The good the FAT and the ugly.
Excuse the language but HOLY F#CK!! This recent article caught my attention as I scanned headlines....
*** 10 YEAR OLD SCHOOLGIRL WEIGHS 22 STONE (308 lbs) ****
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/10541288/10-year-old-school...
A few things came to mind as I read this with my mouth wide open in shock. First being how the hell can this girls parents allow this to happen! A life time of health issues and ridicule await her before she has even had a fair shot at life, real shame in my eyes. You might think like me well this is obviously a 1% case ( May well be ) but as I read on the stats say 1/4 of kids aged 10-11 years old are now classed obese!
What you guys think,
Should this be considered some kind of abuse?
Or
Should we all mind our own dam business and let the parents continue to enable their kids to become as fat as they see fit?
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I got so angry over Christmas break when my brother (45), his wife (40) and their kids 5 and 9 came out to visit. Its been a few years since Ive seen them. My brother has always eaten terribly and has a belly, but is by no means obese. His wife was not slim when they met 10 years ago, but she has steadily grown over the years and is now boardering on obese. Well I came to find out she is also already type 2 diabetic ON INSULIN, at 40 years old. They eat nothing hut processed shit and are passing it on to the kids. At 9 the daughter is already starting to get chubby, the kids wont eat any veggies at all.
Now heres where I start getting really angry. First off they have a lot of money and the mindset that they can just throw money at any problem and make it go away, including their health. All kinds of meds to support the crap diet. So I have the Paleo Solution book which talks all about linking processed foods, their diet, to all the diseases and symptoms they suffer from and I was going to let her borrow and read it. You know what she said, "oh ya, I read that book. I just dont buy into it." AHHHHHHGGGGGGHGJSJSJDJFHRJSJSHHHHHHHHHHHAAHAHHHHDHD!!!!!!! Frustration. I didnt say anything about it the rest of the time they were there but it was very upsetting. Here's the very worst part- she is the principal of an elementary school in a densely populated area. She influences kids lives as a main authority figure for years during their formative time and she is telling them that its perfectly ok to eat shit food your whole life and grow up to he fat and sick. Ugggghhhhh it just kills me! Ok rant over.
You know we attract all the assholes that enjoy giving us steroid users a fkn hard time!.... i tell ya what bro..... we sure aint fkn lazy when it comes to proper eating habits.......... thats a FACT!!
Not at all, it's the main focus of every day, which I think is natural for any animal. But people just arent willing to put in the thought and preparation it takes to eat healthy. Now I can understand ignorance and poverty leading to obesity, you really cant fault people too much for that, especially kids. We're told all day by ads about all the shit food thats "healthy." Theres no required nutrition class in school, although there should be, so people get their health advice from the worst place possible - mainstream media.
But in an affluent, well educated population its infuriating. Especially when it's happening to you, and you have the information right in front of you explaining why and how to correct it. And you consciously choose to ignore it, thats just not acceptable. Raising health care costs for all of us because of selfishness and addiction.
The general consensus now is I can go to my local fat in the box and grab a value meal for 5.00 double cheeseburger, large fries and large coke, Or the "dollar" menu. I can go to my grocer and pay 12.00 per pound for a nice piece of salmon or 10.00 for a 1/2 pound of swordfish, or 20.00 for a beautiful lean cut of steak. Then I have to cook that good for me food. Why bother? A bag of chips and a double heart attack burger is faster. The average fast food meal is over 3000 calories and 70& fat or more. I stopped eating at subway too, most Foot longs at subway are 1400 calories and 65% fat. Nowadays its quicker for "mom on the go" to run through these fat workshops then to actually cook good food for their kids. They are molding a very bad society. I pass those places now in disgust. It's been over a year sionce I ate any fast food besides pizza. I can't stop the pizza guys COME ON!
