Hiding AAS from Wife or Significant other
Just curious?? Who here hides there AAS from Wife, Gf, Husband, Bf??? and where do you hide your gear???
I just can't break down and tell my girl about it. She is in the medical field maybe she won't trip out.
Recently, I hid HCG and HGH in one of the those Hide-A-Way Can Safes i ordered online for that purpose. I got one of the fruit cans, she cleaned the fridge, and there went my HCG and HGH....Fudge.... I guess next time i'll order something she won't touch like a beer she doesn't drink or fake peanut butter Hide-A-Way can safe....
I hide all the rest of my gear in a briefcase i have an old safe but that shit won't work right.
When it is time to pin, its hard because or master suite and bath are open no privacy. i have to make sure she is at work or gone to the store.
luckily i checked her about opening my packages from coming in the mail too.
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I'd go crazy if I had to hide anything. It's my money, my house! lol
I'm still so glad I told my wife after being hell bent on not telling her. I love being able to talk to her about how I feel and all that goes with it. Such a relief!
I wouldn't hide it. It's obvious anyway isn't it? If your with somebody, make the decision as a couple otherwise you are setting yourself up for a fall.
I could never hide anything from my wife...from pinning daily, every other day, twice a week....hcg in the fridge, PCT's and AI's above the sink, and a small stock pile of gear in the ol sock drawer. there's just no way. I've left Pins' accidentally sitting on the bathroom sink...if i hid it there would be issues. But since I was honest from day one, and explained the real life cons and benefits it provides she's fine with it, as long as I'm healthy. HA, she works in the medical field so she disposes of my used pins for me....what a Saint. lol
Yes its very difficult. Thanks for the input
My $.02 come clean, a life based on lies leads to disaster. Personal experience there Bro! Sometimes my current wife expresses concerns with this new obsession, and at times asks me to cut back or whatever if I become agitated. She knows me very well, but I still try to play off attitude as NOT related to AAS. I respect my wife's opinion & respect her enough to be honest with her from the get go. Here is a warning bro, make your choice, truth or not just be prepared to accept the consequences. One last thought how would you feel if she was lying to you about anything? Would you wonder if there were more things that she was lying about too. What's that rule? Treat others like you want to be treated... I'm done
I hear you thanks!
reading all of this.. Im glad I'm divorced..(very glad.)..
My wife was hardcore "no drugs". I was always honest about my past, including the two cycles I took before we hooked up. I toed the line for seven years and I was a good boy while we started our family. We have our three kids now and I had plenty of my own reasons to restart my steroid usage. I knew her strict policy before we started our conversation, but fuck it, I'm a hard headed bastard and I never learn. I sat her down and went through the list of why I "WAS GOING TO" start my usage up again. I made it clear to her that I already made the decision to do a cycle, and if she was patient with me I would consider her opinion before I started the next one. Now I didn't go in there smacking my palm and laying down the law, there were more than a few "sweethearts", "babes", and "you know I love yous". That didn't stop her from giving me a heated "fine" and stomping out the room.
I talked her through my fist cycle during phone conversations and I thought it was falling on deaf ears. The first three or for weeks of test e were uneventful and I thought this my be my last cycle ever. But then week five hit. And so did my nonstop penis talk. I told her all the things I was going to do to her when I got home. When I finally got some days off, I went home and did all those things plus a few extra. I had put on a few pounds and I was a beast in the sack ( and any where else I could talk her out of it). She has started wearing makup again and dressing sexy for me. Hell, she has even started a trend among her friends. She hates my joke about my penis having trend setting abilities, but she doesn't deny it.
She now accepts my decision, approves of it. Not only has she gotten involved in my ordering processes, she tells her friends that maybe their husbands need to try it out. The moral of the story is, she won't ever surprise you if you leave nothing to chance. Is she worth your honesty or not?
thanks for the post Honesty is important.
Never hid any thing from my girl from day one. Tell ya the truth she was the one that showed me how to post pics. All i have to do is have a little weed for her. Nice fair trade off.
testaholicDivorce works well.
AnonMy wife wishes I was on cycle non stop... With the increased libido, she feels sexy and with my over all feeling of well being, Im nicer, and Im sure she likes when I look better too
sooner or later you might have to tell her... i am glad my gf is understanding.. shit tell you the truth when i am at work and need her to order for me b4 shop time close she do and even runs to make a donation for me..
understanding i think so.
True eventually i will because i'm not going to stop.
