adam's picture
adam
  • 27
12639

Online dating coincidence or is it real

ad

Hi guys
Just want some opinions and thoughts on this please

i was speaking to this girl online
It was going great ,we related to alot of things
We really got along
We got to 55 + pms between the two of us
I felt we had a tonne of chemistry and really connected
Shared lots thoughts

Is it normal for people to get to 55+ pms on a dating site or was there something special

I ended up telling her that i liked her and id like to meet up sometime
A day and a half pased and she didnt get back to me
We where chating on a daily
So i told her hey what you upto
10 min later i noticed she wasnt in my inbox which means she deleted me from her inbox

Which really hurt me because we shared alot of stuff
So i told her that shes fucked and why would she chat with some one the way we did if never planning on doing any thing.etc

We chated abit more on this subject
She ended up telling me to leave her alone

So i said its all good there plenty of fish out there splash splash splash lol
But i really liked this girl but what else can you say

She ended up blocking me

I havnt seen her online since
Well a week later a page viewed mine
And i felt like there was a tonne of subliminals and symbology
So i looked into it and alot of things where about what we said to each other

Like for example the tittle name was "ninepm"
Im thinking its the her 9th pm to me which was something important
Her height 5'6 age 28 where important etc

Her name "monica"
i told the girl i think she beautiful inside and out
An that i feel like ive known you all my life

So i searched the name (monica) urban dictionary

And it says the same stuff i told the girl it ended with

Her intrest was summer also had a symbolic meaning on urban dictionary we shared

This person had two photos the first one was dreams and the second one was a girl with a paper bag over her head

So i searched dream of paper bag over head and i found this

https://www.censored.conn/dream-dictionary/paper-bag-over-your-head

Half way down youll find a meaning that relates to us

So my questionis, is this a coincedence or could it be her

Please help guys serious question am i losing my mind lol
Peace

Pale's picture

Lmao!

Makingit's picture

LMAO

KMC's picture

This sounds like the same kind of relationship that many members on here have with their source.

BOOM!!!!! We have a winner!

Owes a Review × 1
Gymjunkie01's picture

This is why I stay in my moms basement and onlycome out to lift and shower( once a week) I stay down here play D&D and Mom shoves pizza rolls through the feeding slit in my door

Owes a Review × 1
Sam I Am's picture

Living the dream...

Owes a Review × 1
giardap's picture

Ma ! the Meatloaf ...... !

Xrated's picture

If u never met her wtf? Walk away man, u talked to someone on the internet. Go talk to another girl. Maybe your estrogen is high idk but, let it go.

In a promo × 1
adam's picture

Your rite man

Im pretty sure it is her though

And im done playing games with this chick
I did nothing wrong to her
Its her call at this point

Pale's picture

I don't know dude. You seem like maybe you should talk to someone on a professional level. Seriously. Your views and mental assumptions in all of this are kind of alarming. You haven't acted on any of your impulses so that is good, but still talk to somebody.

Sam I Am's picture

Look bro your probably not 25. Here’s the deal . It was some broad or guy chatting you up. You got way to serious and they ran. 50 pms doesn’t make a relationship. I probably have 200 with Unreal but we’re not going steady. I’ve known Twist atleast 3 years from another forum. We’re buddy’s but we don’t know each other’s phone numbers. You see where I’m going here? The internet isn’t real. It’s a place to exchange ideas and information. Work, bars, churches places you frequent are where you’ll meet the right girl. Not on a computer.

Owes a Review × 1
IrishMack's picture

This is bullshit, I thought you and I had something special and I had to find out about the "others" on an open forum? I looked up sam I am in the urban dictionary and it quoted our chats. That picture you sent me of your "assets" I looked it up in the dream diary and it said the dog barks up the wrong tree. I am so hurt.

Sam I Am's picture

I still check your stream daily... I think I need help. I know I’ll post a forum and ask a bunch of people I’ll never meet what I should do. Lol

Owes a Review × 1
IrishMack's picture

Thanks, I feel better now tehe.

giardap's picture

de Clérambault's syndrome aka "Erotomania, is a type of delusional disorder where the affected person believes that another person is in love with him or her.....the patient believes that a secret admirer is declaring his or her affection for the patient, often by special glances, signals, telepathy, or messages through the media"

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotomania

Greg's picture

Maybe he's right, ever think of that?
My bet; the girl is Jodie Foster.
Clearly there's a connection.
The cosmic road signs are irrefutable!

Sam I Am's picture

Good comparison.

Owes a Review × 1
giardap's picture

Greg, your intuition is second to none. I do hope it is Jodie. But, the worrier in me is concerned for this man. I mean.... what if it turns out to be Sarah Butler instead? There would be some serious repercussions!!

GrowMore's picture

You need a shag bro, desperately.

kibby's picture

Best reply on here!!!!!!! And 100% correct.

He needs to just get out and talk to real people and get a wet some knuckle lol

Owes a Review × 1
GrowMore's picture

Us British have a dry out look on things!

