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ugh yeah I know why you opened the thread.. not what you think it is ..lol..

I've been doing a lot of thinking about things lately and while I was sitting in the salon last week people watching, I noticed that one of the guys (yes guys) was really sexy. However, I need to say that it wasn't about his physique per se but more about how he carried himself. It was the way he dressed, the way he carried himself, and his entire presentation. He didn't just roll up out of bed throw on some clothes and run off to work. It was the entire package. This guy isn't normally the type I find attractive, but what I did find attractive was his confidence and the attention to detail. His shirt was pressed, not wrinkly like he'd been hit by a wrinkle bomb, freshly shaven, nice pair of pants.. etc..

I think people forget that SEXY is about how a person carries and presents themselves not just physcial features. We are all here working hard to make ourselves look better, but our work doesn't end in the gym or in the kitchen, that's where it starts.

What do you do to make yourself the whole package ?

Broctavius's picture

I think GRRRL's profile pic is sexy!!! ;-)

XvBeast's picture

let me show u what sexy looks like in the gym, right here
http://www.eroids.com/sites/default/files/gearpic/24543/191343_202634099...

kodiakGRRL's picture

that's called Hot ;-)

VIKING EVOLUTION's picture

GRRRL Cmon babes you know me... i just oooooze, i can dampen a maidens panties with just a glance Smile

Well at least i can in my dreams lmfao!

kodiakGRRL's picture

LOL.. you've always made my panties damp .. with that sexy viking swagger and club that you carry as you threaten to drag us ladies off to the cave by our hair.. ;p

VIKING EVOLUTION's picture

I just got a flash back from 10,000BC with racheal welsh with green hair bursting out of her rabbit skin tittie bag ... SPLAAAT! "oh shit" i need a nappy change lol....lol

kodiakGRRL's picture

lmao... 10,000 BC eh???

VIKING EVOLUTION's picture

The film with the cavemen and lots of titties.... ask goth bet he knows it well!

trod's picture

It's all about appearance and especially attitude

outcast's picture

For me i not only spend countless hours at the gym and on my appearance but also countless hours studying going back to college and exploring every business opportunity I can. Im looking to have confidence not only in my appearance but in my ability to give my now wife and kids the best possible life I can. So for me, being sexy is not only looking me good but being stable and able to provide.

kodiakGRRL's picture

LOL

justaguy's picture

I'm clueless about sexy anymore! I shave daily, keep my neck, nose & ear hair in check, I buzz my head at least every two weeks, summers ill shave it daily. I work for a living, dress in heavy duty cargo pants, clean & wrinkle free button down work shirt, wife picked out colors, tan pants French blue shirts, work boots, not too beat up but not polished either. Like I said I am clueless about sexy because although I notice women, I don't stare or make rude comments, maybe a smile, & hello & look them straight in the eyes. I deal with strangers everyday in my line of work, walk in introduce myself & tell them why I'm there, fix A/C, heat or commercial refrigeration. I don't know if I'm sexy but I'm professional confident & successful. I asked my wife what makes me sexy she said it was the squint or twinkle in my eye when I look at her! She knows I love the female form but she also knows I only have eyes for her. I tell her all the time " I'm a married man & I act like it all the time!" I don't know if that's sexy to anyone else, but my baby thinks so!

DBG's picture

I don't even have time to try and look sexy like this dude you are talking about, I don't even really have the money to wear pressed shirts and wool or silk trousers. I do have a few...but I save it for dates...and I haven't been on a good one in quite awhile. The big picture is that I take care of myself and it shows...I wear nice casual clothes, always have a haircut every 3 weeks and trim up the face on a daily. Me is me...and that's that, take it or leave it.

logan's picture

I agree 100% grrrl, I have seen and met thousands of beautiful women but maybe 5 that I would call sexy. There was just something about them that set them apart from the rest

kodiakGRRL's picture

of course I pay attention when you talk to me honey .. that doesn't mean my eye site stops working though

kodiakGRRL's picture

you better not come up with some bullshit about looking, now.. I see how you look at those other grrrls

kodiakGRRL's picture

LOL, you must have had that one ready ...

everclese's picture

Where did you say that you saw me?

kodiakGRRL's picture

I m not telling doll if you didn't notice me then it's your loss ;-)

everclese's picture

I knew u were looking at me... I got those slacks a Salvation Army and my grandma pressed my shirt? What? The basements damp? I have a cough leave me alone...

kodiakGRRL's picture

Lmao... you are one sexy mofo..