My wife knows what I do. She bought we a nice wooden box with a latch on it for me to keep the goods in
I would be scared to hide anything tho because she told me if i hid that from her and she found them there wouldn't be any left next time i go to use them...So im pretty thankful that she's cool with it.
I would start getting a plan together and thinking of how to tell her though. I think it would hurt her more in the long run if she found out you've been lying/hiding something from her. Eventually they find out anyways.
What she really hates though is the extra money i spend from food to gear to supps and the fact that im always on the computer researching. "If you would go back to school and study as hard as you study them roids....." You get the point lol
I got it thanks!!!
GearofWarGood thread. My old lady doesn't know, but it's fairly easy for me to sort of hide it seeing as how I'm on a TRT protocol. She sees that I'm growing but I keep it in line with my gym and physical activities. As in if my gear is working as designed I tell her that I'm going to the gym more often and I ramp up my "physically based" chores around the house. I just make sure she sees me working hard physically and it keeps the charade believable. Plus, any sides from gear I just blame my prescription of Test Cyp. I also remind her of how well my TRT protocol is working and the Cyp is really helping out at the gym. I keep my non prescription goods right in my gym bag. She doesn't snoop though. I keep hCG in the fridge no problemo. She's down with that at least. I've been seriously debating letting the cat out of the bag on my extra curricular activities. We'll see..
Thanks!
I married a Latina! IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO HIDE ANYTHING FROM A LATINA! She knows I cruise and hit's me once a week in the glute. I think she looks the other way when I blast because she likes the side effects... LOL
Hey I hear you! I got one too! but i'm slick
ray3801Man do I know what you mean!! Mines Latins too and I swear she can smell the shit. I can't get away with jackshit
After 6 years of marriage she still checks my dick after I go out with the boys.... LOL
ray3801Hahahaha....that's good shit right there!! Im always telling mine she missed her calling as a private investigator.
LOL
in a locked tool box in the garage corner, no has found it or tried to open it yet
Personally, I told my old lady because I didn't like sneaking around in my own house, and because I didn't want her to think I was doing something worse... I was nervous about telling her, but I just laid out the facts, the pros and cons, how it made my life better, and she was super cool about it, I'm even teaching her how to pin me! I really hope that your girl can be wise enough to see that not everything the media says is true, and that you are not shooting smack, your just being the best "you" that you potentially can be!:-) let us know what you decide to do and I hope it works out!
I feel you i hate sneaking around. When I did cycles at first she didn't live with me. Now 2013 its a whole new ball game. Thanks for your input!
I know alot of you guys have this same issue at home, the botto line is we arent trying to get high here, we are trying to get healthy, add muscle, take better care of ourselves. when I 1st started I was a little nervous about telling her but I dont hide anything from my wife. bottom line how is it any different from taking a weight loss pill or anything of that nature except it legal status. the bottom line is honesty is always your best answer. I bribed my wife but thats irrelavent lol. she has always wanted a boob job and I used that to my advantage. I told her if she dont give me a hard time about using this then I would pay to get her boob job done..... which will be done in 2 months from now (CAN A NOOKA GET A HELL YEAH!!!!). But on a serious note, this isnt something you really want to hide. If you ever have a bad reaction and she does find out its going to be really bad, not because you are using AAS, but because there will be some trust issues that will start coming out. reguardless wheather she approves or not, you being honest about it will make her feel like you are comfortable enough to talk to her about anything. I had my wife watch BIGGER, FASTER, STRONGER with me and it opened her eyes to all the hype about using anabolic steroids. now my wife is taking clen, and anavar to help her lose weight and tone up. she has lost 80 lbs in a little over a year and has managed to keep the weight off. this is just my $.02
Thanks for your advice i hear you!
Try and keep my life from your girl. I use and run a source.
If I was in ur scenario... U say u have already used or are using hgh. Since u have some knowledge of its uses plus cause/effect on hgh I would start there w/ her. Feel her out. Tell her someone you know at work or something was talking about hgh and you googled it... Tell her about it. Have your facts down about it. See how she reacts. If she is dead set against it you know you have to come up w/ a good hiding spot and time for your injections when u will be left alone. Maybe she will find hgh interesting as well the fountain of youth ur 33 accordning to ur bio, and our bodies pretty much start decreasing its output of test and growth hormone around this age ( I'm 35). So even if she seems to not really have a problem w/ hgh now that you've talked to her about the facts. Leave it alone for a minimum of 2 weeks. Then bring it up again and tell her u've been thinking about it and kind of want to try it. Again see how she responds. And just kind of leave it alone. Judging her reaction again if u get kind of a red light drop it, cause I'm here to tell ya it will be the basis of almost all her arguments. As soon as you get the upper hand then she'll fly off how u shoot up all the time.(just my experience) and if you get the green light... Still you leave it alone for a week or so. Then bust it out by being very casual and showing her what it looks like blah, blah, blah... The key here is the less we have to hide especially from a wife the better off we are. And let's face it when/if she catches you w/ a needle hanging out your body no matter what there will be one hell of a conversation to be had!!! A smart old man told me something that stuck w/ me for a long time...he said "you can't do something everyday and not expect to get caught sometime?" Makes sense to me all the way across the board. From speeding to drinking and driving to hiding the fact that ur smoking again. U do it everyday, eventually ur gonna get caught.
