posted Wed, 08/22/2012 - 14:18
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Does your partner know?
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New here and just doin my research. 1 big question Ive got is would you tell/have you told your partner about your use of AAS? If not, why not, and if so what's their reaction? Just summat thats been playing on my mind.
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When my hub and i met he told me right off the bat. I am glad he was open and honest with me. I would rather he be on the juice than in a bar swillin away comin home smashed at wee hours of the morn or out on some drugs with the wrong crowd. I'll take AAS anyday over other vices. I didnt know much about AAS at the time we met but have def learned a lot together over the years and continue to learn. I have dabbled a lil but he def looks out for me! Wouldn't have it any other way!!
Thats cool that you two look out for eachother. Im assuming you train with your husband. MY girlfriend trains with me all the time. At first she was all intimidated about hanging around the free weights and dumbell racks with all the guys, but now she just laughs at how many people in there have no idea what they are doing. Now she's like "i cant believe that i was intimidated by these guys, i have better technique!"
We do train together at times... We are always crackin at the fools in the gym who are either lookin to see what everyone else is doing. We both LOVE LOVE LOVE the gym! Id spend all day there if i could!
When I first thought about doing them I spoke to my girlfriend about it. We both agreed it would help my training and me reaching my goals so long as I was safe about it. She is very helpful and even pins me. Theirs no way I could hide it from her. But if I wasnt in a serious relationship much less living with them, id probably just keep it to myself unless i was specifly asked.
Hey man this a great questions and one that myself and some of my team deal with. My wife walked in on me with a pin in my ass. She looked and said I'm sorry and left. That was that.
What we all find is that when they start seeing the results and feeling the results in the bedroom, And when they see the way other women start treating us, it makes them feel lucky to be our girl.
For a women, feeling lucky to be with you is one of the best feelings and really makes them put on their best show. So this is a win win win unless you lose control and start fucking up the house.
IN that case she will never accept you on gear. All of our wives resisted at first but now they love the fact that they are with alpha males, masculine, powerful men and would not be happy if we stopped.
So its best to let her notice over time and experience these good things before admitting it. IN MY EXPERIENCE.
Yes she dose and she is cool with it i let her smoke weed and i do my juice. All she ask of me is that i go to another room and do my shot. Never do it right in front of her...
I haven't figured out how to pin glutes or delts and being able to aspirate, worried about the long shot hitting a vein. So I ended up hitting quads eod for 11 weeks. Don't want to do that again. So if I'm still with this chick come november, I will sit her down and explain all the research I've done, and risks I know are involved and other meds and supplements taken and their purpose. And that I've done it before, which should help the cause. Then after telling her what I'm up to, will ask her to stick in my ass. The syringe, in my glute, that is. My neighbor/friend knows and he is a nurse, he's pinned me a couple times but our schedules didn't work out for him to help enough. I'll have him teach her to do it right. Bottom line, so much better off being honest and having a helper! Trying to be sneaky can hurt the relationship too.
Anonshooting delts and glutes requires a bit of dexterity and PRACTICE.. it really isn;t that hard to do with one hand..
Basic pinning I can understand. Even though until recently I've had an irrational fear of needles and still a bit shaky. But is aspirating possible with one hand? I've been warned that it's absolutely necessary, so I've done it with every hit.
AnonI pin myself and aspirate with one hand.. not that difficult at all once you get over the fear that your gonna hurt yourself
AGREED!
I am a solo pinner and pin thighs, glutes and delts. Have not tried bi's yet, but starting to look into it and pecs.
Some really mixed responses, thnx for taking the time. I just want to know how the hell to tell her in the first place that I want to go down this route.
Anonsit down and watch bigger faster stronger with her
My wife knows. At first she was worried. But I encouraged her to do her own research, even recently reffering her to this wonderful sight. After my first cycle many years ago so was totally cool with it. She actually looks forward to when I cycle on again. We always start eating better, work out together more often, and we all know the benifits of an increased libido.
I can understand some guys wanting to keep this a secret. But if you can get your parnter on board I think its beeter in the long run than the feeling being dishonest with your spouse. On the other hand, I don't tell ANYONE else. Nobody. And she knows to keep this to herself.
zewiMy wife knows, shes an RN, she usually pins my ass fro me. She always is on top of me (sex to) with making sure i have daily vitamins and eating right. Also takes my blood presser if I'm doing a long cycle, to make sure things are good.
She understand AAS is not bad if done correctly and your safe. And do a proper cycle. But she is always looking out for any signs of me being sick or warn down. She has made me stop a cycle before because of that.
I'm a lucky guy--Honesty goes a long way.
My wife doesn't know either. She was raised in a very athletic family and looks down on aas. I would love to be able to tell her but I don't think she'll take it well. I'm planning to start a short ester cycle in about a month and the eod pinning will be tough to hide.
I've even considered trying to get a trt script just so I don t need to hide it anymore.
Good topic, I know its beeepn brought up before but this happens to be suttin I'm conflicted with presently. My girl is a bsn as well and doesn't know. I feel like I'm guna have to make a decision ...her or the juice. I know shell be pissed.
When you tell her, make sure you let her know that you are perfectly awared of the risks, don't act like it's no big deal, because it really is
It was something that i talked about with my girl after i placed my first order LOL!! She was a little unsure at first but once she realized that it's not as bad as the movies make it out to be she was cool with it. Now she wants to start pinning me!
she asked to see my stash when i first told her and she looked at me like a heroin addict
Been there bro lol but now it's all cool, she even signs for my packs at the post office and as I said before, she pins me and gets me shit from the hospital where she works
Hell wish I could get my woman to pin me. She leaves me to do it myself.
Mine pins me as well
Mines a nurse, she didnt know at first, later down the road I had to tell her and now she pins me and gets me needles and seringes and bac water from the hospital all the time lol
my wife is a bsn and does the exact same thing lol
We're lucky bastards I guess lol
mine learned from a bsn that pined me and now she does it just as well if not better
cdaddy7My lady knows It's better to let her know up front. It will b obvious with accelerated muscle growth and the aggression not to mention the extreme libido that requires much attention daily. LOL . Best way to b is honest and upfront. Trust is always a decisive factor in the success of a relationship.
thnx mate. Just don't know how to explain it if I do tell her. I don't want to do it behind her back but I don't know that she'll understand an I don't want it to wreck stuff.
thnx to everyone else for responding. Just not sure what to do for the best