her to watch "Bigger, Faster, Stronger" but I know she wont. She is concerned its bad for my health when I assure her it isn't unless your and idiot with them. I'm past the point of finding a new girlfriend lol. I feel stuck hiding it now and I'm really going to hate that, specially on Tren EOD, it'll be a pain in the ass going to a friends house to do that all the time lol.
I know one guy showed his wife the forums on here but my girlfriend has like tunnel vision right now. All she sees is illegal and bad of my health lol. Maybe I should take an "extended" off cycle
Any other thoughts out there? Please and Thank you
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Good advice below, hopefully she'll come around with a bit of education and dialogue. But if she doesn't, stick to your guns man, you are who you are and if you try to change for her it will be a disaster!
I had this issue with my wife. She is a doctor and is super-focused on things I do that could be risky to my health. This may just be my personality, but, I made the decision to use steroids and I'm carrying it out. I did my best to explain everything to her and convince her that I was taking every precaution to be safe, and I think that explanation actually helped her. I wouldn't say she's completely alright with it, but she sure is loving the results I'm getting. They'll always come around. You have to be able to do your own thing and make your own decisions otherwise you'll resent her and may not even realize why.
I'd drop the girl.. When I get in a fight with my girl she says it's the foods, and I remind her that I've always been an asshole. She likes the results, she doesn't like how cocky I am. If u love her, steroids aren't that big of deal, at least you got some mass, and bb naturally from now on
Ivan DragoWhatever you do don't minimalize or trivialize her concerns. That'll shut her down for sure. Show her that you're just as concerned about your health and freedom as she is. Prove to her that you aren't reckless through intelligent discussions about it. I think that when she sees how informed you are, she'll trust your decision and defer to you despite her misgivings. I am sure she doesn't believe all she sees and hears from the media etc. This is similar. When you are ignorant of the subject, you are more prone to propaganda and misinformation. In closing, this may be a trust issue between the two of you. Time and honesty always helps. Good luck with it.
What is it with you guys that shrivel up like raisins while not on juice???? I lose weight also, but never more than 3-4lbs, mostly water! Keep your DIET on point bro, bump those carbs to 400-500G per day. Only time I shrink up is when I go on these crack binges bitchezzzzzz. When my gurl was with me, we laughed for hours about the site, she would even pin me, but she would switch that 23G to a 18G while I wasn't lookin... sadistic bitch! Good luck man
Anon18!! I'd kill her. That's pretty much stabbing someone lol.
I'm a hardgainer and I try to keep calories and crabs high off cycle. But If I was off cycle for like months I'd start losing motivation and not seeing gains I'm use to for a while, it would get to me. And then before you know it I'm back to 170 lbs. Guess its more of a mental thing being off that long. If I go off though I'll try upping the carbs more, see what it does.
Bite EdgeYeah man. Gotta keep those crabs high off cycle.
AnonI'm just gonna keep educating her then. That seems to be the best outcome from what I'm hearing. I've already convinced her to let me do my next cycle so at least I have some time now
Thanks for the all the advice
Give them a vote if you find it helpful.PermalinkYou gotta get her to watch "bigger faster stronger" same situation with my gf. actually found a stash i had n trashed it!! she was lucky i wasnt on cycle haha. anyway after she saw that movie she opened her mind and saw how "bad" they really were. best of luck. just remember you live your life how you want too. let her know relationships are a two way street not a highway and a bikepath.
X2 .. worked on my wife... Shes all for it now..
If your aggro on tren....dump the tren. If you're not then figure theres 3chicks to every man on the planet....per status' as we learned in school. Hella old gfs used to be simply jealous when i was cut and they weren't. Ant fix that....gotta do you first. New Gf lives me muscled and helps. Gotta be happy dude!
she took you as you were from the start, if SHE is changing her mind that is not YOUR fault.... Find something she does, that you were ok with and tell her she has to stop..... you were honest from the start (good on ya) but she cant expect to change you... you fall for the person, NOT what they do... She either excepts you or doesnt, not much else you can do bro..... Let her know its YOUR lifestyle, she can either be a part of it or not.....
Ivan DragoFair, but now she may feel she is more invested in the relationship and has a "duty" or obligation to protect her mate. Again if she is not heard and this is not dealt with, it'll resurface later. Probably even worse. She may shut up now but inside she'll resent the fact that she was marginalized. Unless this is a disposable relationship, (doesn't read like one) continue to talk about it. I'm tellin ya, she'll come around.
AnonThat is good advice.
ImTestyThat's the best answer you could of ever gotten haha