Tell me everyone's thought on this please
All right having issues with my girlfriend I've been thinking she's cheating on me so the most recent situation that has led me to believe so is as. I got a hotel room for a night so we could spend time together she decided to take a bath and I said I will go get some take-out I will be back I took 40 minutes to get take out when I got back all six towels from the bathroom for laying out on the floor and a pathway from the tub all the way to the front the door. So I said why the hell are all these towels on the floor. I started to pick them up and two of them were damp and smells like chlorine so I said why would towels smell like chlorine. The only reason they would is if someone went swimming. Hotels don't put fresh towels and they don't smell like chlorine. And I know this for a fact cuz I've been to thousands of hotels. So it leads me to believe she had someone come by and she went swimming with this person and she had a damp bathing suit kind of hidden under her other clothes. So I started getting pissed because there's no other way there would be two towels that smell like chlorine. So I said what's up with this and she couldn't explain it and then started saying OU accuse me of cheating so you're probably cheating. I'm not stupid but I truly believe someone was there or came by then they swam. what does everybody think and is there a way to find out if that happened. I ask the front desk if I could see the cameras but they wouldn't let me.
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She had to balls to get a quickie in while you went to get some takeout. You are about as paranoid as they get.
Cheating is one of those self fulfilling prophecys usually. The more worried and accusational you become the more you push her away and ultimately make her do what you are worried about in the first place.
"Well if he's going to keep punishing me for the crime I may as well do it"
Really guys. If I'm wrong I feel really bad. It was terrible what I said and what I thought and what accusations are made. Does everybody really think that that didn't happen I don't know that's just what I see. Maybe it's just from past relationships being cheated on a few times and seeing sneaky Behavior.
Has she ever cheated on anyone at all before? ...
Didn't take long to find it.
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Hahaha You did well Daniel Son ...... Lmao
She said she did and a couple past relationships
It definitely sounds like the tren. It catches all of us at one point. Take it as a sign to step back. 5 runs can be great, then you have the one where you’re thinking every email notification on your significant others phone is some guy texting trying to fuck her.
Chances are your being paranoid. That’s not an attack on your character. Most of us have felt it. When the emotions start taking control, it’s time to change something.
Ah she was probably just washing her hair with special shampoo to treat nits or something, and is embarrassed, go easy on her!
So in the 40 minutes you were gone you think she called someone, they came over went swimming and were gone by the time you got back. Unlikely...maybe she put the towels on the floor because there was no mat. The towels could have picked up a faint bleach smell off the floor which is similar to chlorine. She could have packed the bathing suit damp from the dryer. Goodluck
If life has taught me anything it’s thats it’s too short to date shady chicks who you think could possibly be disloyal. It breeds shit like you’re thinking now, sounds bonkers but could be true, it’s playing with your head and it’s not going to go away.
You’ve got to do right for yourself and find a woman who gives you 100% confidence that she would never cheat on you and you are her whole life so you don’t have to be this crazy dude who is constantly waiting to stubble upon some dude hanging out the back of your Mrs.
I guarantee you there is a woman funnier, more loyal and sucks dick 100 x better than your current one. Who the fuck can’t explain about a wet swimming costume, surely there is a reasonable explanation but no she would prefer to fuck with your head.
Cut her out of your life and find another woman.
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Hotels use cheap cleaning services or products (usually services) that can leave the towels smelling like chlorine. They probably bleach the shit out of them to keep them white.
Yup..industrial size jugs to disenfect all the spooge and blood and other bodily fluids that gets wiped on hotel towels.....
Seriously I'm paranoid and I'm wrong or is it possible
Nah, she's cheating on you. The chlorine is to disguise the smell of sex in the air.
Your paranoid as shit. If your on cycle be constantly aware of it. If it were me I would apologize and buy her a nice gift. If its happening it will show itself soon enough.