This is real talk thank you! I truly believe in that saying.... You will get caught eventually.
this is the same way I went about it. I didn't push the subject, just nudged it a little. but I also got her o.k before I bought any.lol I'm not the kind of person that hides things from my wife. she knows all my dirty little secrets. best way to go about it is to make sure you have some good facts to back up what you are trying to do.
Great thread. I was in your position almost two years ago. My wife would not take an asprin if her head was throbbing or drink a toast with sparkling cider - get the picture? I hit the gear, hit the gym, lost 40 lbs, she bought me resistance equipment for the house, got good n ripped, ate healthy, horney 24/7, jumped back into outdoor sports that involved her, etc. She had no idea about the AAS use. Then I ran out of gear and crashed (reciently)due to inexperience. She found out and the shit hit the fan. She buried herself in the computer for several days doing research on men/testerone/AAS/TRT and learned that AAS/TRT is a healthy choice when administered correctly. And she learned that AAS is a necessity for most highly active men that want to stay that way and feel good. What a relief. But bottom line,I hid it from her, she found out and she was raise the roof on the house Pissed! The dog hid under the kitchen table. Now I get all my AAS and PCT gear delivered to the house and she sets it on my desk:-) Talk to the 'ol lady is my suggestion.
Thank You for your perspective!
WithdrawlI've been hiding my gear for the past year. It's crammed in my gym bag inside boxing gloves. My needles are in the trunk of my car in a bag stuffed under the cover that goes over the spare tire. I'm a former drug addict and my wife wants no part in anything I inject. She thinks steroids will lead me back to using again. I understand where she's coming from so I hide it. I tell her I take the occasional pro hormone supplement. Eventually I need to tell her and have an honest discussion about it. It's not good to hide stuff from your significant other. If they ever find out it can be devastating. Tough spot to be in.
I hear you!
this is the same problem I had. the main reason my wife didn't wont me to use injectables was for the same reason. I told her that I would not throw away all the hard work I had put in to building my body up from a sickly 125 lbs dope head to 200lbs. and then left it at that and then about a month later we had a joking conversation about juicing and then it got serious and she decided she was o.k. with it.
My wife knows and it wouldn't matter the least to me if she approved or not. as long as I do to her and for her what I promised to do then that is what counts. But I make my own choices and live with the consequences good or bad. But everyone has to do things the way their beliefs and personality dictate. I know I would hate and resent anyone that I was with if I felt I had to tip toe around and hide.
This is real talk thank you!
that makes alot of sense man! in my case people view you in a totally different light when they find out this kind of shit....
I hear you. I was speaking more to the wife scenario it is understandable for work or outsiders why you would keep it to yourself. I actually think that is a wise thing to do. In a marriage once you start hiding shit there is no good ending to it, mine as well end it or be upfront.
That pretty much goes without saying for most of us. I'm an ordained minister. How do you think that would go over? Lol
tell em you're using it to fight devil and protect people
Lol I got ordained to perform weddings only. Doesn't mean shit to me.
that makes alot of sense man! in my case people view you in a totally different light when they find out this kind of shit....
this shit sounds horrible, I'd never want anyone I know find out i'm using any AAS.
My wife knows everything. She's the one that use to give me my glute injections before I lost enough weight to be able to reach around and do it myself. Hmm, that's sounded awkward.
Pretty significant thread here. I actually am riding the fence here. I am a felon (drugs) and my first experience with AAS came from a TRT clinic. TRT totally turned around my life but the expense of the blood tests and the prescriptions led me to eroids. Soooo.....I actually have prescription bottles for test e, c, Deca, and hcg. Although I fill them with various suppliers here. I actually informed my girlfriend who doesn't live with me that I take prescription test and my son...since he sees the prescription hcg in the fridge.
Thats how I hide it ..... half truths