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Just a question for those of you in relationships. My wife is ok with what I do, she knows I’m not an (complete) idiot and take precautions, however she is not at all about big muscles. I told her this run I’ll be going for a much leaner look, and not getting too big. Last one I hit 235lbs at 6’1” and reasonably 13-14% BF, 19” biceps, she absolutely hated it and kept calling me Beetlejuice because my head looked shrunken. Now even though I’m not planning on big gains like that again, currently 215-220lbs at 15%, want to hit 225 with a much lower BF, but we all know shit happens, I could go above that weight once the feel good really kicks in. How do you guys handle any static your partners give you?
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gordon fishermanLike Pale & Drexel said below, it’s about honesty in ALL aspects of life. Not just one relationship. The guilty, shame& remorse will erode any relationship. Our secrets is what keeps us sick!!
As long as your healthy, not a douche bag& honest, loved ones should celebrate your victories& listen to your mistakes.
I had to quit because my wife didn’t like the aggression. Plus I need to live as long as possible. I have a special needs child. He’s autistic. I need to live long and give him the best advantages possible.
God bless you and your family, Bro! Gotta do what ya gotta do!
Thanks jake ko
If you want to stay happily married be honest with your wife. Secrets will eat away at the foundation.
That’s the best advice anyone can give, we don’t have secrets. Been 11 years with her, of course there’s been tough times, but we don’t lie. Frankly we don’t lie to anyone, we’re just not that type of people. Solid foundation is the key to success for everything.
We are exactly the same! 11 years together as well. We refuse to lie about anything. Pisses a lot of people off because so many people lie, especially to their spouses. Everyone loves us until they see how close we are and always put each other first. Then, out of no where, they hate us, LOL! Although, that’s their problem. Ugh, people can be so deceitful.
This is best advice, and absolutely true.
Haven't had any conversations with any of my past girlfriends about juice. I'm pretty sure I could of convinced a few of them though but I just never attempted to. Most were into working out so it probably would of been easy for me to convince them. I'm pretty sure alot of women know guys are juicing, it's just that good sex blinds them lol.
Funny because my wife is the opposite and says she prefers me bigger which I know is total bullshit, she just doesn’t want me getting the attention I was when I was sub 10% bf. Those days are long gone through, at least until kids are a little older and I have more time to meal prep and what not. It all depends on the woman and what your preferred physique to be but typically speaking, women tend to like the 10/13 % bf with leaner physique vs the muscled ogrish look and us men prefer to be Gargoyles that lose every sense of what it is to still be human.
You just have to educate her on the subject. I even convinced my wife of the benefits of anabolics so well she's even run a few anavar and winstrol cycles and actually liked it. My wife been going to the gym for 20 years or more so she is into training. Just try to have a honest conversation about it. Steroids aren't really a problem at all if used correctly I hate the stigma about steroids uneducated people have these stupid views.
Oh she knows, she actually doesn’t have a problem with it, it started with prescribed TRT and when the sex came back she really became ok with it lol. She just doesn’t like big muscles, I’m good as long as I stay below 225, but we all know what happens…
My lady likes me big and lean but just not freakishly big. And mainly she doesn’t like me getting overly aggressive and acting like an asshole. So I only stick to Test, anavar, and DHB cycles these days. DHB is awesome because I get big and shredded at the same time and it doesn’t fuck with my head like tren. I do miss my test, tren, mast cycles but I have fucked up a few relationships in the past with that mix of compounds.
That’s exactly it, she has a hall pass for Tim McGraws country hick ass. But physique wise, that’s her preference, or skinnier. To be fair, I catfished her a bit. When we met I was drinking on the heavy side, recent breakup, my ex girlfriend didn’t know I like my women the same way I like my coffee. So at the time at 6’1”, I was probably slightly under 180lbs? So then Drex meets this great woman, gets happy, gets to the gym and gets on cycle and boom, 235lbs with a peanut head. So I owe some of the blame straight to myself. I can be a real asshole lol, but the topic never came up, I figured all women like muscular guys, I guess there’s limits to everything.
Hahaha my woman is the same way with the 90’s country singers. If I came home looking like Alan Jackson she would soak the sheets! I guess as long as I wear a black cowboy hat I can stay on the sauce lol
You’re John Holmes, you can get away with the cowboy hat and nothing else lol
Yeah man most women nowadays don't go for the bulky muscle look. The women Ive talked to prefer a more athletic lean muscle type of look. These women nowadays will undress a man with their eyes if you have that lean athletic look. Lol that look they give you!
Lifted-presence92Same as big T convinced the wife and she’s got a var cycle and primo cycle in the books lol.
Personally I BB for me and nobody do what makes you feel good if she really loves you she’ll stick around rather you look like a physique guy or open guy. Do what makes you happy
Oh she definitely loves me, I come with a lot of shit to put up with, but if I looked like Dorian she wouldn’t touch me, she would be repulsed. She’s said before “That’s big enough.” Women just don’t understand lol
Lifted-presence92Lmao I get it brotha I wanna be as big as possible just like you do.