Brother, listen to the logic of your fellow Eroids members. There would not have been enough time for her to call someone, much less meet some random person at the hotel, and then go swimming and shag the dude in under 45 minutes. Are you always this jealous with your girlfriend? What other things has she done that indicate to you she is cheating? Me personally, if a woman makes me so jealous and paranoid that I believe she is cheating when I go to get some fast-food, I would dump her and bang some new pussy.
Sounds like good old tren based paranaoia. Time to stop taking gear, bro.
Not enuf time to find some one and fuck them.
She used both towels herself.
You think your girl is so shady that you get a hotel room and in the mere under an hour you impromtu leave to get food you truly beleive she connived to invite someone over, go swimming together, then hookup....all before you return??
Let me ask you, is your favorite TV show " Looney Tunes " ?
Lay off the drugs and if after you are still convinced, dump her. However, certainly look long and hard in the mirror first
If you’re on tren, Stop! If you’re convinced she’s cheating, hire a PI or the like, but be assured that your story of the pool is garbage and nonsensical. Regardless, you need to chill, take a deep breath and get a grip.
You can’t do anything about it, regardless. She is or she isn’t, so man up, drop the tren, relax and figure this out. Good luck.
Tren made me think my old lady was fucking everyone lol
For me it was opposite my ex thought I was fucking everyone lol
You're insane.
Within the span of 40 minutes, (from your girls perspective she had no clue how long you'd be gone), you think the following.
Your girl found some stranger or pre arranged a dip in the public hotel pool with a friend.
Your girl took whomever to your room.
They undressed and had sex?
She kicked the friend/stranger out soon enough that you would not cross paths.
Changed out of her suit and dried off.
All without knowing if you'd be gone 15 minutes or 45 minutes.
Yup, sounds like a workable plan. I think you're onto something.
FYI, my wife will wrap her hair in a towel and wrap a second towel around her body when leaving the pool or getting out of the tub.
X2 .... Tren mania!!
Yeah you're right Greg I don't know what's going on but I just been so worried lately and it feel like she's doing sneaking s***I've been cheated on many times in the past and I just feel like it's some of the behavior. But also everyone can be right and I can be in the wrong
It's called a trigger.
Emotionally you "instinctively" feel something is off.
Intellectually you must know it logically does not make sense.
Your problem is you are displaying a self destructive, self prophesying behavior.
If you confront her with baseless accusations and act all moody and suspicious all the time do you think she'll stick around? I know I wouldn't.
But hey, look at the bright side, when she eventually does leave you for someone else you can say you were right.
Conversely, you could approach her and explain you realize you were acting irrational. Open up to her about your insecurities (triggers), and see if you two can't figure out what set you off (besides the tren) and how she can help you feel less secure and how you can try and be more trusting.
Even a small white lie to avoid a long winded explanation or to avoid confrontation can set off a trigger.
If this was happening to me I would give her more and more rope she will eventually hang herself.
So unless ur truly invested like have kids, house , joint acc then I would let her fly and I would do the same shady shit. But if u are invested me personally I would hire a private investigator and if I was to find out I wouldn’t even confront her I would just make moves to make sure I win in court ;-)
Ps have fun with it like do freaky shit lol like ask if she’s down to swing or let you fuck her friends don’t let this consume you. Don’t be that crazy guy smh
RustyhookerMy favorite part of hotels is the strong chlorine bleached towels. Weird yes, but it is what it is.
Dude, gotta stop your cycle. Youre gonna get hurt...or hurt someone
Definitely has to stop lol that’s why I will only do simple cycles from now on
RustyhookerI can simply nod and agree. One cycle its just sweating and irritated. Next the demon grabs you. Or more cookie cutters on it would be simple
I think you need to relax!
Bro if you really think your girl would bring someone to a hotel room you just got for you and her while your out for take out, then you my friend are out of your fucking mind.
And if she actually would do something like that while your out to get food that would take and an unknown amount of time. Then she is out of her fucking mind.
And you two deserve each others crazy selves.
Get off the Tren brother.It will make you crazy!If she was going to go swimming so what!She’s not going to have time to swim and cheat while you pick up take out!