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Happy Easter Everyone. Unfortunetly this Easter will not be too exciting for myself. I wont be celebrating with family because my depression is way to high and the last thing I want is to bring anyone else down. My gf of 4 years cheated on me one week before we broke up (we broke up 2 weeks ago). Now shes gone with this guy and wont answer calls, texts, blocked my on facebook. You name it.
We were trying for a kid, planned on marriage, and I promise you she was totally in love with me as I was also in love with her.She was my first love and im 27 years young. We rented a very nice and expensive apartment together, and everything that goes with it. And she just left me out to dry. Now im stuck with all these bills and alone in this huge place. Im sleeping alone and it kills me, im not used to it. I still smell her on the pillows. This is the worst pain I have ever been through. I was suicidal the first week and still have thoughts, but I wont do it.
I have no drive to workout. I finished my PCT from my last cycle 2 weeks ago. I did test and deca for 10 weeks. So that doesnt help being OFF. I wish I had the money to get back ON again but im kinda broke right now seeing how im paying for everything now in the world it seems. I just dont understand, Ive never felt this way. I dont understand how she could just leave. Im better looking than this kid And I would LOVE to smash the kid in the face who got with her. But im trying to act mature about this because she is to blame. She is the one who decided to get with this kid. I dont know what to do!! Sorry for rambling but if anyone has some advice, ANY advice, I could sure use it. I gave her everything and she does this, I still think im in a nightmare sometimes and just waiting to wake up. Thanks guys, Phil Jr
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best thing you can do right now is go to the gym. dont put that off for anyone. it will make you feel better. trust me! focus on you now. dont worry about her and be thankful that it happened this way. it would have been a lot worse if there was a kid involved. do NOT let her get to you by thinking stupid (suicidal thoughts) nobody is worthy of your life, bro. especially not another female who is not your mother. soon enough you will be happy and love being single.
My gf split up with me a long time ago (but back together now) I went through depression... crying... smashing my flat up... seeing things that reminded me of her....
The only advice I can offer is keep your mind focused on the gym... focus on eating sleeping and work... dont let her actions have a negative impact on your love to get massive.
Just think man... worse shit happens to people every second in this shite world... I use to say to myself atleast I aint them lol.... peace bro stay strong
All you guys are fucking awesome. Thank you so much for putting a smile on my face today. I am a good looking guy and I know I can get another girl I just sometimes cant stop thinking about her. Im going to workout hard today. Real hard. Get my next cycle ready and full throttle. You hear me??? Full throttle! Pound down some good protien and carbs. take 10G of creatine and go at it while im OFF. thanks soo much guys you are all good people that have great outlooks on life.
Very few are lucky enough to not have that heart broken to pieces at least once. As bad as it seems it will get better. Just be glad it was now and not after you had kids and even more ties to her.
Stay strong homie there three stages of life you either in the storm ,going into the storm or just coming out of the storm .Keep you head clear of suicide man trust me been there it won't help pain is fix with time
StevebShe sounds like a bitch, you gotta stop thinking about her and move on. Obviously she is not the person you thought she was if she was ale to do this to you with no problem. You can't put that much stock into one person. If someone can hurt you like that, why would you care about them?
Like these guys have said man family will help and support u in this time. But one way to try to get your mind off of your situation is get lost in that gym man, beat the shit out of the weight find a new family in the gym that will support u. Im sorry to hear this happen to u. Time will be the best solution and eroids brothers are here
Consider yourself lucky bro! No offense but she is not worthy to bear your child nor your hart! Would you dwell on a friend Screwing you over? No! You would say fuck that m fer its his loss for burning a good friend now the only difference between her and one of your friends is she has a vagina between her legs. . (Sorry to the women) don't let it get to you bro! You have a baller apt with good looks and there are a ton of fine women out there. Forget about her and she will come crawling back. If you dwell she will just feed on it. Women hate that shit and it turns em on when you don't care.
AnonDestiny decided to halt your relationship now rather than when youse were married had a house and kids. be gratefull of that fact as destiny wasnt as kind on me and my daughter. youve a clean break, my advice is to stay away from her as much as it hurts. This kid will get so paranoid about her cheating on him like she did on you, that he will push her away, leave the b1tch to rot on her own, slag. Be strong bro and go see your folks, a hug from mum always helps no matter how old you are
"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us."
I understand it is not that easy to let go, but if u think about it, u will have to let go eventually, so why waste all this time mourning for nothing? Change ur mindset and get through this faster.
Also, go be with ur family man!
U will look back one day and all of this will seem so old to u, believe me. Time flies.
Happy Easter
Been through the exact same thing brother,go be with your family.they are the ones we need when were down on holidays or not.It took me prob a year to stop thinking about her but im with a way better girl and god had bigger plans for me.Im glad i didnt marry her bro so glad any girl or person who can do that isnt my type of people.Im a solid dude.Keep your head up
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