posted Fri, 10/18/2013 - 07:11
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Think i am getting set up.........
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Ok this is for the guys or ladies.. So here I sit at work and I get 1 dozen red roses delivered in a vase to me with no card attached ????? I asked the guy who they was from and he didn't know I called the flower shop and they would not disclose who they was from.. the wife has never sent flowers to me ?? should I tell her or keep them a secret I am leaning towards keeping them a secret from her cause it will only start world war 3. some advice would be greatly appreciated...
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Folks that cheat should be fkn hung............ period.
Ok first of all I never cheated and all I did was talk to an old flame that's it!!
Cheating is a funny word which can mean physical or emotional. If you want to test whether you feel you have done something wrong against your conscience here is a simple method. Go and tell your wife that you simply "had a talk with an old flame." And of course the context of the whole conversation. If you are willing to do this and have no fear or anxiety then I would say you are cheat free! If not....well. By the way I am not the moral police and neither do I care what you do with your relationships, I just figure if people post stuff here they are either looking for vindication or advice, so please don't take this as a judgement
Also, many times the grass is not any greener on this or that side of the fence. Stick with your marriage and don't make the mistakes I have made.
Not sure why you didn't just "thank the wife" immediately... If you are honoring your fidelity then SHE would be the first go-to, If she didn't send them you have no control over anyone elses infatuation and one would think that she would understand that, too, and you both could have a litle chuckle at the "mystery flowers"
Secrets grow in the dark my friend
BigBmajI like that statement about secrets growing in the dark. I'm going to store that somewhere.
This maybe kinda sorta off the topic but after reading this post Friday night I bought my wife some roses and took them to where she worked. I text-ed my daughter ,"who works there as well", and told her to meet me at the side door. I gave them to my daughter to give to her and then left. My daughter text-ed me and said my wife balled like a baby. When my wife got home we made love for two hours. "Sorry if that's TMI".
So, I spent $12 and made my wife very happy. $12 very well spent imo... Just a side note, I got her some Lady Var which came the next day and I think she was happier with the flowers.
BigBmajNice.
.....Flowers? Don't know what I make of that lol. Perhaps I have spent too long hibernating deep within the Scottish highlands. Shit has changed
At this point its damage control time. Not sure why you would tell her who you "thought" they were from. Trust me, brother, the grass isn't any greener. Stick with your wife IF you had been doing anything. It isn't worth it and you'll find that all women are basically all the same (as well as men).
Well I came clean to the wife last night told her I received flowers at work. She did not send them told her who I thought they could be from she blew up got mad but everything worked out .
as I suspected ;)
p.s. you may think this all blew over but trust me it didn't
First of all you've not been completely faithful other wise you would honestly have no idea and wouldn't be questioning weather to tell her or not. Second, if she sent them she knows or suspects something already. You had best come clean with her about the flowers, if it wasn't her you might want cut yourself off from anyone that could be the sender. Also... Everything Pank said!
BigBmajTell her. You would be stupid not to tell your wife.
I say this with all due respect....what the hell is wrong with you! do you cheat on your wife if so you should be shitting your pants because clearly you now have an unpredictable situation that looks like it is going to bite you on the ass.
If you don't cheat then why would you not tell your wife unless you want to find out who it is and have a fling. Here is my advice if you are married be decisive, never apologize and kiss your wife's ass when you are not wrong. When you are wrong never blame anyone but yourself get in front of before your wife corrects you and fully own it. But most of all stop fearing your wife's reaction if you are not doing wrong! In fact don't fear it if you are doing wrong just get out of the marriage. Basically don't fear! Good luck.
When are we getting together ?
Only a guilty conscience would hide such a trivial thing...
If your wife sent them you're screwed if you don't mention it.
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GearofWar+1. Couldn't have said it any better, lol!
