What's messed up about that is... I had just hung up the phone w/ this chick and basically told her I didn't hav time to hang out w/ her anymore. I hit it once and then she asks me to leave her a key under the door mat the next day. she wanted to come to my house and wait for me to get home from work... and I basically had to tell her that I only wanted friends w/ bene's, and if she thought we were anything more, sorry. Then I ended up tellin her I really didnt have time to hang out right now, too busy. Get off the phone, walk outside and that's when I got charcoal dust bombed... I guess I kinda deserved it, but I was nice about everything. I still could tell she was hurt and let down in her voice tho. She's startin to act like a stalker now man?... txtn askin me to do stuff. I've said no to everything she asks me. i reiterate how busy I am. she shows up at my work "wanted to buy ya lunch" she says, I again say too busy dont have time. she txts, asks if she can rent a movie and come over... again I say I dont have time to watch a movie. then she asks what I'm doin mem day. I say workin. she says all day? I say no, I have errands to run after I get off and i am gonna get breakfast and workin on my house afterwards... I mean if someone wants to see you they make time to see you. Very clearly I am not making any time. I am afraid I am going to have to be mean if she persists. The fact is she's a nice chick, but she's recently divorced and has 5yr old twins, I have even told her I dont want kids(I have no kids). She is one of those that is not taking any sort of hint at all. I am going to have to tell her that I think If I were to be w/ her I would be settling and cutting myself short...