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Hi all,I've been back on eroids for the past two weeks now.To cut a long story short my eighteen year old son was killed five months ago in a car accident,when he died my world caved in I was lost for a while not knowing what too do,but I've picked myself up and started training again it's the only thing that has helped my mind,What im trying to say is no matter how life turns out and whatever it throws at you never give up on yourself,Be the best you can be and love everyday you have.happy training kind regards.

Gt4grayson's picture

My prayers are with you brother. Your perseverance gives me strength.

shawn0712's picture

Damn very sorry to hear that. I truly couldn’t imagine.
Just something that crosses my mind. To a child of any age, their mother is always their nurturer, their caregiver, their soft shoulder. As fathers, they look at us as the strongest people they ever knew. The provider and the rock. The foundation. Continue to be that rock. Cry when you need to cry. Cope and heal as much as possible, but continue to be strong, because that’s exactly who he sees you as.

Hunter2400's picture

Very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I'm a father of three and could not imagine how difficult this has been on you and your family! Your positivity is courageous to say the least and there is no doubt your son is smiling down on you. Thoughts and prayers coming your way

stevey7's picture

The darkest days of my life brother I would not wish this emptyness on no human being.

stevey7's picture

Thank you my brother FR accepted

necromega's picture

Sorry to hear about your loss.

You never know when it's your time to punch the clock.

Train hard it's been better for me than therapy.

Darkhorse777's picture

Wow this shows how fragile life really is im so sorry i can't imagine ...im a father of 4 and i cant imagine how you can deal with this ...God bless you brother

TheFlash85's picture

Sorry for your loss.
Life, death, fear and love are all the hardest things we experience, they are all different but all the same.

Time is the only thing, not drugs not alcohol nothing but time, its gonna be hard but for some reason time heals.

Good luck buddy and try stay good.

kodiakGRRL's picture

so sorry Stevey the loss of a child is a difficult burden to bear

Theophany's picture

I'm so sorry brother and my deepest and sincerest condolences for your loss! I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers! God will give you the strength to move forward and one day, one day my friend, you will be joyously reunited with your son! May peace be with you and your loved ones!

stevey7's picture

Thank you for your words brother

Keepmovingforward's picture

Damn I lost my best friend a few years ago and it really fucked me up. He was the only brother I ever really had and I traveled the world with the guy. We had a bond that I’ll probably never have again and I definitely hit rock bottom after. I was a drunk for a year and an asshole. But I guess after you hit the bottom the only way is up. I can still feel it in my gut and I can’t even imagine how losing your son would feel. I’m sorry for your loss and it’s awesome to see you’re back on the positive side of life. Stay strong man.

stevey7's picture

Definitely brother losing someone close is soul destroying grief is something that can stop you dead in your tracks,trying to make sense of it all is the thing now I'm trying to build on,like your name " keepmovingfoward" is the only thing we can do brother,keep safe bro kind regards.

alayna's picture

That is so sad if it was my son i wouldnt even be able to formulate such a positive post. VERY sorry :(

stevey7's picture

Hi alayna,I've been through so many emotions since it happened I still feel numb but I know my son would want me to go on,he was such an amazing boy I was blessed to have him,I'm not spiritual in any way but I want to feel he's still with me in some way.kind regards and keep well.

bundlz's picture

Damm bro i could not image my world if i lost one of my kids....
it should not be that parents have to bury their children im verry sorry for your loss god bless you !!

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stevey7's picture

Hi bro it's something that I can't even explain a gut wrenching emptyness that is always with me,it's knocked the strength out of me when my boy died a part of me died,I have to focus and try to get on with my life but I'm still grieving it still doesn't seem real I won't ever accept it I guess.thanks for your words bro and God bless your children.

felony's picture

Very sorry for your loss. God bless.

stevey7's picture

Thank you brother

stevey7's picture

Hi guys just got some advice from a fellow member I put a photo of my son up but didn't realise it showed his name from the net,I deleted it because it would compromise my safety and identity,thank you brother for raising this I wasn't thinking straight God bless you.

Sam I Am's picture

Anytime.

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dimi4p's picture

Very sorry to hear that mate, my condolences, can’t even imagine what you’re going through, very sad

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heavymetalmonsterD's picture

I'm sorry bro... deepest condolences to you and yours... keep pushing forward brother it's all you can do.. again man sorry to hear that.. we're all here if u need us

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stevey7's picture

Thank you brother

Pale's picture

Jesus Christ Brother. I don't know what else to say but to offer my deepest condolences. I cannot imagine the pain you have endured...

stevey7's picture

It's just a complete nightmare for my family I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone,thanks for your words brother when I talk about it it brings me some kind of peace,kind regards

exoticnfit's picture

God's choicest blessings over you and your family over this great loss.

Prayers out to you and happy to read that you are ready to move forward while still being able to mourn.

Be blessed.

stevey7's picture

Thank you for your kind words

GYM SUPPS's picture

Hello Sir,

Our condolences from all eRoids community, this is wrong when parents have to bury their kids, it should not be like that. We are very sorry for your loss Sir.

Regards

stevey7's picture

Thank you sir

The Impastable's picture

My condolences brother, I’m glad you’re sticking around to share your story. We’re all here for you.

stevey7's picture

Thank you brother kind regards

fusebox's picture

Not sure what I would do if something ever happened to my children. I pray that you find the strength to carry on for him. One day you will be back together. Make the most of the time you have left in his memory.

stevey7's picture

God bless you bro and God bless your children

stevey7's picture

Thanks guys for your responses means a lot

freeflyer's picture

Amazing that you are here sharing your story and reminding us to be thankful for every day we have.

All the best to you!!!

IrishWOLFhound's picture

Sorry for your loss mate .

herpjunkie111's picture

Very sorry for your loss bro, but I'm glad to see you are coping with it in a healthy way. Stay strong and Godspeed.

stevey7's picture

Thanks bro much appreciated.

stevey7's picture

Thank you,kind regards