fortunately for you he's handing you tough love, not a hand out.. and it is fortunate for you, because there is more to learn parallel to your specific question and answer.. to give you a generic answer would not do you justice brother.. you must realize there isn't a good answer for you, it's something you will have to figure out.. use the google search function on this website and start from there..
also before most vets will help you out they are going to want your stats.. in fact there's probably many "intro" threads you haven't read yet that will benefit you greatly.. this site is different from any you have been to before related to this subject matter.