Do not hit on girls at your gym!!
I know its hard to resist the urge your F'n pumped up, muscles are full of blood, you're looking good, of course your tests levels are superhuman and you would F a hole in the ground and there she is in skin tight booty shorts doing bent over rows right in front of you! The force is strong in you don't do it!
Really you are their to workout so yeah its nice to get to check out the eye candy but let me tell you from experience. I always saw this one personal trainer at my gym ED with an ass you could bounce a quarter off of. Well I approached her and got to talking for a few weeks long story short it didn't work out and ended awkward. Now I have to see her at the gym everyday and believe me it will F with your mindset. Everybody thinks they are the man and when you get shot down/rejected its a blow to the ego and you don't need these distractions at the gym.
So let the eye candy stay that way and resist the urge to approach.
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AnonNever would hit on a girl at the gym. My approach with women anywhere is to spark a conversation of common interests and see what develops. I make my "move" according to the response I get. At the very least, I'll have a new friend.
Taking a peek here and there is fine but I have tunnel vision in the gym. I'm there for one reason and nobody is going to shake my concentration. Most of the time it's pretty obvious that the chic doesn't want to be bothered and she's extremely annoyed by your (you fuckers that do this) advances. Other than sticking with the game plan and focusing on my goals in the gym, I have a beautiful woman at home already. The forbidden fruit looks so tempting. When you take a bite you'll realize that it's just another fuckin apple.
On the same page with ya there Nitti. TOTAL Tunnell vision other than i do glance at the tools doing whatever it is they think they are doing and crack up! If anyone tries to approach me..i think they get skeeeered cuz i give them the look of dont fukin think bout it buddy or i'm gonna crush ur skull and i'm sure u dont want to be shown up by a guuuuhrl.
I can only imagine. Nothing will scar the male ego like being shot down then shown up by a strong woman! ;-)
SilverbackdI can't go to gym at certain times of the day cuz of a girl I started to mess with...we had fun a couple of times but didn't kno she was psycho...she stalk me showing up at my job and following me around town ....she got mad as hell whn she saw me and this other chick talkn so I had to put her on blast in front of the whole gym and she still dnt get the hint...weird thing is tht she is married ...im bout to tell her husband to control her crazy ass
SilverbackdSo its not wise to do cuz u neva kno what u getting so just get ya workout in and leave
New2roidLuckily for me, im ugly so i dont need to worry about girls approaching me and distracting me.
LOL
If the girl is looking at you smiling, multiple times that's pretty much key to start a conversation. You will know by her response to your questions if shes interested. Get her #, If not end convo on a good note and continue workout lol
You'll have to be very self confident to do this and succed without looking cocky. I would just reccomend people like this to go to a bar(& yes u can drink one beer every now and then, it wont fucken kill u) and do the hook up thingy. Personally i hate when guys do this at my gym, the ladies go to gym to train and then go out on wekends to hook up just like we do.
its all about how you approach it id say. I dont ever hit on girls at the gym either, but just be cautious if you do. Sometimes you gotta take a risk, and a girl with an ass you can bounce a quarter off of is pretty good reason to take a risk id say. just make sure your cautious and know that you gotta see them everyday.
Defenitly agree, I have seen a couple of times where the girl is responding well, smiling, giggling etc and the dude gets her digits. Now also I've had times where girls will approach me and ask "how do you get so muscular." Or come up grinning ear to ear and ask if they can work in with me. But still after being burnt and knowing the anxiety it causes to see her daily after being burnt I don't pursue it anymore. There are much more appropriate places. Saying that I have an extended family member who met her husband at the gym.. Like Hollywood said you gotta gauge the risk vs reward and approach it rationally.
This is good advice. It is very hard this is true. Ill use their body as motivation, but Ive never attempted to pickup a girl at the gym.
IMO.. I think its f'in hilarious to hear all of the bad game! the first look on her face and the let down are good too! lmao