posted Tue, 04/30/2013 - 17:31
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+ 1 Told the fiancée I'm using AAS
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Finally had THE talk with the fiancée about my AAS usage. Initially I felt ashamed, I'm not sure why, but I found it to be extremely hard. But the more I explained it to her the better I felt. Shame went to a sense of pride in manning up, and ensuring that we have no secrets leading up to the big day. She was initially afraid that I would turn into a rage monster, but now she is very supportive. She did her research and said she is ok only if I agree to regular blood work.
For you guys struggling to find a way to do....all I can say is that in this case honesty really is the best policy.
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I had my gf watch Bigger Faster Stronger while I went to take a shower. Had the talk after the film was over. She's cool with it. Even pins me sometimes.
My mrs. Is so cool.... She respects my descion to use and trusts me(except wen on tren) ha. I told her from the start she helped with my research and does my injections.. She likes doin them cuz she's a nurse and she loves d horniness i get of the test!
Good for you for letting her know even though it may have been the end of your relationship. I was married for years and had to keep some secrets cause that bitch was crazy. Trust was very limited in that relationship and destroyed it in the end. I'm sure your girl understands and respects you more since you were str4aight forward with her. Thats cool she researched it and gave you her blessing.
My new girl is very understanding and I can be out in the open with ANYTHING. it awesome that we have that level of trust. She injects for a living so she has no problem helping me out with tough to reach sites. maybe you can teach you girl to pin you. Tell her it will help with bonding :-)
Good luck and hope you guys have many happy years!
Ak that's awesome! You should be proud... You are not only coming clean with her you are showing maturity and the commitment to starting your marriage off right. If you carry this into your marriage... Your being honest... You guys will have a very successful marriage. Very happy for you!
I really appreciate the encouragement. It's largely thanks to the eroids community that I finally did it. But I won't lie it wad one if the toughest things to do because of all the misinformation there is about steroids.
I can imagine.. Look a me one year ago I didn't even know that normal people did steroids. I assumed it was something that wrestlers or huge body builders did. I was clueless, until I meet Abaddon. He was already on and told me very early on. I didn't know what to think.. the only thing that I wanted to be sure of was that he wasn't going to hurt himself.... or anyone else. The only thing I had ever heard was they make you crazy and make your nuts and dick small. It wasn't long before I knew the second part wasn't true and with some research I found the answers to the first part "roid rage." Once I saw for my self what he was doing and he, himself explained it and proved to me that he knew his stuff I knew I didn't have anything to worry about. As a matter of fact I just finished a cycle of Lady Var a few weeks ago. Now, would I do anything else? Maybe HGH but no other compounds.. that's just not my goal. But my point is.. that now that she knows you will be able to show her, prove to her that you know what you are doing and she doesn't need to worry. You will also find that you can talk to her about it and even at some point you might be like A and I and can bounce ideas off of each other. "Couples who train together, stay together" :-)
Thats funny ! I wrote about this. Posted a link about this also.
https://www.eroids.com/pics/just-for-you-scared-boys
I told my wife before I ever started, explained why, and went over everything. She has been pretty cool about it for the most part.
Good deal bro. When's the big day?
July 27. Love her like more than I thought possible.
Right on, brother. Congratulations! July 6th for me. Heading to a tropical island the next day.
Congratulations to you too! Tropical island honeymoon sounds great! We'll be doing the same for 5 days.
Good stuff bro. You did the right thing. I want to tell my old lady but I know she will flip the fuck out. This gives me some hope!
Don't be so sure. She had told me that roids were a deal breaker for which is one of the reasons this was so hard to do for me. But she really appreciated the truth, and she quickly did her own research because she wanted to be sure I want killing myself
Chaz32621Nice bro congrats, I hope one day my fiancee will be as willing as yours