Here's the deal with me personally, i do not mind a low sex drive. I still have the desire and ability to get a erection and complete the task but i try to keep my balance a little differently. I use an a.i. but do so sparingly-just enough to keep sides at bay. For me the extra estrogen is not a problem, my joints hurt less and i recover quicker, and my man-hide is less wrinkly. Yeah, i can get weepy when some sad shit's on t.v, but not a big deal. I do not miss the crazy desire to fight and fornicate with every knothole i saw lol. I like sex-don't get me wrong, and I'm also 45, single and trying to get my last kid graduated this year and on his own, work, workout,life etc. If i have a opportunity come up- i chew up some cialis's and ginsing a few days prior and whammo-just like a 20 year old again. When i kept my estrogen way down-I was a sore, mean, dried up bastard who was eye banging ( and trying to bang) everything in front of me lol!! And behind me-and across the room well, hope ya'll get the picture. Know it's kinda personal, but just wanted to share my perspective with everyone. Thanks