Boobs..or lack thereof..
I was overweight all through high school. Just babyfat really but I had huge boobs, DDD's. When I started working out, I dropped down to just D's. I loved my boobs! Now flash forward five years and I've started to lose the hard weight. And my boobs, because they have been so large, are now resembling pancakes. I have boobs that look like I've breast feed two kids and I haven't had any (no offense meant to those who do). That was the thing that first attracted my fiance to me was my boobs. Now I know the more fat I lose, the more pancaky they will become. I never dreamed I would have to think of surgury! I think I'm having a little self esteem break down and this is the only place I have to reach out to others that will understand! When did you guys know it was time to have surgery? Or what made your desision to not when your body started changing?
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I can relate to the feeling! I have always been busty. Even when I was younger and lost weight I never lost my boobs. Now I feel like I have boob bags! I have been thinking about implants also. I have a friend that loves hers and is sure I will too. I have always had huge boobs and enjoyed the attention. Now Im kinda excited about being a member of the IBTC. Man maybe if I keep working my chest out I may not need a bra! If Im honest, they really get in the way of lifting for me.
I got mine done just this past June. I never really had boobs to begin with. The biggest I had was a full C than I started training and they went down to a deflated B. I always knew I wanted to get them done. Pretty much all the women in my family are blessed upstairs. But ultimately it came down to how I saw myself in the mirror. I just wasn't happy. Clothes didn't fit right bras didn't fit right I just wasn't happy. My BF was with me before surgery but he is typically a boob man. He did not in anyway peer pressure me into getting them. But he told me boobs are great you can't go wrong with a great set but it doesn't define who you are. Did tons of research and finally decided to make a consultation. I went from a deflated 38A to 34DD. It was honestly the best decision I've ever made. If I would do it again in a heart beat. I feel better about myself. I can honestly say I did it for myself. I have a naturally wide frame so they fit me well and don't look alien big.
I pop in and out of the site. If you have any questions you can PM me I also wrote up post in the ladies lounge:
http://www.eroids.com/forum/general/ladies-lounge/post-op-workout-help
I haven't lost my boobs yet but when/if I do I m getting them back no question about it .. however, that said if love is based on completely physical aspects it is doomed to fail ... we all age, get older, change it is the way of life and attraction, in order to be something of substance, has to be based on things other than the physical .... sorry just my rant for the day
When I asked my partner what he thought, he told me whatever makes me happy, makes him happy. So I'm having a hard time with it because it was part of my self image, part of how I identified myself in my own mind, not because of my partner. But understand the rant lol
I understand that as a part of your personal self image.. the rant I am afraid came from some of my own shit and some recent conversations I have had with my ex and my significant other. .. I think he is correct and you should do what makes you feel happy