Wet knuckles keep you out of troubles ..

adam's picture

Ok thanks for the help

kibby's picture

Sorry if I sound like I'm taking the piss mate.....I just don't get why people use these dating sites instead of getting out and talking to people face to face.

With the dating sites ther is no physical attraction or chemistry......you could spend weeks/months getting to know someone and then when you finally meet them you might not even be attracted to them.

(That's just me tho mate) good luck

Owes a Review × 1
adam's picture

Na i get ya ,appreciate the advice mate

It did turn out to be her. not only that but she did another page like a week later and maybe a few others not sure.but 2 for sure
She fucked with my mind for a whole month guys
And i made a fool of my self

Then she told me she dosnt feel the same about me
I can understand that but why do 2 pages just to fuck with me.
Shes not a good person

I needed this lesson itll make me stronger in alot of ways.learnt a tonne lol

I got social anxiety and really dont go out much
Thats why i choose this way to talk to girls.

I reckon shes a narcissist type and a professional chatter ,she knows how to chat with people based on there star sign.

Im not pissed that she dosnt feel the same just that she done 2 pages to fuck with me

Greg's picture

Follow these steps to win her heart:

Make a new page
Go to a Jaguar Dealership and take a selfie with you in or leaning against one of the new models.
Post incessantly about not being able to find a good groundskeeper for your Malibu home.
Mention you need to go on a trip to France but how much you hate to travel alone in your private jet.

She'll do the rest.

GrowMore's picture

Pro-tip right there.

Greg's picture

I got my first 3 wives and lost my first 3 million with this sure fire plan.

kibby's picture

Some women are snakes mate and can be very nasty with a guys feelings.

Wish you the best for the future buddy

Owes a Review × 1
adam's picture

Guys honestly im not a bad dude or stalker or anything like that.my hearts in a good place

Like i dont feel that page is to pick up guys
To me it was more of a subliminal message that had so much info on what bad happened

Lets say it is her what does it mean
I cant act on it she told me to leave her alone

It could happen by coincedence but what are the chances so much ads up

Thanks guys just didnt know who to ask

Peace

Sam I Am's picture

They said Hinkley was a nice guy... If there’s a seven step plan I’d say step one would be an AI.

Owes a Review × 1
Bill G's picture

Just run with it and dont question too much. If it is coincidence then great if not then even better. I have to look at situations like this and say maybe the One in control is making the decisions and He is way smarter than I. Jm2c

adam's picture

Thanks mate for your genuine input

redsquat's picture

you are going to end up in dateline bro

Pale's picture

Good thing I looked at the comments, I about deleted this dude,lol

vhman's picture

WTF?
Life just shouldn’t be this hard chief. You’re choosing this. How about dropping the drama and find a real girl. It happens.

wanted's picture

Your sounding more like a stalker,, If you have to put this much work into it this early. Just say. Bye bye, peaceout chick...

Greg's picture

Ahhh, to see young bots in love

So i said, "It's all good, there's plenty of fish out there. Splash, splash, splash, lol".

Isn't that a reference to yet another website? I think the universe is trying to tell you something...

You are extremely obsessed over this. Seriously, a methhead type of obsession.

adam's picture

Ironicly the site is called pof.com plenty of fish.com
Lmfao

WelshNmad's picture

Have you tried carving her name on your chest yet?

You are way too obsessive for a healthy relationship right now

JARHEAD2's picture

Doesn’t it work better if you carve your name in their chest??

WelshNmad's picture

Nah you wanna keep them pretty for when you turn them into a skin suit #BuffaloBill

Sam I Am's picture

Lmao

Owes a Review × 1
JARHEAD2's picture

Awwwwww yeahhhhhh .... I forgot! :-)

Jayzgainz's picture

Sometmes two people can get caught up in the heat of the moment whether chatting onlune or in person. The thing with being online is the anonymity. You really dont know her. She may be in a situation where meeting face to face is just not an option. Even though you 2 shared some good talk, her real life could be very complicated and when you mentioned meeting up it spooked her. Things have a way of working themselves out. If I were in your shoes, as hard as it will be, try to back off a bit. Dont message her but dont leave the site either. Talk to others and just carry on. Let her make the next move. If she does then you know she feels similar to how you do. If not, then its probably just best to leave it be brother. You dont want to get your heart invested on someone that is not on the same level as you.

Owes a Review × 1 In a promo × 1
adam's picture

Agreed mate
Thanks

giardap's picture

Yeah..... so you're behaving like a freak
100% straight up.... you're acting and thinking like an entitled stalker/predator/potential future rapist

Where i come from, people like you end up getting carved up after you get a hold of your victim

Sort yourself out before you cross the line.

Just saying

Dacky's picture

Adam....this is all a bit too obsessive done you think. I’d get some help before you get done for stalking. I see from your past cycle posts they included a lot of Tren cycles. If you’re on Tren now or been running it loads perhaps you may want to to lay off. I’m not kidding around by the way. Good luck.

KMC's picture

"Any man that tells you that he understands women, ............ is either a liar or gay." KMC.

Owes a Review × 1
felony's picture

55 PM's. Completely normal. 56 that's where the magic happens.
Catfish.