Low sex drive ( normal bloods) help please
So i have a girl i have been with forever (7 years) we know each other very well and are engaged to be married next summer. i have been wanting to start juicing for sometime but have been waiting for the right time for me. which i have decided is this fall, planning a standard beginners test only cycle 10-12 weeks. with standard pct. the problem im having is lack of sex drive and i talked to my doctor and my testosterone levels were in the 500s so normal range. my woman wants me to fuck her all the time i want to maybe 1 or 2 times a week if that. im still very much attracted to her and love her to death obviously or i wouldn't have put a ring on her finger lol. She is actually wanting me to start testosterone sooner so ill be horny more. so im considering trying to go back to the doc and throw the test by eating almost nothing he day prior and jerking off the night before to lower my t levels and maybe get a legit pharma script. or just going underground and buying from a friend. either way i still think that i might rather lift than fuck is this just me or am i a freak? i know i was much more sexual with her the first few years which i think is normal and maybe its just that now that i know we are gonna get old and crusty together sex just isnt a high priority for me. anyways id like some feedback from some members with long term partners or married guys. the discrepancies of my sex drive and her sex drive is causing a little stress between us. thanks in advance for any advise ! p.s not having erectile problems just lack of motivation nail my lady.
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If you get on a TRT dose of test and throw in some provi @ a minimum of 25mgs a day you will be wanting it 2x's a day bro.
I'd go as far as to say there is nothing wrong with you, you're just tired of fucking her. I know I get tired of having the same sexual partner for a long period of time.
Interesting. Are you depressed? If your bloods are normal it's all in your head, it could be stress or you could be bored.
i think its a combination of stress and boredom. and just laziness and exhaustion from work. if i have extra energy i want to lift not bang my woman but i appreciate all the feed back from everyone. i will just try to meet her in the middle and put out a little more lol
That's a good idea, from a womans perspective if you're not trying to jump her all the time there's a problem. And when there's a problem most of us assume it's us, then we worry about why. Is he not attracted to me, has he met someone else blah blah blah
I've always had a higher sex drive than my husband (until recently). And the years I've wondered from time to time if I was the problem. One of the things I realized is, it's not a problem. People just have different needs. Good luck.
thank you for that thoughtful response.
I know it is cliche, but fact is we are not machines, we are human beings. Both men and women are up and down. We do fall into cycles where we just don't feel like it, and then pop back into wanting it all the time. Sadly I think as I get older the good times seem to require more effort to stay in. The juice helps but then we have to come back off and deal with a huge libido crash. I was quick to explain to my wife that that was going to happen but I could tell it still bothered her.
As couples we just have to at least communicate what is going on, the rest will work out.
What! I thought all men ever thought about was sex!! ;). Its funny how women can take everything personally. I don't even understand why, but I always have to remind myself not to over think everything he says. Like ifhe doesn't like my cooking it must be because I'm fat... That might be an exaggeration but yeah the female mind is a strange thing. LOL
Idk why you guys have to think like that. Back when i was still using opiates i couldn't finish ti save my life. I could go for hours and never even come close and she knew this. But she would still get all upset and think the reason I couldn't bust was because i wasn't attracted to her or some shit. I just dont get it, it was established if I was using oxys I couldn't nut.
Women always think its us, I think it has something to do with the need to please people. If there's a problem in my world I feel I have to fix it, and since everyone around me is perfect the problem must be me. Its completely irrational, but that's a woman's brain. I'm at least conscious if it so that helps but even at my age my first reaction is always its my fault.
These guys have given you solid advice I would only add that if you need a tan anyway MT2 increases my libido more than any other substance I have tried. Your johnson will have an itch that only your wife can scratch. But this like the others is only temporary and you don't want to use it frequently.
X2. Mt2 is fucking crazy when I take that stuff I get random hardons all day long.
Edit: i also regret using it more then any other thing ive used. Im full of fucking new moles now. Maybe they were already there and just darker now, but it looks so fucking bad man. I think they have gotten a little lighter since i stopped but ididnt even get through 1 10mg vial. Never again. But it did make me so dark
There are creams to lighten them. You probably loaded too fast, I'm addicted to mt2. I haven't had any permanent sides. I did get a few new freckles but the blend in.
...Shoes on the other foot, I will impart the same "wisdom" I give my wife, "Sometimes you just got to take one for the team."
I wish I had your "problem".
Has it occurred to you that there is nothing wrong with your sex drive? That having sex, in and of itself, will lower your sex drive?
That being said, ED drugs will not increase your libido. Do as irongame suggested - spice it up. get yourself addicted to porn. take supplements that are reported to increase your libido.
You will not be able to get your levels down far enough to get a script unless you do a cycle and get tested just before PCT.
You should talk to ur doc about daily 5mg cialis for now. I wouldn't start early for just that reason.good luck bro
RustyhookerSays he's not having ED.