AnonAgreed
Just tell her. Seriously. She may have sent it and wants to see if you'll say something. If you don't say anything TRUST ME, she will start to think that you receive flowers all the time and you don't tell her about it. Believe me, she will twist it around thinking that some woman is always sending you flowers so you thought HER flowers were from that other woman (that doesn't exist).
RustyhookerProblem is IF wifey catches wind of "admirer" from someone other than you.....ouch! If marriage is solid, just keep her updated. Maybe she sent em as a test?
IDK she just never sends flowers to anyone we will see
why wld yr wife send you annonymous flowers? sounds manipulative if she did and why wld she be manipulative? so you have ZERO idea who they may be from?? none whatsoever, zilch, nada ?? There's absolutely no other females you talk to, work with, flirt with? before you open yr big mouth and get yr self in deep shit be sure the answer is an absolute no bec if you think i just asked a lot of questions wait til yr wife starts askin questions!
Ruh roh. He's so screwed!.. LOL
GO HORNETS!
I got an idea bring em home, look for her reaction if she says their beautiful say thanks. If she say who the hell did u get that from, say I bought them for u babe. Case closed. You win!
Hmmm women are smarter than that!
nice
Brilliant! Lol However; I sure hope that won't bite ya in the rear later on. Being a woman; I'd be so mad if I found this out later later on..
SOLID. Regardless if she got them or not, this solves the problem. Good work.
THATS PRETTY FUCKING SMART BRO
Damn brother it is not smart at all! Unless you think your wife is a dumb ass and deserves to be treated like shit. I would like to say I don't really care simply because you only seem to care about getting away with shit. But say one day you have a lofty goal and shoot to have character you fine the way you are looking at this as a very short term plan. As long as you don't mid a divorce in your future then you are g2g as they say around here. But usually it is that same type of guy that winds up crying like a little kid when that shit happens. The truth is a way a man's looks and treats his wife is indicative of what he thinks of himself. I believe it is more noble to say you know I am so busy trying to pull shit over on you clearly this marriage isn't working and we should seriously consider divorce, so I don't have to run around sneaking like a thief in the night. I would say I am sorry for taking what most sensitive people may think is a hardline here but I am not. I am trained to spot and ween out weakness at its root. Unfortunately or fortunately for you I have spare time this week in between training a bunch of new recruits so it is a con stant theme for me lately self accountability!
Dude, check to see if one of your coworkers (male gay) are being a little to giggly around you. I had something like this happen to me. Woman will just ask you what your doing latter wanna grab a drink or something to eat, that's hint. I'm married for almost 10years trust me tell her, if she says no tell your wife it must be that fruit cake at work. If you find out its another woman thank her, lol in what ever way you feel fit. But don't tell your wife that part.
Holy moly brother.. Idk. That is a sticky situation . I mean, if you do tell her and they were not from her ....well then, the s*** hit the fan ide say. But if you don't tell her and they were from her ..hell man, this is a ruddy. Better you than me. Lol. If my wife was still around, she would kill me and the b**** that sent them . If in fact some other girl sent them to you ..good luck
Tell her. If you are not cheating you have nothing to worry about. I could send you flowers if I had your address just to start drama. Maybe a source sent them and have a secret crush on you lmao
LMFAO never cheated but me and my old high school sweet hart started talking and I asked her she denied it was her
noob941damn bro it must be something in the air or water you and myself and atleast one more brother on here has had that highschool sweetheart flare up in recent weeks. i almost made a decision that would have made me think less of myself and lose respect for her as well but we worked our plan out we hope anyways lol. hell maybe having hormone levels around what they were triggers highschool memories or something who knows. but good luck stay strong
I don't know why you would even open up that can of worms by starting to talk to your high school sweetheart. If you are married, then you don't need to be reliving glory days with an old fling. She's an old fling for a reason.
My advice would be bring them home and tell your wife about how you received them. Ask her if she sent them and add on that if she did that was really sweet of you. If you are in fact not cheating, then you don't have anything to hide, other than chatting it up with an ex. Good Luck!