No matter the situation in life never give up. Failure is not an option. We have to reach failure before we reach success. Whether its going to get that new job or putting up another plate on your bench. Never give up no matter what. Its not easy in this method of learning how to live this way. To succeed is to believe. You have to visualize your goals and set up a plan of attack. If you fail once try again, and if you fail twice try again and keep trying until you get it. Its the same concept as learning to ride a bike. You fall down but you get back up. The will and drive pushes you to keep trying until you succeed. The same principals apply towards all other aspects of life. Keep trying. IT may be difficult and stressful but the end result will be rewarding.