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Looking for advice- it's mildly embarrassing but here goes..
I've been single (by choice) since I began running aas. The only side I've experienced is clit growth.. No acne, no hair loss, nothing. Before someone comments, no, it's not a mini-penis, I'm not growing a dick and I'm not turning into a man. It's slightly bigger than it was before, and swollen & highly sensitive. I really like it, actually.
I've began talking to a guy and we have had a couple dates, and no sex yet (yes, I'm hard to get). Chemisty and attraction is through the roof. I'm now beginning to worry about what he's going to think about my clit or whether he will notice at all. I just dont want to deal with a scenario where hes freaked the fuck out. He has no idea about my aas use and I plan to keep it that way.
I could be over thinking everything and blowing it out of proportion, but I can't be sure. Anyone experience this before? Any advice on how to deal with it?
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May I ask your age? His age?
11 years older than when this was posted.
Pmsl
First off, kudos to you for being open and thoughtful about this—it’s not an easy topic! Honestly, you’re probably overthinking it a bit. If the chemistry and attraction are as strong as you say, chances are he’s not going to care or even notice much unless you draw attention to it. Most guys aren’t hyper-focused on that level of detail, especially in the heat of the moment.
That said, if you’re really nervous, just focus on your confidence. If you’re cool and comfortable with yourself, it’s likely he’ll be, too. Worst case scenario, if he does notice and has questions, a simple “everyone’s a little different” might be all you need to say—no need to over-explain.
It sounds like you’re doing great in life and on your journey. Enjoy the connection, don’t stress too much, and let things unfold naturally!
If he’s any kind of real man who knows how to satisfy a woman, he will lick and suck on your clit until you can’t possibly handle it anymore. And then he will fuck your brains out. If the guy thinks it resembles a dick and it bothers him, it’s a dick that he really wants, and his homophobia is getting the best of him. That would be you first sign to drop him like a bad habit. Chemistry is everything when it comes to sex. His objective should be to take you to a place you’ve never been before. Probably the reason all of my exs hate me, but definitely why my wife adores me. We have sex daily and always try our best to take it to a better place. If it doesn’t feel that way, move on.
Anavar clit are the sensiones that squirt all over us. I love it
Lili WilsonI don't think you have any reason to worry. Or is it a very large size?
He's gonna love it. Don't be worried at all. Once he goes yodeling in the deep canyon and sees how much pleasure it provides for you he will become a yodel master. You got this!
My guess is she has already discovered his reaction.
Five and a half years ago.
Ugh, I just wrote all that for nothing??? Lol!!! Whatever
It’s ok Jake, it makes total sense and I thank you for it
Lol. I was just going to let you know, this is a 10 year old thread. And the member is no longer here. I wait for my coffee to kick in, before I type anything. Lol
You will be fine. every vagina is different i doubt he notices. The extra stimulation will turn you on thus turning him on. In my experience i prefer it.
Now go have some fun
This post is 4 years old.
Your first and only mistake is thinking this man can even point to your clit let alone compare it. Men are dumb. We don't even pay attention. Trust me. Over thinking. It's fine really
It is.. you are and you are. It is called virilisation.
This is an old topic but I’m going to comment anyway. Clits and vaginas come in different sizes and shapes. Personally larger ones are nice imo. I’m certain he woulnt complain. You only have one body so appreciate it and enjoy it. If he doesn’t like it the right guy will come along...
I’m assuming I can bring this up here. I’ve been with my girl for 9 months now and she’s a “good girl”. She’s had one sex partner when she was 18 and that was it other than me. But I waited 4 months into our relationship to have sex with her. There for awhile we would have sex kinda frequently but we haven’t since the beginning of December and it’s going on february. She said she doesn’t like having sex in general and does it because I want to. We have a great relationship besides this and idk what to do because I need that connection with someone. Girls can anyone relate or give advice on what I can do? Like we haven’t even fooled around in awhile and we used to atleast do that. And no she’s not cheating. Sometimes she’s wanting it but when she told me that it makes me feel like I’m not attractive to her sexually or I’m not good enough it’s fucking with my head.
Wow!!! I know this post is 6 yr. Old but holy fuckery,,, man just described my situation to a T..... any updated input fellas??? Wish the made little blue pills for women.... it sucks when sexual appetites are at different ends of the spectrum....
You want input?
If she isn't doing everything in her power to try and fix the issue, then just run.
A question for you. If her celebrity crush was in front of her right now and said he wanted to smash do you think she wouldn't be interested? If your answer isn't a resounding "fuck no she wouldn't" that should tell you all need to know here.
Women's hormones decline as well. My girl did .01ml of testosterone every two weeks and fucking wore me out. Still does. I can't keep up with her. All she wants is dick. It's cool and all but I can't fuck 5 times a day everyday and get the things done in life I'm supposed to. It's like being on dope again. Just glued in the sheets
Mine has the sex drive of a Victorian age librarian.
Hold on. That's good or bad?
Lol meaning she’s very reserved but likes when I violate her. Every woman likes to be touched in a passionate way. They love affection, that’s what gets them going. Sometimes us men don’t use that side of us enough and treat them like ancient temple prostitutes only meant for extracting semen. There’s more to a woman than an object for sex.
Oh yeah I hear it all the time. But yeah for sure. Really I don't even care for sex. I just like to put my mouth on my wife's anus and meditate, manifest the rest of my week. If it wasn't for pussy we would hide behind trees and shoot at them. What an old timer used to tell me
She may have some past issues that may be keeping her from enjoyment. I would tread lightly on the subject.
