posted Sat, 06/29/2013 - 19:53
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Family problem.....NEED HELP
My brother, who is 3 years older than me, and smaller than me has never questioned me about Gear usage, but today he has, he questioned me because of my pimply back, and how my workouts has been hardcore, and also my attitude...I answered NO.....
And also my cousins questioned me too, he asked me if I was juicing and I also denied.
- I don't want my older brother knowing I'm on the gear. Is it best to let him know? It's just a tough thing to admit to someone who is really close to you. He knows I take supplements, but not gear. Is it easy to tell if someone is on the Gear?
Should I just lay off the Juice for a bit?
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If your close to your bro mate tell him i've got 3 bro's and it's only my oldest that knows when ever i need advice i go and speak to him.
I'm not sure how your relationship is with your bro but before my older brother past he was my best friend. I told the dude everything. Honestly he had a asshole personality but I felt like I could tell him anything. Hell I showed up at his house because I thought I had crabs lol I was young and scared and he knew that but he still chewed my ass all the way to the doctor but he was there for me. He gave me some shit about sticking pins in myself but he knew I was serious about it and safe. I think you should tell your bro. If you can't tell your bro than you can't tell anyone....right?
Marcel1229Sorry about your brother :(
AnonTell ur bro, he knows anyway mate. He just needs confirmation.
Honesty is always the best when it comes to your family bro, have enough research under your belt to explain the good in it. The media stereotypes growth hormones as a horrible illegal substance but they never show how they can be used to better people if used correctly. These are the things you need to know so when it comes time to explain why you do what you do they can see a different side of these drugs. find some literature to back up what your telling your family. My whole family knows I take AAS and have never been looked down at for it, even my mother knows and this is the same woman who taught sunday the school at a southern baptist church all my life. We all have judemental relatives like Aunts, Uncles, cousins, if they are too judgemental then just tell them if they ask I guess youll never know because unless its you immediate family it really isnt any of their business. You do what you feel is right, If you feel like its going to start a storm than my advice is dont open the storm doors lol. But trust me most family will understand, you dont have to tell them you buy it off the black market, hell just tell them you go to a sports therapist or something. theres ways of easing them into it ;)
Marcel1229That's what I don't want, is my brother looking down at me and being ashame of me, he's proud that I have become a strong person.
I would be honest. He's your bro, AND your older bro. It's your call. Personally my little brother doesn't know about my usage though he questions it. Maybe when he's older I'll tell him but not now. I'd rather just be huge and then everyone assume I'm using and not bother asking me since they will be able to tell just by looking. Haha
Marcel1229What's good to let your little brother know, how old is he? And what's good that my older brother should know? It would give me a bad reputation
Marcel1229For those of you who are curious how big I look, this is what I look like now
http://www.eroids.com/pics/bulking-again
avocado13mother...We are all allowed to have private lives with some things being private from some people. I assume one day that my girlfriend's parents will be my in laws...do I have to tell them the nasty dirty things her and I do in bed?
pretty sure it would be assumed! Just like if you were a monster... there would be no need to question juicing...its implied... N get your punk ass outta here. I believe you were banned cause your a piece of disrespectful shit!!!
avocado13mother...I got your punk ass...more like I was banned for using bold words. Hey, if I get banned a couple more times they'll prolly make me mod. That's what happened with Irish bahahahaha
na i think u disrespected a woman and then got buck with Vik for tryin to straighten you out. if I remember correctly . Either way you dont "got my punk ass"
avocado13mother...I disrespected someone who disrespected me. I don't know what "got buck with" means. Looking at your photos you look like a white guy which just makes it sadder. You just keep working out those arms everyday little buddy. Sitting at 18 inches myself and im lucky to hit them once a week. Meh.
What does him being white have to do with anything
someone said your comment was unnecessary then you went way out of line and proceeded to call a female eroids member a dude knowing shes a female.
Completely disrespectful and out of line. THAT is why you got banned
Don't bring race into this avocado. All that does is show your true character and lack of integrity. Which is pretty pathetic.
Damn! I wish I had seen this guy earlier! Lol!
thunderbeasttrying to act hard on the internet just shows us all how sad you and insecure you really are.. You aint gonna get no poon acting hard on here, or in general. Also it's the biggest waste of time, i'm just getting what information and the advice that i need and i'm out. Walking on egg shell's here.
Yes I'm white
Im glad your proud of your 18's. you must have godly genetics
Up to you, depends on your relationship with your bro. Ive never lied to my bro and always said if he asked me if I juice Id tell him, well he asked me two weeks so I told him. Your brother should be the last person to judge you or repeat anything you tell him something in confidence.
Marcel1229My brother and I are really close, but we are complete opposites he's natural and him not.....let's just say he's the good guy and I'm the bad
wow i got a -3 for this ? interesting.....
Somebody might have a fat finger. I just +1 that back to you.:-)
lol yeah prolly the case, thanks homie.
Marcel1229I am really close to my brother, we workout with each other and ect. But we're opposites, let's just say he's the good guy and I'm the bad
Not ONE person knows I juice. Not even my wife, brothers, nobody. Who cares if they know or not
How do you hide it from your wife? Lol
I know her schedule when she will and won't be home so I pin USUALLY when she isn't home. keep it hidden somewhere. That's about it
Good luck when she finds out. And she will eventually find out, and she won't be happy. It won't necessarily be because you juice, it'll be because you hid it from her. Trust.
I've only done 2 cycles but she hasn't found out yet. n why would she be mad?
