I need advice from some one older than me
hello guys, this something that has been bothering me for a while, Im 24, this is the first time anything like this has happened to me...
A couple of month back me and my close friend went to a party. My friend who was on a test only cycle got drunk one day at this party and tried to fight some dude. I saw it, i was sober, so I stopped it by getting in the middle , backing my buddy off. and being as non aggressive as possible. any ways the dude that he wanted to fight leaves.
anyways as soon as i turn my back, this my "friend", he attacks me from the back and bites a pieces of my bicep off, i swear to u. like i was bleeding , this dude bit me.
this dude calls the next day and apologized claiming the he was raging and drunk at the time. Now, being shocked at the moment and not knowing what to do, i reported this dude to the police, but this was like 4 month ago. the police didnt do shit, they are useless. also this dude also reported me back, and claimed that i attacked him lol.
Anyways I know, where this dude lives, and man does it get me fired up, i just want to go over there and beat his ass. I have never dealt with anything like this before, and the anger get too much sometimes. what should i do?
Anyone here ever been backstabbed by a friend?
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AnonQuick story to help you understand what I mean by a thousand ways to go wrong.
I was indirectly friends with a guy but got along with him when I saw him. He was a marine, and in good shape and unfortunately enjoyed getting in to fights. Well this 21 yr old punky kid tried fighting with him and lost. Tried again next week and lost. Then waited for the guy to go outside for a smoke and he hit him over the back of the head with a pipe.
The guy I knew, the marine, the winner of the fight if you want to call it that, ultimately was hospitalized and now suffers permanant brain damage.
So I ask you , aside from any legal risks, do you think it would end if you did give him a beating ?
AnonThe older you get the less friends you have, at least thats the way it is for me.
I have lost the patience and free time to waste on nonsense .
Its just reality , Id chalk it up to experience and not get dragged further down by this idiot. Even if you beat his ass, there are just a thousand ways it could still go wrong for you.
you call the cops? fag
^what he said. "I was bleeding" god I got jumped by 5 fucking guys and I didn't call the cops. This is lame can't believe uneven took the time to read the thread.
You called the cops after he apologized wow. Both of you need to grow up.
You missed your chance to beat his ass. Stop being a baby and go to the gym.
you gotta let it go...holding that rage isn't going to help you any. you really dont need that kind of instability in your life.
tread-mBe the bigger person and live your life. He has to live with who he is and you with who you are. You don't waste another second on it IMO. Karma brother, it works 2 ways.
x2. Kicking his ass isn't going to change anything, other than potentially get you in trouble. Relax, with time you'll forget all about it.
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you should have beat his ass on that night bro, now that your stuff is healed up you don't have an legit self defense excuse and could be filed for assault.
Alcohol slows all the brain processes down. When faced with danger the brain either goes into fight or flight. Your friend was switched onto fight mode, and because he was drunk, it could have stayed in that state longer. Not everyones fight or flight reactions are the same, so I can see how you might not understand his reaction, as yours is probably different.
When you look at the reasons his fight/flight are the way they are, one should have sympathy for a friend such as yours, because more often than not its a result of a rough upbringing/poor parenting.
Alcohol+steroids+knuckleheads= jail
thanks man, guess i never really seen it from that side. man its so hard to deal with this kind of stuff for me, especially because I'm so inexperienced with drama. Very hard to make the right decision
IMO you missed your window... Should have handled it when he bit you. I've had my share of drunken rages where a brother had to put me down. Once my head cleared and I assessed the situation I would realize that he was in the right and no love was lost.
...and shame on both of you for cop calling
with all respect,ur situation is a little different bro. but what i dont get is people claim being drunk raging. how could u blame something like that on the alcohol. some one can drink and drive and hit a kid, but should they be forgiven, just because they were drunk?
different people react differently on alcohol bro......for example, when i would drink i get really calm and lay back. but sober, i'm an impatient short fuse mofo.....IMO there's just people that can't control their alcohol and shouldnt be drinking at all
Its an excuse NOT a reason bro... In my world we are all accountable, and in my world you missed your bite at the apple.
yea ur right and that's what really gets to me and makes it real hard to let go, i think ima let it go, thanks for the advice bro, u really dropped some wisdom brother
Thats a rat shit situation, Avoid the dude, but if u happen to run into him give him a good fucking hiding.