I grew up in a family of 4 siblings, 1 older, 1 younger and a little sister. We would go through so much food it was crazy; but we were not allowed to leave the table until everything was eaten; so on wednesdays we would eat about 4 pounds of spaghetti wednesdays about 3 pork chops a piece, tuesdays was lazy ass peanut butter jelly sandwich day so thats 3 or 4 sandwiches, thursdays mac n cheese about 5 boxes or veal or steak. My mother was a schedule freak. other then the pizza on saturdays; mac n cheese, and sandwiches we had NO junk food. No wonder my parents were broke all the time. We ate more then a family of 10 and we were all really skinny kids, BUT we grew up in an age where you actually went outside and played; we played a lot of sports, Doctor (my favorite haha) and wiffle ball. We didn't have the intertubes and the video games until we were about 14 because also our parents did not want us lying around the house. Such a different world we live in. If we didn't eat what was on our plate we got our asses kicked or we stayed at the table all night until it was gone. I tested that once; ONCE. At about 4 in the morning I decided to eat my lunch so I could go to bed and still got my ass kicked lol.
What is even crazier is WE are the ones raising these kids now! (Our generation). We all remember how great the things we did and saw were but yet are powerless to get our kids to appreciate much of anything. At least that is the way I feel a lot of days. My kids both eat pretty healthy and eat very little junk, but the vast majority of our fellow GenX and GenY parents are failing, big time! My daughter is a cheerleader so naturally I have to go to basketball games, nearly every kid on that team is carrying extra body fat, some quite a bit. THEY ARE 16-17 Years old! I don't know about the UK but I know in America we have a huge problem and it is NOW.
Before my daughter passed I was feeding her good food and would never let her eat the boxed shit or the crappy foods her mother let her eat. I literally would buy all local grown vegetables or fruits and prepare it myself. I did let her get away with mac n cheese though I couldn't help it. I didn't want to be a total ass. This was even before I went on my fitness program. The problem starts and ends with us.
Mac and Cheese would be un-American to deny a child of. I think if people just took the time to cook their own food we would be half way there. I am sorry about your daughter brother, I cannot even fathom how painful that was.
telloladeIs this a joke??? You must be a troll what kind of bullshit is this u fkn fag
Whos the fkn fag now!.......
People feed their kids processed crap all the time these days. My daughter had one of her friends round for a sleepover recently. When it was time to make dinner I asked her what she liked and didn't like and was told "I only eat Mcdonalds and sweets". I took it with a pinch of salt, thinking she's just trying it on and cooked them some chicken with veg etc. she wouldn't eat anything.
Basically this kid nearly starved at our house and according to her mother only eats burgers and sweet stuff. Won't eat veg, won't eat fruit. She eats that way because she's allowed to by her parents. Her mother was about 220lbs, I wonder why......
My kid gets a choice, eat it or you'll be hungry. That's how it was for me and a lot of people my age. If they're hungry enough, they'll eat it.
my sister in law is like that with her kids. They never ask to spend time with me lol. They won't eat anything unless its chicken nuggets or boxed food and junk food. I just shake my head.
That strategy worked on me just fine, I would choke it down whether I liked it or not. Now my son on the other hand was a much harder case. I tried that strategy with him until he literally sat there and puked all over the table because he didn't like it. He is not a junk foor addict or anything but the kid won't touch a steak t save his life.
My parents never even gave me a choice in the matter. I had to eat what I was made, that was the end of conversation lol.
My daughter is still very young but is already exceptionally fussy with food. I'm not looking forward to having those dinner time battles but you can bet your ass they will happening regardless.
It's all about balance when it comes down to it.
semantics, I agree B, on the rare one percent chance this little girl has a medical defect this is simply a case of child abuse and neglect nothing more and should be treated as such my God they are setting her up for failure and a early death.
All my kids are healthy normal and thin and that's because we don't buy processed bullshit food. It is all the parents fault for bringing that garbage into their house. The problem is it's cheaper to eat that way. Food is our single biggest expense at around $1600 a month and that doesn't include any of my supplements. It is sad to see all of the fat kids when I go pick my kids up from school. At my kids schools I would say 75% of the kids are at an unhealthy weight.
