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+ 2 Women, Prolactin and Orgasms

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Question for the ladies....

Do any of you know much about prolactin as it effects orgasms for women? If yes, I would love to get your thoughts on this....

I've learned a lot bout it for men the past couple of years and when levels go very high it can cause anorgasmia (cannot orgasms, or difficulty in crossing the finish line). Libido can be sky high but orgasm can be high to achieve.

Anyway, I took a glance at this for women. Sometimes, depending on the menstrual cycle stage, women can find it harder to orgasm than at other stages. E.g. prolactin is lower and orgasms may be easier to achieve just before ovulation, during, just after, with very high sex drive. (week 2), Orgasms also easy to achieve. But into week 3 and built up by week 4, you have a higher prolactin level (up to period) and correspondingly, at least for some women, orgasms might take a little more work... idk, more foreplay or what have you.

Anyway... the reason I thought I would share this, is that having looked at it having already learned a lot about it in men and in particular male AAS users who end up with sky high prolactin, I then had reason to look at it for my Mrs. who was taking a certain SSRI med... her orgasms dried up, and low and behold the med can greatly increase prolactin (libido lowered a notch but orgasms very hard to achieve, even despite times of very high libido)...

This particular lady also had issues with birth control pill affecting libido. So this became a double whammy.

Anyways, just a thought... (only bloods can prove such a thing)... if you are on birth control your libido may be affected... if you take certain meds... your prolactin levels may rise and your ability to orgasm may be affected.... and even if it isnt crazy high, certain times of the month (week 3-4 of cycle) prolactin also rises naturally too anyway which may compound issues.

Managing prolactin (which is safe and shouldnt affect your cycle or fertility or fetuses etc.) may help you have boatloads more orgasms!

Vazinbon's picture

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Mom23boys's picture

I have always had a problem with climaxing. My husband and I talked about this on a regular bases. He wants me to like/love sex but knows the problem. We decided that I would try test prop after looking into it. Now remember everyone is different! I don’t advise anybody to go out and do this. This is just my story. There is some study’s about how test effects a woman.
I took a lower dose for well over a month. It worked for me. I have been on anxiety medication for years now and that also makes your orgasm on a whole different level. One last things there are always side effects of everything it’s crazy how taking one medication I believe leads to other medications needed to treat what the first medication does to a person. It’s just all crazy!!

SIx3230's picture

Oh thanks very good information

0newheelup's picture

Nice topic. Hits close to home. My gf has been experiencing this. Her libido is very high (always high), but the orgasms vary. Sometimes she gets off 2-3x's eod, then the next week itll turn into a workout. This is actually something she has been wondering about. I'm going to start paying attention to her menstrual cycle and get her to get some blood taken soon. She hates needles but anyway. I know the thread has been overtaken by us guys and has gotten funny, but I really would be nice for some women to chime in. They already know how to manage us anyways.. lol

pickle's picture

Slightly off topic but you mentioned SSRI's. My wife also started on an SSRI about 8 weeks ago. Her orgasms have been harder and harder to get and they arent as strong. Docs decided to treat her low T with Zoloft...go figure. We are going to do our own bloods this month to see if anything has changed.

THESTRONGEST's picture

yeah LOL ssri are notorious to have sexual sides, wellbutrin will counter the zoloft sides it has been effective when taken with zoloft to counter sex sides

giardap's picture

definitely on topic bro, definitely related

Zoloft is her SSRI? or is she also using another too?
Zoloft removed any libido I had left. It does this for most people that use it. It wont help her in that regard.

SSRI's are the devil man. Drs. are giving them, left right and center, to people for non-depression related issues like anxiety. It is crazy (pun intended). They work for a fraction of the population (but anyone with serious depression should definitely try) and the side effects and withdrawal symptoms are horrific.

I had to sign myself off zoloft as it made me suicidal, disappeared libido and made it impossible to blow a load. Desperate stuff.

Dacky's picture

Zoloft/sertraline was invented by the devil to rob men of their and their wives libido and ability to achieve orgasm. Fuck zoloft.

giardap's picture

Hear hear.