Stress alone can cause lack of drive. You dont need Viagra and cialis since your Weiner works. Provi is suppressive. Your test levels are good.
Horney Goat Weed is an all natural remedy. Like $15 and non suppressive.
Most likely stress and boredom. You're getting married! That's stressful. Get on goat weed. Get outta town. Lil wine n dine.
Horney goat weed i tell everyone on pct to use it. Google it. It works great.
AnonHave u taken Cialis and Viagara together? It may technically be made for ed but it works just as good for libido. Walking around with a sore throbbing cock for hours will force him to use it.
RustyhookerHaving an erection and having sex drive are two separate parts. They work independently. Sure he can use any info presented here. Thats his choice. I posted up whats been working by my own use as well as pm. Thanks to sgtstedanko advice on pct its non intrusive and works. If the op simply needs a boner to "chore" his way thru then sure! It's a viable option.
Agreed, I never got a "libido boost" by taking ED drugs -individually or as a cocktail.
AnonLol it's not so much a pure libido boost. It's a "What else am I going to do with this" libido boost:D
RustyhookerCustom towel rack and chick magnet!. Lol!
lmao.... I can't tell you how many times I've walked out of the bathroom like that. My wife just shakes her head. She says I'd be lost if I didn't have my dick to play with....... damn right.
RustyhookerHelicopter. At least daily. She thinks I'm a child but it gets a laugh. Haha
lol, it ain't gonna suck it's self right!?!?!
RustyhookerCarlos helped me out after the tren run. Had sex drive but Weiner was up n down like yo-yo. Caber for rebound and cialis at 5mg. Switched cialis after for the good old goat weed. Still unsure about doing tren again. Lol
Carlos is definitely the one to go to for PCT advice that's for sure.
Given your test levels, you may benefit by just incorporating some good proviron to help raise free test levels which are linked to linido amongst other things. As Carlos said, get on a regimen of some Viagra or cialis or a blend that some srcs offer and maybe throw in 25mg-50mg of proviron and then see how things go. Also HGH can help libido as well.
Is there a reason why you are waiting until the fall to start the testosterone? If you get good product and start pinning the libido will be there. Problem solved.
i was planning on fall because its my first cycle and im a business owner and shit is crazy during the summer.... i want to have time to eat good foods at a surplus from my maintenance caloric intake. Also more time to train. right now im so busy with work i am only getting to the gym 2-3 times per week and doing my entire body at each workout just to maintain what i have got already seems pretty pointless to try running a first cycle when i barely have enough time to train and eat as is. let alone fuck my ball and chain lol. thats the problem i think she sits at a desk for 9 hours a day and is bored i am literally working or thinking about work related stuff every waking hour.
Gotta spice it up a bit. Maybe you should start putting it in her butt. It's tight as hell and even more fun cause you know it she's not getting any pleasure from it.
Also, testosterone levels are not the only factor that determines your sex drive. Its definitely one of the biggest factors but thats not it. Shit just changes as you get older according to my doctor.
ive fucked my woman in every hole many many times lol always great advise though. butt fuck her bro!!
Lmfao put it in her butt
AnonBeen with my wife almost 15 and married almost 6. This is completely normal. It sounds to me that this is more mental than anything. What type of lover is she? What type of lover are you? What state is your communication in? Your level of intimacy? Not sexual intimacy but the intimacy of your souls? Do you talk eye to eye? Does she know every part of you? Are you open about your feelings? Is she? Have you tried experimenting with new positions? Toys? Porn? Brother it sounds like she adores you and wants to worship you as the sex god you are. Do you have any self esteem issues? Have you ever dominated her sexually? Made her worship you literally? Do you like to be dominated? Do you like to worship? Bro me and my wifey have nearly tried it all. Minus bringing a third person into the bedroom. I will never share her even with a woman.
Try everything. Be open to her needs. Be open to yours. Start with communicating this to her. Explain to her how much you want to satisfy her but are having troubles. Ask her to motivate you. But you must laugh about this. Never let it get too serious. Laughter is a must in my marriage and in my bedroom.
These are questions you'll need to figure out answers for. In the meantime get some Cialis and Viagara and use them both. Take your girl on a weekend. Go somewhere romantic. Pop the Cialis on a Friday and the Viagara a hour or two before you make love. The extra blood flow will boost your libido and you'll be fine. Just go all out. This is the woman you are going to share your existence with. You'll have much more fun if you address this now or at least find some answers now.
Well said +1
thank you for the thoughtful response. good to know this is normal and im not alone on this issue. yes i am a sex god thank you:)
Wow, that is great advice.
Well written...FR sent...I'm an old friend just with a new name ;)
Thank you for that Carlos +2
zschlitz1Aww thstd cute Carlos
who knew you had a sweet side
Nailed it! Its all about being comfortable and not being scared to try new things. You never know what will spark that feeling +1