When I want to lose unwanted weight I usually start by getting rid of the junk in the cabinets. No more sugary cereals, pop tarts, or Ho Hos. If its around me I will be tempted to eat it, so if it isn't in the house I am forced to eat or snack on something healthy. I usually gain some weight in the winter since I am not as active, the weather is sometimes crappy. Also I grow my own fruits and veggies in the spring through fall, so I have access to fresh food. I love walking outside to pick some lettuce, tomatoes, peppers, cucumbers, onions, parsley, and basil to assemble a fresh salad from the plants I grow. I should start putting it in mason jars for the winter months. My friends father is an ethnic Serb and he has a great recipe for jarring a veggie mix, I call it Serbian salad and it is good.
That's one of my great regrets about living in the city is that I cannot grow my own garden and I accidentally kill all my plants :( fuk I hate that I have no clue how to raise plants...I raised a human being for cryin out loud but a little green plant NO! ugh I went to look at plants yest and I turned away bec I knew I 'd be their bringer of death as much as I love them, water them and give them sun....k this is kinda off topic
You would be surprised with all of the high-tech hydroponic systems they have now designed for growing pot, but can be used to grow veggies or fruit indoors, on a balcony, or rooftop. All you have to do is take samples of the water and adjust with a combo of 3 to 5 chemicals. It becomes routine, as easy as taking your meds every day. Just don't jack with em too much, everyone want to touch and trim their plants, but they end up fucking them up. Just water or adjust the chems in the resivor and check for diseases or pests, then treat accordingly. Then just walk away.
The FDA, big pharma, big agra, the meat & diary industry, monsanto, vaccinations, fluoride, BPA, GE foods, pesticides, GMO's, dioxin, jeez i can go on & on.....fat kids, dumb kids, its all part of the illuminati agenda of depopulation....America buys it all hook line and sinker thats why we have the fattest population of all countries, our government is a farce...we are owned by all the aforementioned, and our government assholes will continue to purport their agenda bec they're being bought off to do so.
remember the days when yr mother had to call you in for dinner but you wanted to stay out and play so you rushed home choked down ur dinner then ran back out??? well those days are long gone, welcome Xbox, kindles, tablets, iPhones and FAT kids.....the entire government should be arrested and tried for treason for their participation in this agenda which is ruining our children and slowly killing all of us one cancer case at a time..... most american parents are fat, dumbed down, sheeple,who are clueless about what they & their children are really eating and have no interest in doing the work to educate themselves....its much easier to give a kid a GMO, hydrogenated oil, high fructose corn syrup, cookie and some Ritalin and tell them to be quiet.
Sad as it is not only are you correct but the worst thing about it all is no one is going to stop it, no one is going to hold America or any major government accountable.
Only one shinning star is lighting up (I almost said 'Illuminates' lol how ironic) a very very dark sky.
Mr. Edward Snowden we thank you ;)
Shhhhhhhh, you can be sent away in one of those FEMA Consentration Camps for saying that.
lol well if they do ill be so doped up on vaccinations and sick ill just think im dead...but at least ill get to watch the kardashians woo hoo
Stop these child abusers. They are unfit for parenting, so they should be forced to go through a Nutrition Awareness Program by a panel of peers (jury). It might even create new jobs.
Parents are definitely responsible for what their children eat. It is as simple as that. Now a chunky kid is one thing, but morbidly obese 10 year olds is pure neglect. They are subjecting their kids to a much shorter and rougher life than they otherwise would have had. We have a serious problem here in the states. Not just with kids either , adults are way out of whack as well. Any of us that have spent any amount of time out in public have seen it with or own two eyes.
my friends daughter is almost 80lbs and shes only 5 years old, that's big child, i feel bad for her. kids are already making fun of her weight.. its a sad situation but, this particular case i blame the mother, i really think she neglects the child and the kid finds comfort in food.. we are not looking at the real problem here, the real reason...why are kids getting so fat? watch the kids network for 10 minutes and you will see fast food ads at every commercial.... parents are working crazy hours not spending time with their kids, not cooking at home on the daily bases... kids are into ipad this, xbox that. trying to get them off xbox is as hard as getting me off the juice(lol)..
