+ 1 Eroids community this is 100% from the heart
No one ever said life is going to be easy (to me anyway).
The truth is that life is sometimes crule,unfair and down right heart breaking.
Today I cremated my sister of 48 years old. She was a lovely soul but was definitely dealt a bad hand in life. From the age of 16 she fell pregnant and died for 4 minutes resulting in server epilepsy lasting for 30 years.
4 years ago she had a fit on the stairs and broke her neck. She was told she'd never walk again.....she proved them wrong and ended up walking again with just a walking stick.
On Tuesday the 11th we had to switch off the machines keeping my sister alive after suffering a serious fit and choked on her vomit. This ment she died for several minutes starved of oxygen. We were first told she would pull through but then she went down hill as her brain started to swell and die.
I'll be honest guys I'm fucking heart broken and I regret not making more of an effort with her.......now I can't so I've got to live with that for the rest of my life.
The piont is don't leave shit you want to say bottled up. Forget petty squabbles with siblings and parents be the bigger man and put it aside and tell them you love them.
Spend time with them and get to know them.
Trust me my guilt will eat me till the day I die but I promise myself this, I will never neglect a loved one as long as I live.
Sorry to sound preachy guys but I honestly don't want anyone to go through what I am now.
Hope you all have a merry Christmas and a happy year and stay safe
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Sorry for your loss. It's beyond epidemic where I live. Good people dying everyday. Very sad.
Pandemic....where I live. Has been for most of my life. No media cover until middle America was affected. Opioids have been claiming lives since my earliest memories. A lot of good people.
Oh damn man. Sorry for your loss. Best friends are sometimes closer than family.
It was surreal. Still can't picture him not being here. We have another friend for the same amount of time so now we talk more. Kibby has my respect for the tough road.
Sorry for your loss. I have a family member with epilepsy so this hits close to home.
Sorry for your loss, she sounds amazing. She sounds like she gave hope to a lot of people. And there is nothing anyone can say to make you feel better, I know. You and your family are in my prayers.
jayiskVery sorry to hear about your loss mate. Had to be horrible to go through all of this.
But please don't beat yourself up or feel guilty.
Try to remember the good times the two of you had and just be there for the other loved ones around you.
No this is a tough time but take care of yourself brother.
Really sucks when bad things happen to good people. And you are a good dude Kibby.
My condolences bro sorry you're going through this keep your head up
Damn, mate. I'm really sorry to read this! Always hard to loose beloved people. Feel free to pm me anytime, when you need someone to talk. Stay strong brother and I wish you and your family the strength to go through this hard times. All my love (no homo)
RustyhookerSorry for your loss bro. Sounds like she was a trooper, never gave up. Inner strength like hers is awesome
I'm very very sorry for your loss mate, anytime at all just message me if you ever want to chat about anything at all and just realise there is light at the end of this no matter how low you are feeling right now. I'm sure she felt plenty of love from you as a brother whilst she was here.
Well said mate. My thoughts are with you and your family.
That's not preachy at all Kibby, what you said is the simple bare-bones truth my brother that everyone needs to hear from time to time to keep us from getting complacent about the fragility of life and how quickly someone you love can cease to be a part of it. Prayers for you and your family. Stay strong.
Sorry for your loss, especially at this time of the year.
Achilles412Sorry for your loss
Man bro, that's a tough one. Don't think your sister doesn't know how you feel, she does. There is a life after this one brother. We are just passing through. Sounds like she had a rough go at it. She is at peace. It's super hard to lose a loved one. You have all of our support. Stay strong my friend. Hope you enjoy the holidays with your family.
Moving. I’m sorry Kibby. Much love (no homo)
God damn kibby .. i m really sad now .
So sory you had to go through this my brother
I will pray for your sisters soul and may god rest her soul
Fucking hell man .. duno what to say .. im really sad
Stay strong brother , keep your head up
If you wana talk you have my email
Much love and respect
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I am truly sorry for your loss and definitely relate more than I wish I could.
Sorry for your loss brother.
Its not easy losing a loved one.
I will tell you this. Life is life. Things happen.
I've wasted a lot of time and energy on regret and what i should have done's.
Know this..
She has already forgiven you.
I know for a fact she would rather you be full of joy. Knowing she loves you.
You knowing her suffering is over.
Again sorry for your loss
Wise words, mate
Sorry to hear that Kibby. Prayers out to you.
Damn dude. Sorry man. Thanks for you post.
God speed to her my brother. I got into a petty argument with my dad. We always had them about stupid stuff and just went on with life. That night he died of a severe aneurysm in his heart. I've never told anyone that since it happened. Prayers coming your way kibby
Please lads don't karma this post...this has nothing to do with karma. All I ask is that if you read it PLEASE at least consider what I've said