Roid Noid's picture

so you mean scratching my ass, picking my nose, and ironing my clothes with my hand is not OK?

kodiakGRRL's picture

is this what makes you sexy ?

Roid Noid's picture

sure! I do it confidently! Smile

Carlos Danger's picture

Finding the rythm in the first breathe. In each opporrtunity find control of my heart and the fear within. Taking a chance on myself enough to say hello to someone more refined. Embracing the uniqueness of individuality. Risking humiliation just to feel alive in the moment. Knowing I am peerless and unequaled means I can serve as easily as i can dictate. Kindness in the face of anger. Holding moral standards above misleading and often fast fleeting satisfactions. Being generous even when I am without. That's true confidence. True courage is doing what needs to be done regardless of how I feel.
Clothes are simply an expression of the image of self awareness or self interpretation. Each mood a different character. Some days I feel better than others. Some days I am happy and colorful. Others dark and brooding. Adventurous or withdrawn. When I am truly me I live for comfort but also stylish. Cotton Tshirt 501's cuffed up and chuck Taylor's. that's how I am most days. If I dress up I still dress down. Black button up longsleeves rolled up. Tattoo sleeves flying proud. Black Dickie work pants. Nice turquoise n black vans. No watch no chain no bracelet.

kodiakGRRL's picture

impressive really .. can't wait to meet you ;-)

SimonM84's picture

To answer your question I don't care what I look like I only care what the chick looks like but I want to be able to hold conversation with just about anyone ...I never like feeling dumb for not knowing what someone is talking about but manners and pressed clothes are now back in style because for a minute women liked the unemployed drug addict look and (wrinkly clothes). Soccer dads have a hard time with temptation women love soccer dads as well. But this is what I've come to notice. My .02

kodiakGRRL's picture

ugh.. you missed the whole point .. looks is just a part of the whole.. sexy is a state of mind.. a way of being. I could dress up a pig and it would just be a pig in fancy clothes..

SimonM84's picture

I think what makes me sexy is i am me 24-7 and that is unique... i say what i think out loud regardless weather its politically correct.im not ashamed of things ive done because ive lived through them. When people that know me or know of me they say im literally in outer space. Also i continuesly tell people about journeys that i plan to go and that i.plan to.go on every one of them. I live my.life and thats why im sexy

HeavyHitter's picture

Well ill begin an end with none of this is me !!! But Confidence

SimonM84's picture

I think running mascara is hot on any type of girl thick or rail thin I know I'm weird

kodiakGRRL's picture

what makes simon sexy? you keep avoiding the question honey.

SimonM84's picture

I like naughty librarian look too so chicks with glasses make me want to take over a country and myself being dictator and her being my bride but then on the flip side I like chicks that have piercings and tattoos gothic is a plus...so I'm all fucked up this is why I never sleep and I constantly stare outside windows when the sun is rising or setting

SimonM84's picture

Lol I know I wanted to get yelled at for hijacking just some acknowledge from her

SimonM84's picture

No no not crying I hate drama ...I mean like up all night and not giving a shit what people think of my leaky nose look

witchdoctor6's picture

I go from Firefighter responsibilities to Paramedic responsibilities depending on the call. My hands are important in both functions. Yeah I have callouses , but my fingernails are clean/no grime/no grease and clipped, not bitten. My uniform is creased, cleaned and boots brushed. Oh how patients take note of the professional appearance of a care provider. Would you want a sloppy person with coppenhagen tobacco in their mouth intubating your love one?

Just keep it clean and nonstuffy.

Nitti's picture

It comes naturally. Effortless! ;-)

kodiakGRRL's picture

Yes, NItti you ARE sexy ;p

XvBeast's picture

dress shoes, dress pants, black suspenders , black tie, and no shirt

Broctavius's picture

Today a slightly fitted long sleeve white shirt sleeves rolled up a bit, a nice belt, dark good fit jeans, black leather band watch, some cole haan's, a dab of gel, clean shaved, a good handshake, and a smile.

Ha now all I need is a girl on my arm.