BigBmajYes it is child abuse. But I let my son eat shitty food and play video games too much. So I'm far from perfect in the fit kid dept.
AnonYa I'm a little torn because if that's the case and we prosecute parents for this then every school in America children eat the school food should be prosecuted as well. And for that matter any kid who sneaks fatty food behind their parents back should also be prosecuted and sent to juvenile hall. Or what about parents who push their kids too hard to stay in shape. Is it abuse to make a child run alongside a car until they faint or somehow get hurt? I saw that the other day in the news. Some dad was forcing his begging son to continue running alongside and in front of this vehicle while dad is screaming at his boy to toughen up and get ready for football season.
Honestly fat kids don't upset me as much as asshole kids. There's a lot of cruel kids who if given the chance and I knew I would never be caught I would hunt these bully's down and torture them for days on end for some of the pain they cause to other kids. So where do u draw the line?
Sad reality is things are the way they always will be. There will always be people (kids/adults) who make poor decisions. A fat kid will eventually die from being fat well past their childhood. Some assholes will grow up and not learn their lesson until they fuck with the wrong person and get their jaw curbed like in American History X. Can't save everybody. Natural selection sorts it all out in the end.
I hear you but there comes a point where leaving it all to natural selection ain't gonna cut it. So if NOW we have a 1/4 of 10-11 yr olds who are obese , where we gonna be on 10 years time? At 50% should we still leave if to natural selection?
Yeah Fat kids are gonna be fat but as far as I'm concerned to have a 22stone 10yr old is neglect and abuse by the parents who should have to face some kind of charge. Hell make them do gym time like probation. Tag on their ankle and they gotta activate at the gym lol idk, that's obviously extreme but fuck it it's time for a change.
AnonWell what if ur kid is stupid? Is it neglect if your kids get horrible grades? Should someone else have the right to put u in jail for that? Heck bro should poor parents who have kids and are on welfare be put in prison? Or how about parents who let their underage children get pregnant or have children as minors? Should those parents be put in jail? Are u feeling me? How about we just take away freedoms and force everyone to behave and live according to some perfect persons standards and if u can't keep up we'll just put u in jail. How about patents who let their daughters at 5-6-7-8-9yrs old wear whorish clothes like a two piece bikini. That's sexual abuse of a minor if u ask me. Or dads who leave their pornography out and their kids find it can we throw them Sick fucks in jail! U can't bro. Sorry but this argument lost me at throwing people in jail. Tragic and upsetting yes. I'm all for that argument. Jail? U gotta be kidding
I never mentioned jail time bro. We have a tough enough time convicting pedos and rapist never mind parents neglecting the health of their obese children.
(IMO) Whorish clothes ain't gonna have the same effect on a kids life,
Catching your old man beating off isn't the same,
Welfare ain't the same,
Stupidity ain't the same,
Even underage pregnancy ain't the same......
A child reaching morbid obesity 100% directly impacts their health in a massive way in the present and for the rest of their (shortened) life.
Hate parents who let their kids get fat, they are supposed to nuture the child and better the kids chances of happiness correct? So they think letting him have a mcdonalds and lettin him eat what ever the fk he wants is giving him happiness, well not in the long run! Being fat at that age can cause all kinds of emotional trauma as they will likely get ridiculed by other children and will start to hate themselves. Giving them a perminantly damaged mind set about themselves. Some parents shouldnt be parents and i hate seeing this shit...
Life can be a hard bitch at the BEST of times never mind carrying around 22stone at 10years old.
Things like this never cease to amaze me. I blame the parents entirely, they should be prosecuted for child abuse/neglect.
Some people have slow metabolisms but to weigh that much is fuked up at that age, clearly over eating on a titanic scale!
The list of health issues will get longer by the year till a massive heart attack calls it a day on the miserable existence of some young kid.
I have to agree. Zero excuse to having a 10yr old kid @ 22 stone, no one else's fault but the parents.