Isbshe on the birth control pill or any meds... SSRI medication in particular comes to mind? (You will need to ask her perhaps about the latter )
Low libido is a big problem and it will only get worse. It will prevent a certain type of bondingnthat takes place physiologically between a man and his partner.
Above meds will destroy a womans libido.
She started taking birth control pills about 6 months ago yes.
Bullshit why would you start birth control if your not having sex. She's cheating on you homie,,, get a clue man.
Honestly... look into it. Ask her to maybe read about it and if up for a test to consider a trial 3 months off the pill and see how you go. Had to do this recently myself with the mrs. Takes a little while to cycle off but difference should be noticable within a few months.
Also tune in to her cycle. Week after period stops she will be horniest. 2 weeks still good but dipping. Week 3 and her horn will not exist, week 4 run for the hills, repeat. If you do the trial... spend some serious time warming her up... selfless massages (where she wont think you are about to jump her any second... let her know its a longer massage and relax etc), and all that sort of shite... as long as possible before leading into sexual contact.
Wisdom right here,,, man is breaking bread with knowledge
This is very good advice giardap. I have noticed a week after she’s usually ready to go, sometimes 2 weeks. It was about to happen but her nephew walked in the room....ugh. The dry spells continues. Almost 2 months now. I love her with all my heart which is why I’m not gonna be an asshole and cut things off I’m not that way. But it’s human nature, I love all her curves and her in general and I wanna make love to her. She’s only had one previous partner and they slept together twice so I think she just doesn’t like having sex much.
Is there a difference in sex drive with the shot compared to the pills?
I honestly dont know buddy. All i can say is that the pill is great for women but can wreak havoc with them. I would love to know about the injection too so hopefully some of the ladies chime in here... its as serious a topic as is say a failed pct or something like ED issues from cycling... same stuff going on.
The lady im with is my Mrs. and depending on life etc we may have another kid maybe 2 but after that its the snip for me... fk that pill
Are you able to have a chat with her? Is it something you guys can approach together? It would definitely be a good thing to work on with her if she is a keeper and it sounds like you are crazy about her. The alternative just wont work over time.
The truth is 99 % of the time men have a higher drive than women. Be grateful for what you get and leave it like that. She can’t control her lack of libido anymore than you can control your high sex drive. Talking to her about it will only make it worse.
That’s some solid advice and you’re right. Thank you for that, seriously.
I know that the OP doesn't get on eroids much anymore, but I'm commenting here in hopes of hearing an update. This original post was from four years ago. Hey OP, any updates regarding clitoris size, sensitivity, continued or discontinued AAS usage? Thank you for sharing your experience with this subject. It's eye opening (philosophically speaking!). Much appreciated!
The op had her account deleted. So I doubt she's gonna answer bud. Sorry
All good, and it figures, since my curiosity is both medical, as well as personal. No worries.
An old nursing teacher (friend) of mine once told me (regarding medicine), "if it has an effect, it has side effects."
AAS are the king of that statement. However, not all side effects are "bad." In this case, if it leads to increased satisfaction in your sexual health & enjoyment, then all I can say is, hellz yes. (I know, it's not always the case! Such is life.)
Thanks for the comment, Fuse. You rock. Cheers indeed!
In support of your claim, Viagra was developed to treat hypertension, but is primarily marketed for one of its side effects.
any good internal medicine doctor will admit that there is poison in every we pill we take .... take them wisely
My question to you would be does he train? If he does and is even a little serious I would imagine he may think that you are "taking" something. If he is not one of "us" but at all a man then he will appreciate the fact that you have a very sensitive clitoris as I am sure it will heighten the experience when and IF you decide it is time to take it to the next level of intimacy. I for one LOVE a woman who is sensitive in that area but then again you have to be careful and not get over stimulated because if that happens it could make for a very short first time for the both of you. IF he asks about it just be honest and let him know that you are taking something and IF he is not ok with it then he is not the type of guy you need in your life in the first place. Just my 2c.
my dear nothing to worry about he will not notice .n Cherry is my favorite fruit .
First off, vaginas are very interesting things to begin with. I highly doubt he would mind, I don't think he'll want to spend enough time down there examining it. Most guys care how it feels, not how it looks. I PROMISE YOU its not a big deal. Remember, confidence is persuasive, if you make him feel like something is wrong, he'll begin to believe you. Good luck.
Well.... Im not a gynocologist... But i did stay at a holiday inn last night.... Id be glad to take a look n give u an honest opinion! Totally kiddin Ms ironblonde... Jus in here crackin myself up.... Thanks
Hilarious!!
AnonWell thanks for your f'ing insightful and helpful response. Don't be THAT guy.
Give them a vote if you find it helpful.PermalinkVery sorry. Sincerley.... After rereading i can se i was a little out of line.... Please accept my apology. It seemed the thread had degraded n i meant no harm
AnonThank you for manning up and apologizing. Apology accepted
Give them a vote if you find it helpful.PermalinkAnonThese supraphysiological amounts of testosterone sometimes reduce us basically to cavemen. I'm guilty of this on occasion especially if its been weeks since any "release" as well. Fortunately I'm well taken care of currently. Sorry your dude ended up having no game haha
AnonOh no, I gave HIM no game
and I understand.. You have men with test levels above an 18 year olds and women with sex drives through the roof around here- it's easy for things to turn sexual quickly, but as long as its tasteful and not disrespectful, then Its all in good fun.