All of us do but a lot of women aren't trying to hear that lol.
my first wife found my pins and stash and threw them away and told my mom and dad and everyone i know like i got caught shooting smack. 2nd wife i told from the jump "you take estrogen in form of birth control pills i take testosterone in form of muscular oils". She has been cool the last 10 years and even tried an anavar cycle for a short moment. She know i dont abuse it and knows i am 47 and ahe is 37 and i need a testosterone supplement to keep up with her younger age.
Now there's an idea for a great post - 'What would you do to your Wife or GF if they threw all your gear and needles in the bin and you could no longer use them?' ....
Yeah she kinda got me because it illegal and the way she descibed left out the testosterone and focused on finding needles and i was shooting. You know how that part is taboo with the normal folk if a nurse isnt doing it for you.
So I’m kinda like Jake here. She wasn’t crazy about it at first cause she didn’t understand it, just hype. But I’ve gotten her involved a little, and in better shape overall, so it goes better now. Her biggest thing is my temper. I’m a really laid back guy, but even just a simple cycle gets me very short fused sometimes, especially if I miss a meal/snack. This summer heat isn’t helping.
She will call me out on it in a hurry. So it’s all a good thing I guess, keeps us balanced.
RealizeRealLiesI just got a divorce if that helps lol. Be careful
Been there, Bro! The next one will be the right one
Lol, been there done that, learned to find the right one. Been with her 11 years now. We understand each other. I can even fart around her with no criticism.
I bet that depends on the severity of the smell though! LOL
Oh it absolutely does, I can get away with a poot, but if it’s one of those eggy, heavy, musty, Rustyhooker ripper farts, she’s going to throw some shade at me.
Oh, mine isn’t cool with the farts. She gets real pissed if they smell, LOL!
Man, you two bastards cursed me. I had a brunch buffet at work, scrambled eggs, sausage, French toast, potatoes. Now I have the Rusty farts I described earlier and my wife is picking me up in an hour. I’m going to have to ride in the trunk.
LMAO!!! It’s all fun and games until ya shart
Last time I did that I was stood at the petrol pump filling the car on the way out, was just going about my business with no sense of imminent danger or having to close off mid trouser trump - then felt the wetness. Damn. Back home for a change of underwear!
The older I get, the less I fart away from home. I rather just find a place to take a dump. My wife’s thinks I’m crazy for shitting in a public restroom, so now every time I do it, I take a selfie and send it to her, LOL
HAHAHA!!! That's Hilarious bud .....
I've known a lot of guys over the years that absolutely refuse to shit anywhere but their home toilet, I think its germs or because of the smell and embarrassment. Me - I like the variety of using various porcelain bowls LMAO My technique is to line either side of the seat in toilet paper so there is zero butt to seat contact - then you are good to go. It does annoy me when the water splashes up but some things cannot be helped.
At this age, I ain’t holding it in, I’m going. I do have my limits, but I can’t handle shit attacks. I’ve had shit attacks that stop me in my tracks. I mean, one more step, and I know I’ll be shitting my pants. Sometimes I think it’s the gear. Now, I won’t test those waters anymore. When I gotta go, I go. Although, I never remember to bring a magic marker with me. I read all kinds of shit and sometimes want to contribute, and tell myself “next time I’m bringing a pen with me”. For a great blow job, followed by my ex-wife’s work number, LOL
Ever make it to the bathroom, working as fast as you can to unzip your pants, drop them down, you’re about to celebrate then as soon as you bend over to sit down you completely spray the toilet and walk behind it? It’s really not cool. Happened twice, once at home and once at a friends house. Till this day she has no idea what happened, she thinks I took a 45min shit and went through an entire roll of toilet paper.
Yes, Lol!!!! Not the wall, but the bowl gets polluted. It happens to me at least once per week. I now keep a toilet brush in every bathroom for that exact reason. Sometimes, she’ll hear it, and yell “You’re fucking disgusting!!!! WTF???” I’m like, how am I supposed to help it???
I did the best clean up job I could, but it went behind and under the baseboard, was like wiping up brown wet caulk. If she ever remodels that bathroom there’s going to be some very identifiable staining.
I’m very lucky in this aspect. Years ago when she first found out, she was very nervous, but all she knew was the bullshit horror stories she had heard. Once I explained things to her, she got very interested. As beautiful as I thought she was, she was a little chubby, and asked me what she could do to get into better shape. I got her a gym membership, and the rest is history. This chick can run circles around me now. She’s also learned a lot and keeps me in check with what I’m running. She has no problem calling me out if she notices my personality changing, although thanks to eroids, I’ve learned so much that I rarely get negative sides anymore. Thanks to everyone for all the great advice. Even you, Rusty, LOL! Much appreciated! Happy Father’s Day, Guys!