+ 1 Getting your spouse on board
So last week, I decided to get on the juice for the first time...thanks to all the info on this site, I feel confident enough to run my 1st cycle in a safe manner. Placed my order on Thursday from one of the top src here & just waiting for it to arrive.
My question to you all is did any of you consider hiding your cycle from your spouse?
I did wonder how will my wife take this?
Will she think I'm screwing up my body?
Will she adopt the same skewed views that the fickle media has about AAS?
Meaning only deaths, sides effects, & roid rage stories make it on the news.
Well, I decided to come clean with her but I did it in spurts...just like they say, "love comes in spurts"...dumb joke, i know. What I mean is that I did about 4 months of research and throughout those months, I would tell my wife about some of the things I learned about gear, safe cycles, pct, sides, etc.
I never hid my intentions from her.
But I never overwhelmed her either.
Over dinner, I'd tell her a thing or two.
At a stop light, a couple more.
A week later, a bit more.
Throughout my research, the more informed I became & the more that I shared my info with her, she never once thought I was going to fk myself up. And thanks to the info on this site, I was able to answer all her questions.
She's on board with me & my decision.
I can't even imagine hiding something this big from someone you're sharing your life with.
I admit that I did think about doing my cycle without her finding out.
But the more I found out about AAS on this site, it put my mind at ease & it provide me with the information I could share with my wife to put her mind at ease, too.
Just wanted to share how I went about it...
I'm 40 & she's 46. We've been married 5yrs.
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I found it best to treat it like trying to talk her into try trying anal, over a bottle of red wine.
It all depends on the girl but here is my experience with my girlfriend... I told my Girlfriend about using steroids after about 1 year of dating, during that time i was off cycle so it wasn't like i was hiding anything. When i first told her she was just really curious and worried that something bad might happen to me. What made her get on board was the fact that i explained everything to her, i showed her that i knew what i was doing and i was taking all the needed precautions and she said that made her feel 1000% ok with it because she could tell i did my research. I also showed her this website which helped too
This is my second go around with AAS. Back in the 80's we did not have sites like this that gave you information that you could use. I just took what others took and that was it. Always wondered why dck pointed south on 600 deca and 30 dbol. Now I have a site like this that will educate me on proper use. Decided a yr ago to try again with all the information that is available. Lost 50 lbs got off my ass and started to lift. When I decided to tell my wife gave her loads of info on why this was best for us both. Back in the 80s the medical community thought this was taboo now they are coming around to the benefits. Used this site as the bible, and test confirm what I say. Never have lied to my wife and will tell her every problem that I have. She is now for US and seeing the benefits of what im doing.
Good post bro........... i like how its evolved for you in all aspects....... +3
I think it would depend on the women but myself personally its
something you dont have to share.
I was in your same boat 2 months ago. My wife was always very dead set against my using and had stated so in the past. It was not until my training partner "got on" that I began to want to as well. I did my research, ordered some gear, and started. I put on 20 pounds very quickly and my libido went thru the roof. I know she suspected. I had messaged a couple of guys here onsite and they recommended telling her. Funny thing is she came to the gym with me one night (she usually goes in the mornings) and saw me benching. It could not have happened any better. She was so turned on seeing 3 plates on each side. She told me she knows I'm juicing, don't lie about it, be safe, and take her home. It was a great night!! She is all over me all the time now. She loves the new muscle. She only asks that I keep my nuts from shrinking. That was how she says she figured it out. From then on HCG 2x per week.
I got a keeper, she trains, she pins me, As long as the Tren train never stops at my house It's all good. Im ok with that!
Mine would never go for it!..... if she knew i even dreamt about steroids she would kill me!!...... life is hard for me bro......... i wish i could find a women who trained instead of mine who just sits watching T.V. all day eating pies.
*1 yes sir that is a big decision to tell or not to tell! My x I had to hide it from her it was a pain in the ass! So my new gf was already a user if a aver hgh so it was perfect! Glad it worked out for ya
During my first year dating my wife, I hid my use. After that I took the slow introduction path(takes time), that you did and eventually she become my pin mama. In essence I don't pin without her doing it for me, she's great at it! I wouldn't have it any other way!
I give her B12 shots every time she feels a fever coming on.
I'm glad she's willing to return the favor to try to minimize unnecessary pip that I may cause by pinning myself.
I think the way you went about telling her was the best. Dropping it all on her in one moment would have ended badly. Other guys in this situation should take notes.
Thank you. I hope my post does help people in similar situations.
X2 for sure I agree