It's very likely that she'll find out. And you'll be surprised by how she did. She'll probably be pissed that you didn't feel 'close enough' to her to tell her about it. It's actually pretty deep psychologically. Hiding things like this from a wife is considered beta male behavior. An alpha male would tell her why he thinks it's a good idea. Stress how you're constantly striving to better yourself, and through extensive research, you only practice the utmost in safety. Show the benefits and risks, and how the benefits far outweigh the risks. BTW, women love men who are smart about their bodies and they are attracted to risk takers. But the risk you want to present to her is so low that driving a car to the market is more risky... as an example. Good luck bro.
Or how about I don't give a fuck what she has to think about it so I don't tell her. why tell something that nobody cares about? am I going to care if she ate a ton or died a month? working out? No, I don't. It could also be maybe I don't trust her or she might use it against me in a legal sense of things. maybe hold me hostage to it. Could be a bit of all main one being I could care less of getting her approval to something. Should I explain to her why its important for me to drink fine champagne cognac, remy Martin every night so she can support me?! :-) um no. If I want to buy a pint of remy for a week straight I will do it. who cares if she supports me? lmao. beta or alpha idgaf what someone else's opinion of who I am is. sorry
well since you seem to care about no other human or anyones opinions I can say u lost my respect in this whole conversation. You should have a little more respect for your family. I could care less if you hate me or other eroid members but it sounds like you got some issues to work out. Your with the wrong one also If your afraid of her blackmailing you with gear.
I do care but why seek someone's approval of something that really doesn't have anything to do with them is my point? N am I not the only one who seems to have been around women who act/say irrational things then maybe regret it the next day? Idk, I just don't feel like I have to tell my every move or thought to someone just because they are married to me. That's bad???
Because that's how women roll...
Lol
Marcel1229But dude, my brother is also a gym rat like me, and he doesn't believe in supplements and juice. Telling him would make him think of me differently. He would never think I would be on the juice, he knows I lift a lot and eat a lot, and I've been lifting for a long time, and now he questions me.....
First of all, fuck his opinion if you didn't ask for it. second, if he doesn't love n accept you for who you are then it wasn't true love or liking. Lastly, if you don't can't him to know, DON'T TELL HIM. if he keeps asking, ask him why do you keep asking me?! Do what you do and what works for you and fuck every body else that sticks their nose in your business
biggerthanyouHow old are u dude? Hiding shit from ur brother seems super childish...
Lol how? I'm sure you hide shit from everybody until you die. we aren't 14 year old high school girl posting our whole life on fb
biggerthanyouI guess I'm just assuming every1 has as good a relationship as me and my bro. We are only half brothers but 2 peas in a pod. Haha grew up fightimg constantly since we are only 1.5 yrs apart but now we are closer than any friend either of us have. But there are ppl I hide things from yes obviously. I remember giving him his first winny depot shot. The idiot insisted on doing a shoulder shot(I warned him it was a bad idea) and the next day he couldn't raise his arms above his head lmfaooo
Marcel1229lol winny depots hurts like shit, JUST DRINK IT!
Ya I was thinking like maybe I just don't have good relationships lol. But even if I did, I don't know if I would tell them unless I know they wouldnt care or use it against me
Marcel1229I'm young, I'm 22
I have my parents, wife, and friends all asking me if I use steroids. I tell them no because in my case if they knew, It would bring on way more problems. I have enoughf problems and stress already as it is. I think everyones situation is different to say weather it will work out or not for you to tell them you use steroids.
Marcel1229I'm pretty much in your situation. And also dealing with people accusing you and shit, like it's my fucking body, I do what I want, it's none of their damn business
You only have one family....You could hide it and he could find out another way down the road that you've been lying to him....What would that do to your relationship? I prefer honesty. My mom asked me I told her whats up... My wife knew since day 1. Everyone knows how serious I am about eating and lifting that they assume its just hard work. No one else aks....maybe just jokes about it
if you found out your brother was juicing and didn't tell you, would you even care he didn't tell you? If my brother was mad at me id tell him he isn't my fucking bitch I don't have to tell you my every move
That wasnt the question. I could give two shits to ask my brother(if I had one) if he was juicing cause Im not all caught up in other peoples business. No I wouldnt care if he didnt tell me. I believe I have a closer, tighter bond with my family than to keep the truth from them if asked. Then again my family doesnt judge me. Yes my whole family knows but then again there have been circumstances I've been put in that kinda made it hard to keep a secret. As far as the wife not knowing shit thats your call bro. keeping a secret from you significant other is fine until they find out. Whats she gonna think about your honesty and integrity when they know you've been lying from day 1? They will question everything not just the steroid use. Trust me I know. I hid a drug problem from my girl(now wife) and almost ended it over trust issues,,,,is one lie better than another???
Or for example, my uncle would have received a purple heart in the Vietnam war. He freed a bunch of prisoners of war. Got fed up n I guess broke out, grabbed a Vietnamese, participated in tearing off his head which put fear in others n pumped up prisoners helping lead to their safety. So time goes past as he is going to receive this award. Someone tells leaders that this "nigger was on drugs at the time" in which he admitted n his wonderful deed was canceled. I also feel like with my wife, every fucking argument n fight was cus of me n the roids. Probably all the future bs as well
Hell ya man you are right n I do feel that 100% about the whole, questioning what is and isn't true about the WHOLE relationship. See me, nobody has ever asked. They say wow you been working out huh. My wife, she seems not to even notice or pay attention but I guess if she asked and was very serious about it I would tell her. I just feel like people don't understand that taking roids isn't why they are big n strong. no im not big n strong because of them solely. Taking them just gives me the possibility of working out one way or another every day! So say I look huge, its not just cus juice. Ya know? Or a friend I lift more than, its like ya cus you juice. ya know?
as for lying to family, I have dealt drugs n when asked if I was doing it again, of course ik not going to say yes! Ya know?
Same instance, I doubt if I asked my woman if she was cheating and she was she would just come out n say it. Or something embarrassing they aren't going to admit it. I really don't know its a tough question