Am I in the wrong with this situation. ?
Ok let me lay it out here .
There is a little drama at my Gym I'm not going to name names of course but I need an outside opinion to help me shed some light on this .
So there is a girl my friends and I were talking to and a few of us were trying to get with her , a few of us had her number including me I had talked to her a bit but not much really .
So one of my friends is talking to her and I tell him he needs to make a move on her or I'm going to , He never gets around to making a move and one night she text me after we left the gym and ask if I wanted to go grab something to eat .
So I'm like ok she is obviously not interested in my boy , So I'm gonna take her out . We hooked up that night and now we are seeing each other .
And now my friend will not speak to me at all , He said I should have came to him before making a move on her . I reply " what ? She was fair game bro you had just as much chance to get with her as I did " Why the fuck should I need to ask your permission dude ? It's not like I would get mad at you if you ended up with her .
either way that is the last time we spoke . Help me here Am I missing something Am I wrong ?
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Bro i had one of my best friends stop talking to me recently also for trying to smash one of his scallywags...
He was bragging about having 5 different chicks he was seeing and she was telling me theyre in an open relationship...She didnt mind the other females he was with...and two of our other friends have already been with her b4, so I figured bros b4 hoes but I was wrong....what a little bitch ya know?!!
I say fuck that guy if he dont wanna get over it..
Jealousy is bitches trait!
ask her if shes into DP, aint no fun if the homies cant come lmao no for real though i wouldn’t even sweat it, time will work that all out
AnonHell yeah.....roll with the momentum. ROTFLMAO
How much Halo is he on??? Hahaha. You ever feel like you can and will kill a building with your hands? My suggestion is the same as the rest of the boys. You did nothing wrong, and just give your boy some time to himself. He will figure out real quick how ridiculous he's being. Unless his estrogen is way off and he'll hold on to this shit for years like my ex wife did hahaha. Good luck and enjoy those gym visits with the new "natural" test booster!!!
Fair game you snooze you lose plain and simple.
Real friends shouldn’t care they should be happy u scored or ask for sloppy seconds.
Only shows he was never a real friend.... Real friends don't fall out over women... We're men we're not suppose to go off emotions... Don't mean to talk about your friend but his femininity is showing bro!
Dont let all this nonsense get in the way of whats really important here. You better be on your A GAME pop a cialis and have at it. Show her she made the right choice or she might be back to your friend. Just kidding go out and enjoy it bro.
Anon+1
There's no dibs on any person, unless your bro has that on lock already
NOPE!
AnonSage wisdom coming...that i am only passing along:
Bros before hoes. We all know that.
Unless...
there is an immediate piece of ass staring you in the face. This takes priority over all,
because...
"Every piece of pussy you don't get, is one you can't get back." (Like a missed workout or time....)
Further..
"There's a special place in hell for guys who pass on pussy."
I think that's all the information required for this liittle kerfuffle.
The women chose u bro just tell him that be like look if she liked u she wouldn’t have asked me to grab some food.
No fuck that dude. She wanted u the entire time man she was just talking to him to try to get to u... women do that a lot they will talk to ur friend with the intentions of eventually getting to u. Don’t feel bad dude
I would show him the text from her showing she initiated the hook up and just leave it at that. You were clear with him that you were also interested and he didn't make the move.
True story. Way back when I first met my wife one of my buddy's said he was going to try rapping to her. I went down there that day and made my move. We have been together ever since. 27 years later
You don’t get to shoot your shot from the benches!
First lesson ive learned is that the women choose us.
I alwyas told my boys when we walk into a bar or the beach i dont want to hear dibs on that girl. The girl picks.
Not true. Every time I untie mine, they try and run.
Greg your so old school bro still using ropes.
You gotta use shock collars , you know give them a little freedom to move about the house .
That is one of the first things I said , She is her own person making her own choices.
You passing up on taking her for something to eat would have just ended up both you and your buddy hating an entirely other dude for hooking up with her. She made the move, right? Girl clearly was into 'you' and not anyone else, so she wasn't of importance to him if he isn't happy to see a) her get what she wants, b) you get what you want. From the way it's written, she knew what she wanted and it was not him. Have her find him a friend and he'll have to warm up to be a part of the crowd.
Truth.
The only way I can see a problem with this is only if this guy is your best friend since you were kids, almost like brothers and you've been taking all his chances to get laid his whole life... in that case you would be a cruel man and should help him get some ass once in while just out of friendship.
But I think that's not what's going on in here and you guys are not that close, so you're good. He had as good of a chance as you. Plus she called you, it was her decision.
100% in the wrong there bro, you shouldn’t have waited for your friend to make the move, you should have laid the pipe without hesitation at the first opportunity. I don’t believe anyone can state a claim on a person as your friend did, be it male or female as not only are they a human but you get weird situations like the one you’re in where he feels he’s entitled to her.
If you’re single anything goes, absolutely anything. If you’re in a relationship however you should have integrity and always be loyal to your partner.
lol Thats cold Grow. But true.
I remember when I was younger and I was interested in a girl I had just met, she seemed right up my street. 3 of my closest fiends at the time had the same idea and we all gave it a go. I wasn’t the one to bag her but we became friends and she introduced me to a few of her friends and life went on.
We all laughed about it then and there was no hard feelings although I was genuinely gutted I wasn’t the one to date her.
Sounds like he is the shy type and was taking his time to pluck up the courage to asking her out, its pissed him off that you weren't that bothered about her but got in first before he went for it.
That is the situation and that is what has him pissed.
I just wish the dude could be happy instead of sour about the situation .
Answer this honestly mate - If you had a girl who you REALLY liked and all of a sudden your pal starts boning her, who allegedly is some sort of serial womanizer LMAO - Would you really be happy for them, seriously?
lol I'm not a serial womanizer it just seems like I am .
That is the thing though He was into her yes but it's not like he was head over heels for her , He was taking the same approach with her he had taken with 20 other previous girls .
And she came at me I cant make that clear enough she texted me .
But if he had gotten her yes I would have fist bumped him and said good for you bro.
Well bud this is where you are gonna have to decide which means more to ya Lol Your new GF or your mate - because if things go wrong with her you are going to want his friendship back ....
Sounds like he had just as much opportunity and fell short on his game... His pride is hurt, send him some roses with a no homo..
You're definitely not in the wrong, whenever me and my friends try to make a move on a girl in the gym we just treat it like a fun little competition. We only come to each other if there's already a connection between us and a girl one of us interested in, but random girls are fair game.
AnonFair play. It's not like she was his girlfriend or wife. Tell your bro she texted you and you two hit it off.
No, your not wrong. She wasn't his girl for you to steal. What was he waiting for Christmas? He waited to long to make a move. I've made that mistake many times, he can only blame himself. Otherwise you are just being a cock blocker if you aren't going to do anything and expect no one else to ever make a move because you are afraid of her saying no.