Bill G's picture

Yeah they are surly over prescribed. I have taken it in the past. Had severe anxiety. I felt it was circumstantial. I took it for about 40 days and the things in my head calmed down enough i could look at the problem . Then i could see it for what it was. Turned out i owed an amends. I worked through a solution. Then was able to wean my self off. I have always felt most of my trouble are self inflicted (of my own making) . And there is a solution to every problem

giardap's picture

x2 on the psychiatrists

over here all psychiatrists do is prescribe anti-psychotics, pretty much for everything
turn people into dribbling messes and hope time will fix them

madness

giardap's picture

I like your style Bill and I agree with your thought process. Too many people just looking for the magic pill, which is just a mask really.

Nice 1.

Sam I Am's picture

×2 Zoloft sucks.

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addicted.to.pain's picture

This is a good read, thinks for posting giard .

My current girlfriend is a hard cumer , by that I mean she takes a while to get to orgasm. Over the years I've learned how to get her there, but damn it son sometimes I'm covered in sweat by the time she has her "siezure" orgasm.
It just depends on the girl, I've dated a few girls that cum 5, 6 or more times before its all said and done, changing the sheets gets kinda old.

One trick I have learned though is using the backdoor gets her there a lot quicker, apparently there are more Meissner's corpuscle nerves located in her backdoor that trigger orgasms .

giardap's picture

See this is the fucking thing atp, my chick, when on form (before the meds she is now using) will have 5,6,7, orgasms, takes a little to warm up but then boom, 1 after another. Whereas now those stupid meds have numbed her.
She agreed to get her prolactin tested next bloods and aim for them in week 3/4 so that also should be interesting.

Yeah she is completely anti-backdoor, but I give her a tickle when she is ion the height of it and she does like it lol

pattar's picture

My wife orgasms like a guy not too hard to get her off but once she does she wants to go to sleep after. I then have to hurry and finish myself lol. Having 3 kids under 10 probably doesn't help..She has never had multiple orgasms from one romp in the sack.

pickle's picture

i just had my wife read the "backdoor" part, she rolled her eyes and left. worth a shot.

Bill G's picture

Don't tell her. When your back there and its about to happen. (The orgasm) . Stick your thumb in there just a little . Guarantee she will want it again.

Greg's picture

I tried that once... I only have 3 and 1/2 fingers on one hand now. Yup, it was a surprise for the both of us.

pickle's picture

You are going to get me in trouble but I’m trying it anyways.

addicted.to.pain's picture

lol , nah you wont. When your hitting it from behind and she starts to orgasm that ass will start to gape, there's your moment .

all it takes is getting her there one time with the backdoor, she wont complain again.

Sam I Am's picture

Seizure orgasm lol.

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Bill G's picture

This is interesting. The thoughts that come to mind with something my wife and i have been experiencing is resless leg syndrom. Which is treated with cabargoline. Also the treatment for elevated prolactin. I have noticed on days when she cant orgasm her legs bother her at night. Same with me. I will have trouble or " loose it" on the same days i have trouble with my legs. The only way i can describe it is we get " The Fucking HibleGibles" and have to move constantly to get comfortable. This could be causing enough distraction to cause the inability to orgasm. May have nothing to do with each other

giardap's picture

Could well be related Bill.
Bloods would show a correlation if one exists and then an experiment might shed further light

I have my Mrs. agreed to do a small experiment in week 3/4 of her cycle, so should be worth an update if it works

Sam I Am's picture

Wheres Natalika? She could clear all this up I'm sure.
She runs more shit than I do..notice how all the girls are avoiding this thread. Lol
Let's face it fellas they can take it or leave it.
That's why women rule the world..

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giardap's picture

Its crazy isnt it Sam
Makes you wonder about monogamy

Sam I Am's picture

Yea but for some odd reason my wifes low libido turns me on.
She rolls her eyes at me like let's get this over with.
Lol I tried to get her to talk down to me in a dirty way.
She said I'm a dumbass...

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giardap's picture

LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!
You mad man!!!!

heavymetalmonsterD's picture

This is an interesting topic..makes sense..i hope some females post their opinions on this

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Sam I Am's picture

Cant wait to hear some responses from the ladies.
My wife just laughed and said I'm an idiot...

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giardap's picture

Then she definitely needs some caber or prami in her life lol

Sam I Am's picture

I agree.

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GizmoDuck's picture

Wonder what Caitlyn Jenner’s is before her ovulation. Lol

Interesting post man.

Sam I Am's picture

Shes better looking than Chris...nohomo

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giardap's picture

LOL
Ah poor ould Caitlyn!!!
Whatever it is I am sure she is enjoying herself these after escaping from those other crazy women!!