posted Sun, 08/25/2013 - 10:15
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advice to explain to wifey about cycles
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So iv done a few cycles and she has even helped pinning me a lot but just recently she's worried about the side effects she has researched of like enlarged heart or other heart disease or becoming infertile and other things does anybody have some good advice for me to tell her or to sell her on this or am I basically screwed? Lol.. I mean I know she just worries about me and doesn't want anything bad to happen to me but damn I only want to do a cycle like 1nc a year.
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have her watch the documentary bigger faster stonger
I will havta check that out! Thanks
Moderation is the key mate, dont go with mega high doses and keep your cycles short(no 20week cycles) if your worries about recovery and fertillity. that was the reason i waited to start gear untill i had 2 kids.
But look at arnie and a the gear he must of done... he managed to have a kid..? Just be sencible mate.
Yup that's exactly right!
AnonI will tell you my wife has a great deal of trust in my decision making and she is always very open minded, but I know she was nervous when I entered this world. The first thing she witnessed was the return of my strength, and instead of seeing a man in decline, she once again saw me as my former self. The one she first met , so that was a selling point. Still though she was nervous and had the same concerns as your wife (well not the fertility, because we'd actually do anything to dampen that down a bit) . It was that first Saturday morning when I said "I cant have breakfast, Im fasting for my blood work ", she of course asked what blood work, and I told her ,
"if Im going to take this seriously and consider it part of my being healthy I cant just go by what the "bros" on the forum tell me, I need to get regular blood tests done to monitor my well being "
It was at that moment I saw her relax and take great comfort in what I was doing. It showed her I was not being short sighted, and not doing this because I needed big muscles to feed my ego . She really saw this was part of my life and part of my being the healthiest strongest husband and father I could be.
oh and btw , after me juicing for over a year straight, we still managed to have an "accident". Nothing ended up coming from it, things didnt work out, but still it was a clear warning that juicing is not a reliable means of contraception.
I do the same thing blood tests and all but the problem is she knows blood tests do not always show if there's a problem with your heart or wtvr because she works in medical field! Lol
AnonBro, after looking at some of your pictures and videos... AAS is comparable to M&Ms
AnonSay Whuuuuhht ?
AnonBecause I am waaayy more afraid of SHARKS than AAS!
Do an Echocardiograph on your heart each year. Have her read up on TRT and low test. Let her know a bigger heart mean more love, sweet kisses and more present at Christmas time
Just look what happened to the Grinch!
Life insurance! it shut my wifey up, i told her "look Im worth more dead than alive"
Lmfao!
Sit down with her and read all the warning labels on all the OTC cold meds you have in your medicine cabinet. ;-)
True that!
Tell her you take steroids to make yourself feel better and if your not feeling good about yourself there is noway you will be able to treat her the way she deserves. Women seem to have some shit saying happy WIFE happy life! Such bullcrap$ everyone has to be happy so you have to be happy with yourself to be able to make her happy mine said the same stuff now shes eating lady anavar like crazy goodluck bro
no offence to women with my comment
you can try explain but you always will fail :-) my advice is try to work with her and together reserche internet. plus you can go every month for heath check so girl can see everything is ok with you and no harm is done.
and cook her dinner sometime with evening happy ending :-D
Tell her your chances of getting in a car crashed and killed within five miles of your house are even higher odds if you both continue to drive. Look at the side effects that they say are potential with over the counter medications as well as all other prescription meds. This has been known for years with any medication. It is usually narrowed down to one particular fear, lets say fertility if having a baby is huge on her list. Because honestly the stats on everything else that can possibly kill you or mess you up are way higher than steroids, like driving car. So what you want to do is get down to what her personal fear and bias is. Then things will make more sense. We always tend to lie when we want something because we don't want to appear selfish even though most of our actions are completely selfish based.
For her if it is fertility that is her really only fear hidden under the guise of I don't want you to die lol. Get to the real reason through gentle compassionate talk and then you might be allowed to have your cycle
Haa I appreciate ur response and I think its coming down to me not dying or having health issues from this or losing my natural production of test but I totally feel what your saying
Ah wifey problems bro! I try to explain to mine that I'm constantly researching and trying to learn more. I actually got my wife to look through eroids wth me and I showed her how much info there is and how all the guys are here to help eachother. There's some shannagains but for the most part I explained to her that this website is a fountain of knowledge and it doesn't end there. As long as your being smart and not letting your hobby get out of hand you should be fine. Which you just need to inform her of...you aren't just going crazy and having pinning parties! Or are you? Lol as far as the fertile part goes, show her body builders have children and that an increased dose of test in some studies has made men even more fertile!
Good luck bro
Yah true true! She knows im full of researching this stuff but she would prefer me researching something more productive lol
List the IFBB pros that have kids to convince her steroids won't affect fertility lol
AnonYes, deception should work nicely.